You look great! One thing I remember from my college years was that when I was at my thinnest, at the weight I'm now using as a goal, there was still a guy telling me I should lose ten pounds more. I don't remember his name, so you can imagine how seriously I took that.
Good luck on your hunt. Another thing I think is silly is the "it'll happen when you least expect it" truism. I spent twenty years ignoring men and relationships and guess what? Nothing happened. If you want a relationship, go right ahead and look for one. Be creative, be active, be relentless! Go for it.
