Sosewsue61
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Sosewsue61 reacted to Newme17 in So the ex-bf is completely out of the picture. I could not handle the uncertainty of
Love yourself always....I'm constantly telling others to "take care of yourself before you take care of others." (mostly financial stuff with my family/friends), but anyway, it applies to all aspects of life-also preaching to myself LOL. For me, I placed myself on the back burner (still tend to do it) to my husband and kids. I "let myself go" for them. BUT, if I truly LOVED and CARED for myself, I would have taken much better care so I can be healthy for them! So, absolutely love yourself, then you can truly take care and love others just as much.
And in regards to the irrational ex bf....when you have such confidence with yourself, you will not put up with that mess. That's a great quality to have!
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Sosewsue61 reacted to Apple1 in So the ex-bf is completely out of the picture. I could not handle the uncertainty of
Amazing transformation!!
As women we tend to take care of others and always place our needs and wants last. That only works for so long and then we get to the point where we have nothing left to give. I am preaching to myself here as much as any one else.
You keep on loving yourself girl!!
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from FluffyChix in So the ex-bf is completely out of the picture. I could not handle the uncertainty of
Good for you darlin'. I remember that relief, flooding relief when I asked my alcoholic husband of 18 years to leave because I had filed for divorce and assistance....I could wake-up and know exactly how the adult in the house was going to behave - because it was me!
Great attitude. Keep up the good fight.
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from MissRobin in Seeking support. I feel like I am loosing my new self to the evil of my old self. The
You did it before and can do it now. Try to remember how you handled this in the past. I write intermittently in a journal and can look back to see what was going on that made me make bad choices. Honestly I had anxiety over something that didn't even deserve my attention - and then think - 'you fool it all worked out in spite of the drama and it got you nothing.' A lot of the time it was other people's problems and not even my own. It's hard to give ourselves the attention we need and deserve but we HAVE to do it. No one else is going to do it for us.
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Sosewsue61 reacted to FluffyChix in Seeking support. I feel like I am loosing my new self to the evil of my old self. The
Saying prayers. You got this. Wake up today and just make 1 change. Eat protein first. Go back to basics!!! ((hugs)) It's got to be terrifying.
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Sosewsue61 reacted to Apple1 in Seeking support. I feel like I am loosing my new self to the evil of my old self. The
Keep digging deep for your inner strength. You can do this!! Prayers to you.
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from MissRobin in Seeking support. I feel like I am loosing my new self to the evil of my old self. The
You did it before and can do it now. Try to remember how you handled this in the past. I write intermittently in a journal and can look back to see what was going on that made me make bad choices. Honestly I had anxiety over something that didn't even deserve my attention - and then think - 'you fool it all worked out in spite of the drama and it got you nothing.' A lot of the time it was other people's problems and not even my own. It's hard to give ourselves the attention we need and deserve but we HAVE to do it. No one else is going to do it for us.
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Sosewsue61 reacted to MissRobin in Seeking support. I feel like I am loosing my new self to the evil of my old self. The
I am finding it very difficult because I have kept my surgery journey to myself. I have a great issues with appearing weak, thus struggling silently and not express my difficulties to others.
Today is the new chapter in my Book of Life.
Thank you for your kind words.
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from MissRobin in Seeking support. I feel like I am loosing my new self to the evil of my old self. The
You did it before and can do it now. Try to remember how you handled this in the past. I write intermittently in a journal and can look back to see what was going on that made me make bad choices. Honestly I had anxiety over something that didn't even deserve my attention - and then think - 'you fool it all worked out in spite of the drama and it got you nothing.' A lot of the time it was other people's problems and not even my own. It's hard to give ourselves the attention we need and deserve but we HAVE to do it. No one else is going to do it for us.
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from Sleeve1stFitNext in I fit into a size 12 ya'll. A SIZE 12!!!! OMG!!! Yes. I only lost 2.2 lbs but I dropp
Great job!!
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from skinnygirlinme in I purchased a blouse last week at Nordstrom without trying it on, just looked at it o
Awesome! I hope to get there.
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from Sleeved3.29.17 in This weekend I purchased my first high fashion designer dress, that was not on cleara
Well that was a teaser!!! lol At least show us the goods woman. Pictures pretty please!
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Sosewsue61 got a reaction from Sleeved3.29.17 in This weekend I purchased my first high fashion designer dress, that was not on cleara
Well that was a teaser!!! lol At least show us the goods woman. Pictures pretty please!
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Sosewsue61 reacted to OutsideMatchInside in This was a bad day to run out of Halo Top. My AC broke, I think it has been broke pro
I can walk to the grocery store. I might later. I don't let myself get Halo Top unless I am willing to walk to the store and back to get it.
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Sosewsue61 reacted to OutsideMatchInside in I'm baking cookies for the first time in a really long time. I'll let you guys know h
I don't really like cauliflower based recipes. I made them all experimenting last year. I would rather use Bob's Red Mill Low Carb bake mix or something else than cauliflower. It is a lot of work for very little pay off.
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Sosewsue61 reacted to OutsideMatchInside in I'm baking cookies for the first time in a really long time. I'll let you guys know h
Gooddees.com chocolate chip. They are good without being binge worthy. 2 were enough for me. I got 14 cookies out of the mix using my cookie scoop. They would be good to take some place for a pot luck or whatever. No one would know they are low carb.