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NewMeBefore40

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  1. I definitely didn't intend to hijack the post. She specifically stated on a few occasions that she wasn't referring to types of food but the amount of calories. So my interpretation is of her question is whether one who already limits calories to under 1000 will be able to lose weight with the surgery. My response was that the doctors say yes due to set point. My explanation of my situation was to illustrate the similarities and that I understand and actually read her post, since she was concerned that no one read and understood her. Possibly I misunderstood, but that was my interpretation after reading several pages of her trying to get it across. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App
  2. I do have pcos. But I don't think people really understand how broken a metabolism can get. I have gotten the, "that's not possible", "it's physically impossible" or just the head shake. I've seen 3 surgeons and their nutritional counselors. I have a lot going on, more than I could begin to list here. But I think the question was from the OP, weather anyone who already restricts calories will benefit. That's my question to. Not at first but long term. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App
  3. It looks like there have been a lot of ppl who don't read. I eat 1000 calories or less and weigh 280. I was bulimic for years. I got the band and list then regained even though I was under 1000 caliries a day. I'm considering the surgery because the doctor says it changes your body's set point. My fear isn't that I won't lose, but that once again I'll regain because my body really wants to stick at this weight. I eat a whole foods diet, not a SAD. I do keto. I just don't lose. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App With a condition as unusual/clearly medical/atypical as yours, a public WLS forum where most of us got fat from overeating junk is probably not going to get you the responses you need and desire. Definitely come here for support and love as you go through the process, but as far as factual scientific advice? Your situation is so far out there in the atypical range, I'm sure there are very few here that are qualified to answer. Best to you!! I'm sure with your desire to succeed, you can make it happen. I wasn't the OP. I was just letting her know she's not alone and that there are said to be benefits for those who are not eating 2 meals at McDonalds for dinner and still unable to lose weight. However, I'm not really sure where else one would look if they were in my situation and looking for answers. I can't possibly be the only one in my situation. And doctors assume I'm showing them my food diary that shows whole foods and then running thru to get a milkshake. No one believes me. I don't care and im not offended. But when I do start a thread with questions it's because of can't possibly be the only one in my situation and I need help too. As far as the doctors are concerned there is no reason and I just need to exercise harder. I did that. 2 hours a day. Where else can I turn? Like I said I wasn't asking questions originally, but where else would I go? Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal AppY You and the OP are absolutely warranted by coming here and asking your questions as well as sharing your experiences. Sometimes, just saying how you feel and having someone who will listen with concern is all that is needed to help get over a "bump in the road". We are not experts here, but we should always be willing to listen to a member who is "struggling"--physically and/or mentally. Most members on this site are great listeners. We can give no medical advice. We can "round table" ideas and can "suggest" based on our own personal WLS journeys. I hope that is enough. You would be surprised how much more I've learned from social media Than my doctors. I've taken many requests to my doctor for tests and have found answers (not weight problems but other problems), so yes that is enough! I just find it frustrating that people think that just because they can't control what they eat that no one can. That's not my problem. But WLS helps with more than control issues for many. I hope that's the same with me. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App
  4. It looks like there have been a lot of ppl who don't read. I eat 1000 calories or less and weigh 280. I was bulimic for years. I got the band and list then regained even though I was under 1000 caliries a day. I'm considering the surgery because the doctor says it changes your body's set point. My fear isn't that I won't lose, but that once again I'll regain because my body really wants to stick at this weight. I eat a whole foods diet, not a SAD. I do keto. I just don't lose. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App One thing I learned through this process is that my obesity is at least partly due to under eating as much as to overeating. Overeating is my bodies response to under eating (skipping meals, restricting, etc.). One of the biggest gifts of this program for me so far is a deeper understanding of nutrition and what my body really needs. Eating under 1000 calories in a day is no longer an option for me. Of I go over 1000, even on slow small increments, I gain. Ive been on many diets with many "coaches". I've been through different nutrition classes while in training for holistic health, while in college, and with docs. I understand the metabolic system. My doctor recently ran labs and told me how surprised she was to see sugars, and everything else perfect. I realize that for most people 1000 is not enough. I apparently have a really efficient metabolism. It doesn't take much to make me go. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App
  5. It looks like there have been a lot of ppl who don't read. I eat 1000 calories or less and weigh 280. I was bulimic for years. I got the band and list then regained even though I was under 1000 caliries a day. I'm considering the surgery because the doctor says it changes your body's set point. My fear isn't that I won't lose, but that once again I'll regain because my body really wants to stick at this weight. I eat a whole foods diet, not a SAD. I do keto. I just don't lose. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App With a condition as unusual/clearly medical/atypical as yours, a public WLS forum where most of us got fat from overeating junk is probably not going to get you the responses you need and desire. Definitely come here for support and love as you go through the process, but as far as factual scientific advice? Your situation is so far out there in the atypical range, I'm sure there are very few here that are qualified to answer. Best to you!! I'm sure with your desire to succeed, you can make it happen. I wasn't the OP. I was just letting her know she's not alone and that there are said to be benefits for those who are not eating 2 meals at McDonalds for dinner and still unable to lose weight. However, I'm not really sure where else one would look if they were in my situation and looking for answers. I can't possibly be the only one in my situation. And doctors assume I'm showing them my food diary that shows whole foods and then running thru to get a milkshake. No one believes me. I don't care and im not offended. But when I do start a thread with questions it's because of can't possibly be the only one in my situation and I need help too. As far as the doctors are concerned there is no reason and I just need to exercise harder. I did that. 2 hours a day. Where else can I turn? Like I said I wasn't asking questions originally, but where else would I go? Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App
  6. It looks like there have been a lot of ppl who don't read. I eat 1000 calories or less and weigh 280. I was bulimic for years. I got the band and list then regained even though I was under 1000 caliries a day. I'm considering the surgery because the doctor says it changes your body's set point. My fear isn't that I won't lose, but that once again I'll regain because my body really wants to stick at this weight. I eat a whole foods diet, not a SAD. I do keto. I just don't lose. Sent from my SM-G935P using the BariatricPal App
  7. Me too had surgery on Tuesday May 10th and thinking it was a huge mistake. I'm so gassy and bloated and tired. I'm walking all the time and burp the whole time I'm walking. Is that normal?It's been a week since you said this. How do you feel now?
  8. I haven't has surgery yet, but I thought 800 calories would be a lot at 3 weeks. I've had my band out since Nov and am awaiting conversion to sleeve. I get less than 1000 calories with or without the band and I've gained all mine back (prior to removal and while still vomiting several times a week). Now I'm Second guessing doing it!
  9. I was denied a really revision due to lack of 6 Month diet so I just had it removed. I couldn't take another day like that. Now I'm working toward getting sleeved. However our insurance changed in Jan and no one can give me a straight answer as to whether bariatric is covered.
  10. NewMeBefore40

