I appreciate your dilema. In my opinion, I would absolutely get the band first - with no delay and also talk very honestly with your fiance about waiting. It's a health issue that is more than physical - also emotional and mental in becoming comfortable in your own skin.
I also think ajoneen has a good idea - get the band/set the day for 1yr. post op and go for it!!!
need to be band , before my wedding
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I appreciate your dilema. In my opinion, I would absolutely get the band first - with no delay and also talk very honestly with your fiance about waiting. It's a health issue that is more than physical - also emotional and mental in becoming comfortable in your own skin.
I also think ajoneen has a good idea - get the band/set the day for 1yr. post op and go for it!!!
Love yourself sweetheart - we are all imperfect.
I will remember you in my prayers.
- Ducky