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SoCalEm

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Bariover54 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    I don't have a preop diet, which I find interesting now that I'm reading all the posts. I had a final "appointment" (via phone) with the surgeon yesterday and he's just requiring a liquid fast the day before.
    How is everyone planning for time off from work? I guess it depends on the physicality of ones job.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Bariover54 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    I'm having my surgery done through my insurance provider, and they're sending me home with a binder. I'll give it a shot and see if it's helpful.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Bariover54 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Hey all! I'm also scheduled for Feb 3rd and I'm getting the sleeve here in the Los Angeles area. I started this process back in August, and now that I'm weeks away, it's a little overwhelming. I'm mostly really excited, so I'll focus on that emotion as much as possible.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from FarfelDiego in Does Anything Help Hair Loss?   
    Hello! I’m just 5 months post-op and doing fantastic. Everything’s gone so well thus far except for the crazy amounts of hair I’m losing. It started a few weeks ago and hasn’t let up.
    I knew this would happen and it’s an easy price to pay for how healthy and happy WLS has made me. I’m wondering if anyone knows of a way to combat or at least mitigate the loss?
    My hairstylist suggested a supplement called Viviscal, and castor oil for my scalp, and Shampoo and conditioner that regrow and thicken hair. Has anything worked for you?
    Thanks in advance!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from bebaeg in I've regained the weight I lost   
    @ElseeGee181 I understand the struggle with pinpointing the core issues and triggers that caused me to emotionally eat. I chalked it up to boredom and just loving the way crappy food tasted. I went through months of self reflection and found so much insight from eating mindfully. Each time I impulsively ordered DoorDash or ate candy, I checked in with myself to find out what prompted the action and urge. I recommend looking into HALT self check. It stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired. It was so helpful for me and at least gave me a starting point to work through the underlying issues.
    Good luck!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    This was the moment I was overwhelmed by my sheer hard work and all I’ve accomplished: fitting absolutely PERFECTLY into an airplane seat. I was so excited. When I was first considering WLS, I said I just wanted to be able to do something as simple as being comfortable and able to move down the asile without bumping shoulders along the way.
    I actually cried when we took off. I was a huge moment for me.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    This was the moment I was overwhelmed by my sheer hard work and all I’ve accomplished: fitting absolutely PERFECTLY into an airplane seat. I was so excited. When I was first considering WLS, I said I just wanted to be able to do something as simple as being comfortable and able to move down the asile without bumping shoulders along the way.
    I actually cried when we took off. I was a huge moment for me.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    This was the moment I was overwhelmed by my sheer hard work and all I’ve accomplished: fitting absolutely PERFECTLY into an airplane seat. I was so excited. When I was first considering WLS, I said I just wanted to be able to do something as simple as being comfortable and able to move down the asile without bumping shoulders along the way.
    I actually cried when we took off. I was a huge moment for me.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    This was the moment I was overwhelmed by my sheer hard work and all I’ve accomplished: fitting absolutely PERFECTLY into an airplane seat. I was so excited. When I was first considering WLS, I said I just wanted to be able to do something as simple as being comfortable and able to move down the asile without bumping shoulders along the way.
    I actually cried when we took off. I was a huge moment for me.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    This was the moment I was overwhelmed by my sheer hard work and all I’ve accomplished: fitting absolutely PERFECTLY into an airplane seat. I was so excited. When I was first considering WLS, I said I just wanted to be able to do something as simple as being comfortable and able to move down the asile without bumping shoulders along the way.
    I actually cried when we took off. I was a huge moment for me.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    This was the moment I was overwhelmed by my sheer hard work and all I’ve accomplished: fitting absolutely PERFECTLY into an airplane seat. I was so excited. When I was first considering WLS, I said I just wanted to be able to do something as simple as being comfortable and able to move down the asile without bumping shoulders along the way.
    I actually cried when we took off. I was a huge moment for me.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Coolsf in VSG and constipation   
    Honestly the Constipation was more painful for me than the surgery itself. I had to see a doctor because I thought I was dying (swear it) but since incorporating fruits with Fiber (especially apples) and green veggies, it hasn't been as bad as before.
    I've found it to be an issue again when I slack on veggies and Water. My nurse recommended Smooth Move tea but I haven't tried it yet.
    Hang in there!
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    SoCalEm reacted to fourmonthspreop in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    91 lbs gone! 61 of those lbs lost in the post op phase. 4 months and 8 days since my bypass in FEB. Still lumpy but feeling so much better. I finally am at the point where I have too much energy and dont know what to do with myself half the time...started working out a lot.

