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SpiritedOne

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    SpiritedOne reacted to Kimkim in Food Weighing Question   
    Just use low sodium broth. broth is considered Water so I would not weigh it with the broth
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    SpiritedOne reacted to LittleBill in Food Weighing Question   
    It is more of a volume issue than weight. For example, if you weigh out your food and get 4 oz, you may have 4 oz by weight but not by volume. If you measure by volume, you may have 4 oz by volume, but it may weigh more.
    Here is what I did. I would put my food into the blender with enough liquid to purée it. Then, I would measure it out by volume, because that is what your stomach holds. Your stomach does not care so much about weight.
    Start out slow and learn what volume you can tolerate, and don't worry about the weight.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to Healthy_life2 in A vain NSV story.   
    @@The New Kel
    OH HELL YES! VINDICATION
    When you have someone so toxic and negative in your family, You get the OK card to revel in it. Enjoy your moment! Use her as motivation to get to goal and maintain. I would love to hear more moments that you will have with her in the future.
    As you lose more weight the skin gets easier to hide in Shapewear. If you can afford plastic I'm jealous.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to The New Kel in A vain NSV story.   
    OK, so here is a NSV I had a few days ago. I am going to admit it is kind of immature and vain. None the less, it felt really good (evil grin). Warning: long post!
    My husband's sister - I will call her Shelby here- lives 4 states away and has pretty much hated me since we met. She was super close to my husband's ex-wife, the two of them are two peas in a pod. So for that reason, no matter how nice and cordial I have been to Shelby, she is outright cold and often blatantly rude to me. It goes so far as her telling my step kids off-color remarks and things she thinks about me, including one lovely piece of advice: "Just don't eat whatever Kelly eats. You don't want to end up like her, do you?"
    When I met her 5 years ago, I was understandably nervous and self conscious: I had 235 lbs on my 5'3" frame. In contrast, Shelby is taller and weighed maybe 140 lbs. She is also totally into appearances and looks. After we met, she called my husband and asked how he could have "down-graded" from his ex to me. I was so hurt. (But my husband promptly stood up for me and then hung up).
    I saw her three times over the past 5 years. Each time I felt so awkward and self conscious, knowing how judged I was in her eyes. It never should have mattered to me, but it did.
    Last Monday, Shelby came into town for my step-daughter's dance performance and to visit my husband's ex. I am three months post op. We did not tell Shelby or anyone on his side of the family about my surgery. I have gone from a size 20/22 to a comfortable 12 and have lost 60 lbs, down to 179 and my confidence has really began to flourish. At the dance, we spotted Shelby and her two kids. She was disheveled and looked uncomfortable. Her usually perfectly made up face was smeared and she looked like she was having a hot flash. Also, she is remarkably heavier than lat time I saw her. Now I will say I do not ever judge anyone on their weight and I never will. I have had all too much judgment and so I truly have all the empathy on those like me dealing with body image issues. But I bring it up because of the irony and scathing hell I had been on the receiving end of from her.
    We approached her to say hello and offer her a seat next to us. She refused, and, didn't even acknowledge me. Her face was flush and she was angry and visibly stressed. After the show my husband asked if she and the kids wanted to join us for dinner. She declined and said she was going out with my husband's ex. Again, not looking me in the eye, zero acknowledgement. I have to insert here that I was dressed nice, donned some heals, had a fresh haircut and did my makeup. (pretty fancy for a simple gal like me). I was wearing a flattering trench style long jacket that really made my waist look small.
    Right before we left the dance hall I was leaving the ladles room and my husband said he saw Shelby eyeing me from behind, surveying my new shape with her eyes. I went to dinner that night feeling a huge victory. A vain one- yes. But ooooh sometimes these things just feel so good.
    To come down to earth, I do have a muffin top from hell that if Shelby saw she would laugh in pure delight. I hide it well- but would LOVE to figure out how to lose! With rapid weight loss I am getting that skin, so I am trying to find ways to reduce it.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to larry971 in Body image and sex   
    Well speaking for myself, if I was with you and that was a problem for me, then I'm not the one for you. You need someone who likes YOU. Skinny, fat, short, tall, hanging skin...doesn't matter. You need someone who likes you for your heart. I don't know about the rest of you ladies but I've seen a picture of you pixie and you look great. I want someone who likes me....not how I look with them... Find someone who likes your mind and the body will follow.
    Sent from Larry's S7
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from OutsideMatchInside in Differentiating between fullness and hunger   
    Thank you so much for this response. I am two and ahalf weeks post op and I have been wondering if the sleeve was even working because I haven't really felt much of anything. I measure my portions, watch calories and try to get all of my protein but am having an issue with the Water. I feel like I'm eating a lot but when I track it, it really isn't much. Maybe 600 calories. I appreciate reading others experiences and advice and this one really helped. Thank you again.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to Dashofpixiedust8 in Over 200 pounds down!   
    So I started my journey on October 30th 2015 at 540 pounds. This is the highest I've ever been. I had to be on oxygen because I was so overweight it was pressing against my lungs.
    I had to do 6 months of a supervised diet and lost 60 pounds before my surgery and had my surgery weighing 480 pounds.
    I had a horrible time after surgery as some on here may remember. I was in extreme pain for 3 weeks then extreme nausea for 5 months. The nausea was so bad I didn't eat or drink for over a month and had to get a picc line and give myself infusions overnight to get my fluids and nutrients.
    They removed my gallbladder in October of this year and I started to feel much better.
    I now feel great and am finally starting to be able to enjoy my smaller size! I'm having fun working out at the gym and I'm starting to feel pretty and trying to date.
    I now weigh 336 pounds! That's 204 pounds down from my first weigh in and 144 pounds down since my surgery May 29th 2015!
    I'm so excited to be going in the right direction! I just turned 30 in November and I can't wait to finally start living my life!
    Here are some before and after pictures!

