Hopefull,do you need an older perspective? I am 72, going to have RnY surgery within a few months and anticipating it being great. Yes I too read the" coulda" list, like the others said,there is more danger walking downstairs and you might fall, you could choke on your Breakfast, get run over by a bus or car, none of that has happened yet? Good, and the likely-ness of any of the others happening, even less likely. Life is a gamble but with all the advances in science and medicine you are holding a winning hand. I too will have my surgery in a teaching hospital, that doesn't worry me because those are the best cutting edge facilities. Shoot when I'm sprawled out, if I can help with their instruction, okay. I'm sure my doctor will have me surrounded with the best of the best, if there are junior doctors they will also be trained well or they won't be allowed to be present. Those bad things you've heard about are more likely to happen to someone my age. Am I concerned? Heck no, my life with surgery will be vastly superior to the life I currently live. I have had arthritis since 25, every bone is or has ached, I have had 2 knee replacements, I have a plate and 12 screws in my upper right arm that fixed a fracture. I have had a bunch of minor breaks that ache, they ache more because I am and have been obese for years. You do get sick and tired of being sick and tired. You have an opportunity to have your body repaired, realigned and made better. Do not wait as long as I have---please. Your skin will go back into shape and smooth out as you lose weight. Mine will probably look like a Shar pei, but guess what, its better to be a loose skinned puppy than lie dead in a casket. I may not have too many more years on this earth but I want to live them healthier fitter and smaller. The trade off for me: surgery and a renewed life vs. obesity and the chance of death? I chose life, my journey started in August 2015, many bumps and twists in the road there,but I'm sticking through to the finish. I feel I can do naught else. If you feel scared,if you feel nervous, talk to me. I have had a lot of life experiences, some scarred me but most have made me stronger. I am a tough old female who's going to win this battle. The world will not vanquish Major General frust8, I will fire every gun and cannon at my disposal until. my war is won. Can you do any less? Come join me if you can.
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