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Kimberlymi- That’s disappointing to hear. There is no literature to support that.

He’s why so many surgeons have different “rules”- a lot of docs infuse their opinions into their treatment as opposed to staying evidence based. Or they rely on older literature. I am an organ transplant coordinator and see this in critical care all all of the time. Caffeine is a mild diuretic. However the research shows that you absorb more liquid from the water in the coffee than you urinate out. So yes. Water is better for hydration. However no amount of coffee will dehydrate you. It’s not possible.

I had coffee in the hospital post op. Now I'm 5 weeks post op, I drink coffee and espresso daily. Hot cold dosent matter. Usually black sometimes I enjoy a dollop of whipped cream or steamed foam in my espresso. The whipped cream is around 10 cal and the foam 5. In my iced coffee I go black with some splenda or sugar free syrup. I've started doing Iced coffee with no sugar vanilla blended. I get weird looks but its a 0 cal frap. Ive been using straws since being in the hosp post op. Never had an issue.

My program has no issues with straws or blended drinks. Actually the straw IN my blended drink allows me to avoid the foam.

I’m just going to brag a bit. My wife had been an angel. And I’m kind of a pain in the butt as a patient. As relieved as I was to wake up post op to her I was even more reassured as I waited to be wheeled into Surgery that she’d be there afterwards. A good partner makes such a difference. Cheers to those that support us!

Disclosure- I’m a long term paramedic who has treated thousands of diabetic emergencies. But I’m certainly not a GP or an Endo. Please consult yours. That being said, having your blood sugar slightly elevated (less than 200) for a little while while you titrate your meds isn’t a huge deal. Over time it does a lot of damage. Hypoglycemia however is immediately life threatening. So my best advice would be to consult your GP or in the mean time your surgeon and ask about stopping your your long acting and increasing your monitoring. Especially if you also are on orals. Wishing you all the best.

I’m ok with protein shakes but sometimes I need something savory. My saving grace had been bone broth with some soy sauce, garlic and a few drops of sesame oil, I then add some non flavored protein and then thicken it with some corn starch.

I have another perspective. My wife and I are going through this journey together and we both have read the other gender forums to get a feel for what support we each might need. That info is really valuable. Maybe just now allowing one to post in the opposite genders room. I do understand and respect the other perspective of course.

Coffee, iced coffee, espresso you name it. I’m one week out and my doc was done with it. It makes me quite happy. No issues. Honestly my sleeve finds the warm coffee quite soothing.

Wow so much heavy feels in this thread. Rucamama I’m glad you are on the other side of this and doing well! You are an incredible strong woman.

Looks amazing. And it’s great to hear insurance paid for it!

My wife and I discussed this before my WLS. To be frank I brought it up. She is a teacher and has seen people have WLS then often plastics and watched them “go crazy” with affairs and then divorce. From her perspective people seemed unused to the newfound physical attention from people and spiraled out of control. 10 years age we had real challenges in our relationship with a close call with infidelity. I was really worried that my losing weight would make her afraid of me falling into the patterns above. I’m a week out and 30 down from my HW. I’m still a little worried about how this stressor will affect us. But I have OSA and high blood pressure on 3 Meds. My dad had a stroke at 50. I want to be around to see my children get married. So I’ll very mindful of My marriage. We have had a few really positive discussions about it and I’ve validated the concerns she didn’t really know to voice yet. But as much as I value my marriage I value my health more. I’ll be very careful to feed my marriage but I won’t continue to risk my heath because of the risk to my marriage. So that gets to the important point. I had surgery to save my life. That truly was and is the most important thing for me.

I remember waking up in PACU with my wife by my side woh her hand on my forehead. It was very peaceful. And the meds during Surgery last for a few hours. My surgeon used a PCI pain pump so I just clicked the button when ever I needed more. I was out of bed and walking within 6 hours. I switched to oral pain meds the next morning. Honestly the worst pain I’ve had through the whole experience is a 4/10.

Same here I’m 6 days out. My Doc started me on ducolax. I’m also taking a fiber supplement. Lots of gas passing and peeing just fine. Hitting all of my water and protein goals. I’m getting a touch concerned. Would appreciate your experiences.

Yikes Doc. Fat thumbs. Lol.