Hi Sue. I think our age does have something to do with recovery, I noticed the younger gals seems to snap back a lot faster. I also think it depends on how much gas you have. I got it real bad in my shoulder and back.I am now 6 weeks post op and I am 100%. I still am a tiny bit sore in my port side if I lean over a lot , like when I weeded last week. Paid for that with being sore for a while. I have lost 16.5 pounds and go for my first fill Thursday. I am looking forward to it as I have no restriction. I am sticking to 800-1000 calories a day through will power, It will be nice to have the help of the band. Hang in there it will get much better.