Sophiedofie

I don't know if it was an insult honestly. They were probably remarking to each other you were hot or something to that effect.
Don't get me wrong, they are pigs. But it sounds like a objectifying action more than a personal insult.

Hello sorry your not losing at the rate you would like to but are you still losing at all?

I'm 57 & will have Gastric Bypass on May 30, I start my pre op diet tomorrow

I read men burn calories faster than women but that said I'm 61 and don't think age has anything to do with how fast or slow you loss weight. To me it's your metabolism. My example is me. Basically I'm lazy when it comes to working out. I don't go to the gym but do love working in the yard, weather permitting. I started my journey last Aug and have lost 81 pounds since surgery. To me that's pretty good for not doing much exercise. My weight loss has now slowed down to about a pound a week. So my thoughts are who cares how fast or slow you loss. Stick to the plan and everyone will get to their goal.