    Sleeves and PCOS

    I was just at the Doctor for this with my daughter. They said the best thing to do is a low glycemic diet and to get lots of Omega 3 (they recommend metagenic brand). Also weight lifting and burst exercises. Eat Protein an low GI veggies every two hours and within 30 minutes of waking.
  11. NewMeBefore40

    Trouble with heat

    Is it the sun or the heat? I had light sensitivity and had headaches from the sun. Headaches are often dehydration and if it is from the heat, then it's possible it's dehydration. Low magnesium is a big one too. Doctors usually use a blood serum test to test mag and kept telling me my mag (as well as others) were fine. An integrative doc check my rbc magnesium and found that I was in fact low. The mag wasn't getting into the cells. So we changed the type and got my levels up. Weekly migraines are gone as well as heart pals and high bp. So if it were me, I would add Water, water, water and magnesium glycinate. You can add B2 (not in a complex) for headaches too, but I think the first two should help.
  12. I have concerns about bot surgeries. For the sleeve I have a huge concern about reflux. I'm aware that long term use of acid blockers is dangerous (I'm also aware about the long term effect of obesity). What I would like to know is how many people have reflux that requires treatment and what your treatment is. Without the surgery I don't usually have problems. There have been a few times I've had to take ppi for a couple weeks but I'm not wanting to go long term. I have other concerns about bypass, one being that I have genetic reasons for not wanting to deal with mal absorbtion. So I do want the sleeve. But I'm concerned about acid.
  13. NewMeBefore40

