krazykristen

I had my gastric sleeve surgery yesterday as well. I am in a ton of pain and really uncomfortable. I haven't had liquids since Tuesday night since they have to do a leak test at 830 this morning. Counting down the hours because my throat is so sore and dry and i have a raspy voice. Didn't think the pain would hurt this much Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Hey everyone! I have my preop scheduled for tomorrow and my surgery scheduled for next Wednesday, October 5th and I made a Tumblr to post blogs of my journey if any of you are interested. I only have one post so far but I'm making it so I can stay accountable and share my experience. Check it out if you'd like! http://kristenvsg.tumblr.com/ <3 xoxo

Thank you! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App Awesome! Good luck to you as well! I had preop today and that got me excited lol Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Hi! I'm 25 and I just made a Tumblr page. I plan to keep it updated on my journey before and after surgery. I have my preop scheduled for tomorrow and my surgery scheduled for next Wednesday, October 5th. Here's my blog if you'd like to follow! http://kristenvsg.tumblr.com/ xoxo

Luckily we don't have his son full time, only a few weekends a month. But yeah I am just gonna see how I feel. I told him he hurt my feelings by saying this surgery wasnt major and he apologized for it and didnt realize how serious it is. Only 9 more days until my surgery. Cant wait!!!!! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

So Im having my sleeve surgery on October 5th. And my boyfriend mentioned us going to this outdoor event on October 14th, about a week or so after my surgery. I told him that was fine as long as Im able to get up and walk around fine. He kinda smarted off and said, "you act like this is a major surgery or something." Ugh. Makes me so mad. Its like hes taking this lightly and not seriously and idk what to say to him. It kinda hurt my feelings. Any advice? Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Thank you guys! Yalls advice is really helpful I havent shown him what the surgery is visually so maybe I could give that a try. I guess what bothers me is he doesnt seem that excited about it, but is that normal? Like hes happy Im doing this for my health but at the same time I dont think he knows what to say to me. Im stoked for my surgery but idk if hes acting that way because he doesnt care or if its because he doesnt know much about it Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

It seems to be that way. Its always all about him and his kid and it frustrates me. This is the ONE thing I have chosen to take control of my life and he acts like its no big deal. Im tired of worrying about other people and not myself. That's why Im so overweight Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App Sweetie, this is all about you. Trust me, he can replace you for another babysitter. I hope you value yourself as a human being to stand up for yourself. He will be very threatened by your surgery and weight loss. No matter, so long as you expect it. There are many women her who have experienced this and will reach out to you. Be firm, be strong, do not waffle. If he is the love of your life hopefully you will know it soon. You can do this, you will find your strength I promise you. You won't be the same, you will demand more for yourself as a partner in life.Thank you I appreciate that ♡ Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

It seems to be that way. Its always all about him and his kid and it frustrates me. This is the ONE thing I have chosen to take control of my life and he acts like its no big deal. Im tired of worrying about other people and not myself. That's why Im so overweight Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App You seem like a smart girl with a good head on your shoulders. You'll figure this out Keep us posted on your progress and whether you end up killing this guy Will do and thank you lmao Im at the point where I have to be selfish and maybe that sounds conceited but Im tired of worrying about everyone else. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

It seems to be that way. Its always all about him and his kid and it frustrates me. This is the ONE thing I have chosen to take control of my life and he acts like its no big deal. Im tired of worrying about other people and not myself. That's why Im so overweight Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

My thoughts exactly. Thats how he is Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App Im happy you are no longer in pain I have daily back pain and knee pain and I'm only 25. Im also 258 and 5'4. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Oh yeah. Im pretty good at taking care of myself but I have friends and family who are super supportive. Im just not feeling that secure with our relationship at the moment. Theres a lot going on so I dont really know how to handle this. I see so many stories of people who break up after surgery and its hard to think about. But at the same time I gotta do what makes me happy and losing weight and feeling good about myself will get me there so Im not letting anyone ruin my happiness anymore Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

I would need a roommate. And I know. But at this point Im just saying screw it and focusing on myself and if he can't hang then PEACE! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Unfortunately the apartment is in my name and I cant get out of it until next June. He has no where to go if I kicked him out. I have family I can stay with but sometimes I think I stay because Im so insecure. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Youre right, and part of me just wants to be alone through this process... idk. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Lmaooooo you made me laugh. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

And yes I do live with him. Not really sure about how its gonna work after my surgery. He seems supportive yet says crap like that and it really frustrates me. For the past 2 years Ive devoted my time and effort to HIS 4 year old kid so now is my time to focus on myself for once and he acts weird about it. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

He is 28. And Im in Texas so its hot right now. Feel free to say whatever lol its all good. Thanks for the advice. Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

My surgery is scheduled the day before yours on the 5th! So excited. My doctor only recommended a 3 day liquid diet before surgery but Im also self pay Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Good luck with your approval! My surgery is scheduled for October 5th and I am so impatient! I have a countdown on my phone for my surgery. I just am ready to get this process started and start my new life. I know how you feel lol lemme know if you get approved! My insurance didnt cover mine so I was blessed with grandparents who are loaning me the money for my surgery and I'm paying them back. The process has gone a lot quicker. My first appt was 2 weeks ago and Ive already seen the nutritionist and preop is next week and then the following week is my surgery. So impatient! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

After months of battling with my insurance and freaking out because they won't cover any of it, my grandparents are loaning me the money and I got my surgery date scheduled for October 5th! I cannot wait!!! I am so excited to start this new journey in my life and finally be able to live my life and not let my weight keep me from the things I have always wanted to do. One of the NSV I'm looking forward to is being able to shop wherever and maybe wearing a bikini for the first time. AHHHHH Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Thank yall! And good luck to those getting their surgery done the same day! Im so excited Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

I have my surgery for the sleeve scheduled for October 5th. I have my nutritionist appt tomorrow, and preop next week. Im nervous and excited as well and I have been watching tons of YouTube videos to keep me occupied! Good luck to you! Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Hello everyone! This is my first post. Im looking into getting the gastric sleeve and I have my first appt with my surgeon tomorrow however Im being forced to do payment plans because my insurance will not cover the surgery. I was wondering how long yall take off work after surgery? I have a desk job so I don't lift anything heavy or anything. I was thinking 1 week off and I should be good. Any thoughts? Sent from my SM-G900P using the BariatricPal App

Hey everyone. I had my gastric sleeve appt with my surgeon today and was under the impression that I could do payment plans since my insurance will not under any circumstances cover the surgery. So now I'm forced to do self pay. I have no idea where I'm gonna get $15,000. I can't even get a loan because I'm still working on my credit. My only option was to ask my grandparents because they have a lot of money and I'm praying my grandpa says yes. My grandma said she would in a heartbeat but she needs his blessing.... I'm just feeling really down. My parents can't help me because they are financially struggling as well. And I'm going to have to get a second job to pay back my grandparents if they say yes. My parents seem to think I can lose it without surgery but I have struggled with my weight since I was a kid. And no matter how much I workout or how much I diet, nothing sticks. I KNOW this will work for me. I just need some positive vibes or advice. Feeling really depressed today. I thought my appt would go better than it did. The surgeon was great, but obviously they can't move forward until I have the money. But he did say that once I pay, I only have to see their nutritionist one time, included in the price of surgery, and I could have my surgery in up to a week from now.