YummyMummy303

Ahh don’t ask - either people are understanding that we’re all going through a lot, or they’re just here to act perfect and slam anyone that’s honest about their struggles. It’s so interesting what you and timar are saying is on plan. Nothing you’ve listed is really bad for you. I mostly eat healthy, but surgery has helped me a lot with hunger most the time, and what I chose, but also quantity. I can’t even eat a small can of tuna for dinner right now. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thanks Timarland - both your comments are on point! Really well said! Xx Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thanks Jess, and thank you for clarifying. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

So now every single post I write on here all of you are going to come on and continue to slam me over a post I wrote at 2 weeks post op about being honest about having a bite of pizza??? Do you not think there’s anything wrong with that? If my post is unrelated why are you all still bringing it up to start a fight? It was weeks ago and I’ve lost 20lbs since op. Stop trying to drag me down and everyone on here being honest. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

You are a hypocrite - you wrote a post on how hungry you were not long ago because you too prepare meals for the family - so it’s ok to bash someone over a bite of pizza 3 weeks ago? Get lost, you’re all such assholes that have completely overreacted for the sake of being jerks. You need to look in the mirrors. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Oops meant: and unrelated* Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thank you so much for your post. Most mothers do understand what it’s like, so thank you for your considerate and honest response. All the best to you too. I think there are many on here that want to make you fail. Did a bite of pizza kill me? No. Did it stop me losing weight? No. It hasn’t really stopped people on here getting obsessed over it even though this post is 3 weeks later an unreleased. Sheesh. Unbelievable. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

LMAO! Ok... yeh it’s those stupid newbies... right. Bye then! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

And this post is a perfect example that it’s actually snide and condescending comments like this from vets that show you actually don’t want people to succeed. It’s like you want to make them feel bad so they fair. Who’s fooled. I think it’s sad to be on here acting the way so many vets do 4 years post op, like they’re life revolves around the surgery instead of food now. I adore the ones that come on to share posts and updates, but the ones that basically live on here - that’s just really sad. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

In four years I’ll be enjoying my body and life and won’t be on here scolding people new to the surgery. Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Guess what Kate? You’ve just proved my point! 1) it was a bite 2) this post wasn’t about that 3) it did not cause damage You and others on here are bullying people for being honest. I am 5 weeks post op now, and I am disgusted at the way some of you behave. If anything could have done damage to me it was the way you all treated me when I created that post at 2 weeks. Why are you posting on my thread besides wanting to argue and be rude? Did you go through everything you did just so you could come on here and slam people early in their own journey or did you do it for you? What do you want? Do you want me to say how amazing you are, that you’re so much better than everyone else on here? You’re not, and we will reach our goals too despite people like you trying to drag us when we slip up. For God sake, do you have a life out of here? I’m proud of losing 20lbs in a month, considering I only have another 40lbs to get to my goal - so keep your negative judgment to yourself. You have clearly come on here to keep criticising me about admitting I ate a bite of my kids pizza at 2 weeks, which is now 3 weeks ago and nothing to do with this post - so don’t you DARE come on here acting like anything you are posting is anything but a bullying attempt! All of the vets like you should just leave people alone - you are NOT surgeons, you are NOT nutritionists, and you are NOT better than anyone else! We all have our own journeys! We all got here our own ways. I put on weight during my second baby, other people it was a lifelong battle - but one thing is for sure - we don’t need being scolded by know-it-all vets so early in this life changing surgery! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Kate - thanks for yet another smart ass vet response. We are not the ones that are know-it-alls, we are at the start of the journey and looking for others experiencing similar challenges and blocks. Perhaps some of you have forgotten what it’s like at this stage, or you’re hungry for more awards on here, whatever it is: coming on and shaming people doesn’t help anyone. I am clearly not the only person on here that has had bad days and going through it, but you’ve singled me out. What’s the point? Congratulations to all the vets, you should be proud of your weight loss, but if you want to come on here and act like it was always easy, and you’re so much better than anyone else, than maybe you’re looking for something on this forum that we can’t give you. We clearly need support more than any of you do at our stages, and it’s not what many of you give on here, so why bother just to make us feel bad about posting? Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Sorry if you didn’t understand my post - but I wasn’t asking for your pant size - I’m not sure if you want an award. This was about people that have slipped up at times, how they dealt with it and kept going - which you have done also, but I guess it’s ok when you do it, just not anyone else. I was 4 weeks and nothing I ate was not allowed for safety reasons, it just wasn’t as healthy as I should be eating. Everyone has weak moments, there are hundreds of posts just like it, only as soon as I post anything it draws all of the vets to come on and start scolding me. Don’t bother if it’s not going to be constructive. There are plenty of people that came on, understood the post and offered constructive responses, but again I have to close this thread because of the few that take it as an opportunity to come on and act as though they are perfect and everyone else should be - which is completely unhelpful! Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

Thanks Mama - that’s what I was looking for to know I’m not alone with bad days. My portion has improved a lot and 20lbs down at 5 weeks post-op, but I think it’s important to be honest that it hasn’t always been easy, and I have slipped up because not everyone on here is as perfect as some like to claim they are. Let’s stay on track, the holidays are a really hard time for many people, so thank you for being honest about your journey! Xx Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs

In other words: we got off topic guys - let’s go back to abusing the OP when I haven’t listened to a word she or anyone else had said. GTFO Sleeved: 2/12/2017 SW: 209lbs/95kgs