Hello! I am new to this whole process as well. I've thought about the lap band for a long time, but never really had to courage to talk to my husband about it...now I have and he is a little hesitant about it, but is being supportive of my looking into it. I have a doctor's appt. tomorrow with my primary care physician and I plan to bring up the lap band. Hopefully she'll be supportive. I haven't met her before because I am on a different insurance than I used to be.
I have Cigna insurance and have read up on the requirements for approval of surgery. I currently weigh about 243 and have a BMI of 40 or a little above. I know Cigna says they need proof of having a BMI of 40 for 24 months...but I've bounced around in weight the last few years and don't know how it's going to work out. In April 2005 I weighed 255, then lost weight down to 209. Then I got pregnant, had a baby, and now am back up to the 240s. I called the weight loss center I went to back a couple of years ago to see if they can pull my records to show I was in the 40 BMI range back then and hope that will show I've been up there in weight for a long time. I have no health issues that would be considered "co-morbidity." But I am tired all of the time, my legs hurt when I try to exercise, and I just feel bad about myself. A couple of years ago a doctor even tried to diagnose me with depression and offered me antidepressants - but I refused them. Doping me up with medication is not the answer to my problem.
So I will start this journey officially tomorrow at my first Dr.'s appt and go from there. I know I will have to go through 6 months of supervised dieting to help get insurance approval...so let's hope I'll fit in with all the other categories that insurance requires!