    This is me July 2014

    March 2015

    March 2015

    November 2016

    November 2016

    January 2017
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    SpiritedOne reacted to highfunctioningfatman in Physical activity by day 6?   
    This fat man on the left could snorkle! What I couldn't do was drown!
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    SpiritedOne reacted to LittleBill in Not sure surgery is right for you?   
    Try this first instead.

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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from rlinda72 in HIPAA violation: What would you do?   
    I agree with that, however, no one knows how many times this has happened. Like someone else said, this could be happening without management's knowledge which could leave the doctor open to some real issues.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to jadeedie in A bit of female inspiration for the day   
    Is this the same person
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    SpiritedOne reacted to Jacket52204 in Onederland!   
    I was sleeved on 10/13 high weight 260, surgery weight 242 and today after almost a full month stall I made it!!! I haven't been under 200 in almost seven years and only twice in my adult life..
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    SpiritedOne reacted to thisisthenewme in 3 months post op   
    Hi there,
    Just wanted to share my progress after 3 months after band to by pass surgery.


    Surgery Oct 3, 2016
    SW 292
    CW 244
    Down 48lbs!
    Feeling awesome! No more vomiting because food is stuck from my slipped band. So happy I made the choice to change my life.
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from clc9 in 2months out   
    I love that explanation so much! It's something physical that you can actually picture in your head!
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from rlinda72 in HIPAA violation: What would you do?   
    I agree with that, however, no one knows how many times this has happened. Like someone else said, this could be happening without management's knowledge which could leave the doctor open to some real issues.
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from nlmguerrero in No problems eating... is that ok?   
    Thank you for posting this! I posted something similar a few days ago and didn't get much of a response. These responses make me feel better about not feeling the restrictions. I'm still in the liquid phase but puree is coming next week! Sleeved 12/20/16.
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from clc9 in 2months out   
    I love that explanation so much! It's something physical that you can actually picture in your head!
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from clc9 in 2months out   
    I love that explanation so much! It's something physical that you can actually picture in your head!
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from clc9 in 2months out   
    I love that explanation so much! It's something physical that you can actually picture in your head!
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    SpiritedOne reacted to clc9 in 2months out   
    I can see a difference! You seem to be shrinking pretty evenly all over which is harder to see at first.
    Someone described it to me this way once: Think of yourself like a brand new roll of paper towels. When you start tearing sheets off, the size of the roll doesn't change much at all. But as you get down to the end of the roll, taking a sheet or two off makes a huge difference in how full the roll looks. Over time the changes are going to much more noticeable quickly.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to Middus in 2months out   
    Please don't be discouraged. I had these tight fitting suits when my journey started. I lost close to 40 lbs just before surgery. I didn't really notice anything from pictures, neither did anyone else.. I checked by wearing the suits and the pants were too big. Had to start wearing shirts I'd outgrown.
    Just keep losing.
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from nlmguerrero in No problems eating... is that ok?   
    Thank you for posting this! I posted something similar a few days ago and didn't get much of a response. These responses make me feel better about not feeling the restrictions. I'm still in the liquid phase but puree is coming next week! Sleeved 12/20/16.
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    SpiritedOne got a reaction from rlinda72 in HIPAA violation: What would you do?   
    I agree with that, however, no one knows how many times this has happened. Like someone else said, this could be happening without management's knowledge which could leave the doctor open to some real issues.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to LittleBill in Do you lose weight if you Poop   
    Any time you expel matter from your body, you lose weight. The amount of weight will vary. Some people are so full of you know what that they could practically disappear with a healthy bowel movement. The truth of the matter though, is that you will lose more weight from taking a healthy leak than pooping. But in either case, you will lose weight.
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    SpiritedOne reacted to highfunctioningfatman in If only fat...   
    I would prefer that it was more like my mind. I lost my mind a looooonnnn gggggg time ago...

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