    If you want to share and had your surgery feb 2022, show me some before and afters!

    Sent from my SM-G975U using BariatricPal mobile app


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    SoCalEm reacted to LaTiaV in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Hello all,
    Reporting, today at 189 I am overweight not obese , I am a bald overweight woman. I will start looking for wigs and hats 😕.

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    SoCalEm reacted to Arabesque in Anyone Struggle Watching Your Family Eat?   
    Embracing the tastebud changes & losing the craving for sugar was a big win for me too. I gave up soft drinks (sodas) years ago so I didn’t have to break my addiction to them but I enjoyed dessert & always at a sweet treat after dinner. I haven’t done that since surgery. Don’t miss it either. I will have a couple of spoons of dessert at Christmas (I make the Christmas Desserts so …) & then maybe a bite of one or two sweet things a year. Had a bite of a friend’s wedding cake last year - it was awful. But nothing yet this year. I remember accidentally picking up a box of honey oats during Covid lockdown in 2020. It was so crazy sweet I couldn’t eat it.
    Yes, fruit is my sweet treat now too (but I always enjoyed fruit). I have blueberries every day with Breakfast. Occasionally I might snack on some other fruit. I avoid artificial sweeteners where possible (they just feed your sweet cravings) & as I cook most of my own food from scratch it’s easier.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Coolsf in VSG and constipation   
    Honestly the Constipation was more painful for me than the surgery itself. I had to see a doctor because I thought I was dying (swear it) but since incorporating fruits with Fiber (especially apples) and green veggies, it hasn't been as bad as before.
    I've found it to be an issue again when I slack on veggies and Water. My nurse recommended Smooth Move tea but I haven't tried it yet.
    Hang in there!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Arabesque in Anyone Struggle Watching Your Family Eat?   
    No lie, I was angry initially. I don't think I could've stuck to the regulations had I not lived alone. I was fortunate in that case, and didn't cohabitate until almost two months later. I was told my taste buds would reset and have they ever. Because I was eating foods with so much sugar, things like strawberries, oranges, and grapes, just didn't cut it for me. Now that I've abruptly stopped bingeing on added sugars formulated in laboratories and not found anywhere in nature, fruit is a treat to me. I never thought an orange would be so delicious!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from summerseeker in Weirdest None-Scale-Victory - I'll go first   
    I’ve always entered a room, store, get together, etc and felt like everyone was staring at me because I was so heavy. It was constantly in my mind. Now that I’ve dropped from 2-3XL sizes to M-L sizes, it’s never a concern. It feels like a “weight” has been lifted and I’m free from the paranoia.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Arabesque in Anyone Struggle Watching Your Family Eat?   
    No lie, I was angry initially. I don't think I could've stuck to the regulations had I not lived alone. I was fortunate in that case, and didn't cohabitate until almost two months later. I was told my taste buds would reset and have they ever. Because I was eating foods with so much sugar, things like strawberries, oranges, and grapes, just didn't cut it for me. Now that I've abruptly stopped bingeing on added sugars formulated in laboratories and not found anywhere in nature, fruit is a treat to me. I never thought an orange would be so delicious!
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Arabesque in Kinda annoyed and confused   
    I think that's the point, to eat until you're comfortable. That's what we're supposed to get used to. Since getting sleeved almost 4 months ago, I've really learned how to tune into my body and hunger signals. Chewing 30 times or until the food dissolves forced me to slow down and be aware of everything I put in my mouth. The challenging part has been what I've chosen to put in!
    A tip I have I to drink as much Water, and as often, as you can. I found I'm significantly hungrier when I'm low on it. And adhere to stop drinking 30 minutes prior to eating, and waiting 30-45 minutes before drinking again.
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    SoCalEm got a reaction from Arabesque in Tell me why the sleeve worked for you when other diets didn't.   
    For me, it was a last resort. I had a come-to-Jesus moment when I realized all else had failed as nothing ever stuck. I was lucky enough to have had a therapist who'd specialized in eating disorders and she was my biggest cheerleader. The absolute necessity of eating nutritious food, and just enough to meet daily goals, forced a reset in my relationship with food. I feel so much better physically and (with very close monitoring by my psychiatrist) am taking one med as opposed to two. Mood swings caused by my sugar addiction have been been eliminated and now I'm able to work on the inherent stuff. It was and continues to be a total gamechanger.

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