    Tattoos after WLS

    It's going to depend on the individual. Skin can stretch and come back, depending on age, number of times its been stretched and how far. I lost 80 pounds when I had the band and while I wasn't firm, I had no hanging skin. After regain, when I lose again, I probably won't have such good luck. But that guy was a whiner and looking for excuses. On a side note, I thought that canvas was really brave.
  14. Awesome! How far out are you?
  15. Great job! What was your reason for going with the sleeve? The doctors I've talked to say reflux is the biggest thing against the sleeve and patients with Gerd shouldn't get it. Thanks for your info. It's a difficult decision.
  16. NewMeBefore40

    Mthfr folate and b12

    I don't seem to improve levels with oral supplements. I'm currently doing injections of methyl b with methyl folate and an additional hydroxy b injection. Those have helped a lot. But I'll be changing insurance any my doctor doesn't take the new one. At 400 per appt, I won't be able to go back to her for refill. I think we will have kaiser and I've not heard good things about the more holistic approaches with kaiser. Closed minded was what friends have said.
  17. Does anyone have the mthfr mutation and found a good supplement to take? With mthfr I can't take regular Vitamins with b12 as cyanocobalamin and I can't take folic acid (have to take methylfolate). Anyone have ideas? Sent from my SPH-L720 using the BariatricPal App
  18. NewMeBefore40

    Mthfr folate and b12

    I will let you know. Hope to hear next week. We submitted without psych evaluation just to see if it comes back that the surgery will be covered with psych. I don't wanna pay another $140 just to find out its not covered.
  19. NewMeBefore40

    Mthfr folate and b12

    Well that's 17 more than I've lost in 2 years so good job! Lol. Good luck to you. I'm anxiously waiting to see if my insurance will cover it or not. I get a different answer each time on whether it's covered or not. :/ so emotional.
  20. NewMeBefore40

    Mthfr folate and b12

    Wow were twins! So if you don't mind, how much have you lost? I'm so scared I'll go through it all, have problems and still not lose.
  21. NewMeBefore40

    Mthfr folate and b12

    Haha I must have written that wrong. I'm reading til my eyes are blurry trying to devour info to make a decision. Sorry about that... I maintained for 6 months then the weight flooded back. Even tough I was counting every bit of food and exercising and doing Tai qi and yoga and was very active. All of it within a few months. I could literally feel my skin stretching like when I was pregnant. I've never seen someone gain like that. It was heart breaking.
  22. Does insurance cover the conversion to bypass? My plan is terrible and probably wont. They can't even figure out if the surgery is covered at all. Yay for abc.
  23. I've had an occurrence of Gerd once with the band. And then twice when I've taken too many Vitamins with not enough Water and they sort of burned my stomach (one of those times being now). A week or two of ppi and then I taper off and I'm done. I don't really have a problem with it. In normal people (too early to think of a better term) reflux is often caused by not enough acid. So taking hcl and enzymes prevents it (without side effects). But I don't know if that's the case with the sleeve because it seems like reflux is due to different shape/pressure keeping the sphincter open. I did recently see one person in one of the forums stating they stopped their Gerd with acv and enzymes. But I don't know if that is an individual case.
  24. What the heck! I just spent two hours in the complications threads for sleeve and bypass and I'm now scared to death to move forward. I've had so many issues with the band but was able to get it out. There is no reversal for sleeve and only a chance of reversal for bypass. Losing entire stomach? Years and years in pain? I just kinda got out of pain (still have some). I already have chronic fatigue syndrome and it's debilitating. I was hoping losing the weight would help, but now I wonder will it get worse? I'm terrified. Last year when I decided I was done and was going to have the band removed my husband got really nasty. He told me that he's had to live with my complications for 7 years and now had to pay for the removal (he broke his arm, needed surgery and we met our out of pocket so it was actually going to be free, but math is not is strong suit). I'm considering the sleeve because I can't be at this weight anymore. But those complications are worse than my crappie life now. I'm lost, frustrated, and angry that my body will not let me lose weight (I maintain a diet of under 1000 calories with avg of 100 g protein).
  25. So when they do either surgery it causes some change in your set point which is the point your body thinks it needs to be. They don't fully understand it, but I was told it has something with hormones. So my hope is that it will change my set point. I'm very worried it won't work. But I'm more worried that it won't work and I'll also have lifelong problems. You can Google it. It was in my surgeons packet but I don't have it with me.

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