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Welcome @ Lyngolean. Certainly hope,this successful story goes on, please update us as you progress.

@Carlitar please continue with updates to your story, there may be things we all can use in our own journeys.

OMG you just prompted a memory. Saw lady other day , very tanned , highly wrinkled, looked like a scuffed up piece,of luggage, wanted to ask her if it was time to upgrade to American Tourister or Samsonite?

You are in the "Show me State" show us how it can be done and done with class. Sending healing thoughts your way🌈😛🌈!

@Beanie Sprouts I have a suggestion, maybe it's not a great alternitive? We used to make a butter ball to get horse pills, well he thought they were that. Put a little butter in a spoon, roll it around then pop that sucker in . You don't have to rat me out for suggesting a fat, one of my friend's put her Elmer's in Butter flavored Crisco, now THAT I would find yucky!😪

And my late June, July and August friends WE WILL WIN THESE TOO! Let's keep our eyes on these and the other rewards in our lives for the upcoming surgeries!😛🍶😷

It is , right next to,the refridge handle- as a quiet reminder of where I've been don't ever want to move back to!😛🌈😛

this is the third attempt I have had this am trying to post this! My phone keeps dropping this conversation. Don't understand why. I am sorry your husband won't climb on the" @kjallen train🚝 to success", only excuse and I'm not sure of its validity, he is still wearing his mourning glasses and can't see anything else. I will be having,my RnY next,month at OSU-Wexner Medical Center in Columbus, my story has had twists and turns in it. Post back,of better yet,,PM me and I'll explain it all. KJ you have all of us Bari-brothers. & sisters in your corner , we all will cheer you on, it just hurts when someone who professes love for you isn't all they can be! Your Bari-Supporter.......Frustr8

Never ever give upon yourself, you are your own best advocate, only you can sing your song for no one else knows the words. Even when,it seems the 🌎is against you, hold solid to you! You are,the best and hands above average!👼

At least you didn't hear,"No No a thousand times No. Not as long as I can draw breath!" You have gotten a reprieve, every time,you get peeved or angry, tell yourself, I should. have said NO No, iinstesd of I'll have another! We can't be there to say,Bad bad naughty to you, you have to do it now and for your future health.

that did not come out exactly right. I believe you can follow this plan and acheive your success And so you will be ready for surgery and in a month I can follow your footprints in life's sand and obtain my own victory Now that sounds a little garbeled, doesn't it?😪✌😝

And I believe you will be able to follow this perhaps ive in your ability to pull all,this off, and I'm going to trust since you

And while we are confessing a little, I get saddened. Why, you might ask? Because when I read your surgery journal, I am sad and envious. I read how kind and supportive your spouses are , I ask prayerfully Why couldn't mine have been like that? As a human, there were facets of him that one can admire, but why did he hate me so badly that he couldn't boost me there. I tried many plans and diets to lose weight and he ridiculed every attempt, told me I was a screw-up, I would not have success in this or any other life bettterment. So it is wonderful that you have received pride in your weight surgery, sustainment of the relationship, assistance with child cares But why could a person who claimed to live me treat me in an opposite manner. Is the flaws in me, the reason why I didn't receive better at his hands? I will always wonder,and never find an answer to this question.😪

Yes but I felt sorry for it, I also have been told i am old and of limited value to the world. And I had a doctor get in my face, yep close enough his breath could be smelled and he had a bratwurst and saurerkraut for lunch. Said "I expect you to weigh no more than 134 lb after I get done with you" Yes, I said "I expect you do, but without bariatric surgery it will never happen!" FYI,I hate, loathe and ignore people who get. within 4 inches of my face, unless they are planning to kiss me. And this guy, had he tried I would have bit the top of his tongue off! They removed most of my sweetness with my last operation.😡

Gosh I wish I was in Illinois instead of Ohio💦😌💦

Sundown, Spring Valley, Nature Made Nature Bounty.

I still wish bariatric centers and hospitals had a clothes close,towhere you could trade,in clothes, like I'd bring in 26 and 28 that I've "undergrowth" and trace for some 22 or 24, we I undergrow them get some 18 and 20. Yes I probably could jumble sale them but I don't want to watch others paw them and throw on the floor or ground. 🎽👗👚👕👖

Yes but are you snorti g and pawing the ground? Could be what they are there for!🐎

Remember A woman's curves hold as much explosive power as A double barreled shotgun.

@Kadidy and,@Debbie1500 how are you both doing this far into June? Update us furthur, please?😪

Maybe you look like Drew Barrymore,cast in a movie re make of Pearl Buck's The Good Earth.♨

Hopeful 🙏you are indeed baking your own little "bun" in your personal " bakery". Keep us updated please?,👍👶👍

Matt Z awesome advice, wish there was a way to vitual post-a-note things on here. Rather like:" I might need this advice,later, Mark it quick!"

I had a picture of me in my Levi capris and a t- shirt, mind I thought it was a pretty fine one until I noticed how fat, swollen and discolored my lower legs were getting. They were getting to look like those elephant-footed umberella stands.💦😨💦

What we named is some background music for your surgery.🏥 How about. Gladys Knight and the Pips singing "It's Sleevy Time Down South" as they roll you through those,Magic Doors.😷--🚑--😷