George OG

@Creekimp13 bravo!You better not leave these forums,we need your unique insight.

@ScoutCR Thanks man.I’m just hurting inside in ways I didn’t think were possible.I just don’t understand how could I love her with my all,and sacrifice everything for her happiness,and she doesn’t even care about me?The worst part is what are son is going through now and will go through.I don’t even know if I will know what to do on a date.I think what happened is after surgery I found a new confident me!I don’t think she liked that.I believe she liked the me that believed nobody else would want me.I realize that it’s not ok for us to be treated like this!I know that there is a woman out there that will truly love me for me.I’m not taking this baggage with me I choose to release it.

You just went through a huge life changing experience.You body is doing things and feeling alien to you.But it does get better.Its a difficult adjustment initially,but think of it this way you are learning to listen,learn,and enjoy the new you!

2 hours ago, Kimber628 said:

It sounds like so much is going on. It’s not just your weight loss, but her badmouthing you to your child and telling you you’re not attractive. To top it off, she is hurting you financially. That just sounds wrong. You look very nice and I am so sorry you are dealing with this.
No matter how bad things are, I know it’s still hard to deal with the loss of your marriage. Take time to process and take care of yourself.
((Hugs))

Thanks Kimber it probably sounds lame but I could use a real hug☺️It’s been so long since I’ve felt loved.But I’m still holding out hope that somewhere on this planet there is Simone

6 hours ago, Bryn910 said:

You look like a normal man to me.

i am sorry you’re going through this but if someone isn’t making you happy and can’t support you then it’s time to try and fix it or leave.

Continue with your success and again, you look great

Thank you.I realize it’s time to go.

6 hours ago, ShimmyShade said:

Welcome! I remember seeing your other post and I'm glad you came here since support is lacking at home. You deserve better and I'm glad you joined the forums so you can be reminded of that and get answers to any questions you have. I'm rooting for you!

Wow thank you so much.It might sound silly but you just made me feel amazing!

45 minutes ago, superthin said:

You look amazing George! Dr Phil always says to remove all toxic people from your life, especially if they don’t want to change. It’s like a drug addict, you can’t make them stop they have to want to. Good luck with everything.

Wow thanks!I actually tried to get on the show about our marriage but never heard back😂

2 hours ago, insta_adventurer said:

Also- you look great and remember- how people treat others usually has more to do with how they’re feeling internally.

Thanks.I need to remember that.

Here if you need to me talk

On 3/16/2016 at 2:03 PM, BSanchez2016 said:

Hey guys, I'm Bob 24 years old from Brunswick, GA, I'm 6' tall and weigh around 536lbs. I am in the process of getting the Gastric Sleeve and have so many questions that are hard to ask a doctor. I have asked questions until my face is blue! So my question for the guys is this... tell me about your man parts lol...

how did your penis size change after seeing results from your weight loss surgery? Did it get bigger? I have a decent size to begin with but the fat mound around the base is big... help me out! give me some motivation... share pics with me if you want (Not gay just would love to see the difference!)! I try to Google full body nude pics of men after significant weight loss and no luck....Just want to see my future!

Hope to ignite some response!!

-Bob

It was like going from a Prius to a suburban 😂

On 4/22/2018 at 4:31 PM, Mrambition30 said:

Scheduled for surgery May 17 and i haven’t told a lot of people. Number 1 I’m nervous I’ve never had any type of surgery. Also on top of that the very few people who know all aren’t supportive but there’s a good amount who are but many seem to think I dnt need it by which one is my mom. I’m 31 years old 282 lbs and i really have struggled over the years with my weight and have been boarderline diabetic and hypertension. Has anyone else dealt with similar backlash? Btw my wife and I doing it together

I was scared as hell!The first thing I said when I woke up was “I’m alive.”.People make me laugh.You can’t win with some,they’re not supportive if your fat and if you want surgery they don’t like that either.The surgery was a breeze,I was up and walking the halls that day.I had the surgery because I was scared because my weight was going to kill me.I will say you are a very lucky man because your wife is doing this with you!

On 4/16/2018 at 3:21 PM, Creekimp13 said:

With luck, you'll be one of the folks who doesn't feel hungry at all:) Both reactions are pretty common.

Hey girl🤗

I’m 2 1/2 years post op and have no hunger at all.It’s awesome and dangerous 😂

I work in a factory it gets hot.When I returned to work it was very difficult to get the Water in.Im 2 1/2 years out now it’s ok.What I did was hydrate as much as I could before work,and every break.I’m originally from Alabama so I feel your pain.One positive the more weight I lost the less I would sweat,I barely sweat now.One thing you could look into is in some very hot environments some places use special hydration pouches.I hear a lot of good thins about those,and the people I know that use them are working in extreme heat!

Sex

On 5/10/2018 at 3:33 PM, Fishbonz said:

Hey guys. Simple question... After surgery are you able to eat enough of your favorite foods to satisfy your mental cravings?

Surgery scheduled for August 2018

On 5/10/2018 at 3:33 PM, Fishbonz said:

Hey guys. Simple question... After surgery are you able to eat enough of your favorite foods to satisfy your mental cravings?

Surgery scheduled for August 2018

I’m 2 1/2 years post op and my hunger sensation never returned.I have no hunger at all!It’s nice but scary because I was going through a busy stressful time and went 3 days without eating.I have to be very mindful to eat when I see food.

Do you still need people?

Yea I would say get the testosterone checked,or maybe he could have a Vitamin deficiency.My desire went through the roof !

How you doing so far?

On 10/2/2013 at 12:31 PM, 5.0junkie said:

Figured I'd get hump day started with a question.

Is it true when they say that for every 35 pounds you lose you start showing an extra inch on the ole wedding tackle???

I lost 225 pounds and went from having a bottle rocket to a patriot missle

I’m 5’5 heaviest weight was 380.I too had all my weight in my midsection.I’m 2 1/2 years post op and I weigh 165-167.I don’t like myself naked,but even in suits you don’t see the skin.On the bright side I can easily see my manhood now.That is a huge feel good moment 😂

3 hours ago, Frustr8 said:

It is always sad when something dies, especially a relationship. Only,you you know whether it can be resuscitated . But George OG you are strong, you are resourceful, you will do what is correct.
PS She is dead wrong- you ARE NOT UGLY- I would be proud to walk side-by-side with you in friendship.😛👍😛

Thank you very much!

4 hours ago, BuzzVSG said:

I am still a work in progress. First pic I was about 286, second pic about 202.

Great job!

Awesome thank you

5 hours ago, actuallylosingit said:

Thanks for sharing! Mine is typically a two week clear liquid diet so i believe i will be on a 3 week clear liquid. I'm glad to hear the second week was easier. Great job! 40 pounds in 2 weeks is quite a bit of weight to lose.

I believe in you.If you ever need to talk feel free to hit me up!

6 minutes ago, Half-Tum said:

Awesome job!