Gorgeous Girl

I so agree with @BigViffer. They were sayin' you were "smokin' hot" and that you were even "bill worthy."
But, yeah, pigs and immature...
But, if I ever get that response from someone, it will make my freakin' week. Just sayin'. I've never been a smokin' hottie in my life and would like to know what that feels like some day...you know. Bucket lists and all...
Congrats on your success hon.

The only con that I have had is Constipation even after eating my fruits and vegies and I have to take some a couple of times a week. I am 9 months post op but I have no regrets. Only wish I did it sooner.
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I've been prescribed Nystatin powder and cream to use in the loose skin areas. It helps a lot. Depending on your insurance, you may want to keep note of these issues in your medical records for possible skin removal at some point.

I just have to share because I'm finally seeing a difference in my body! I'm 3 months post-op and I have lost 74 lbs. I took a picture this weekend and finally could see a big difference. YAY for little victories and a place to share it where others understand completely!

@@utahgirll
the common/frequent expression on the board is
"the one thing we have in common, is that we're all different"
post op i had no problems drinking water
some people do have issues/problems drinking for awhile
drinking room temperature Water helps some people
many others add crystal lite for flavor
you are told at first to take small sips at a time
eventually/shortly when "you grow up"
your NUT will tell you its ok to drink more than sips at a time
eventually being able to gulp
"i'll give it a 95% that maybe/probably/kindof/hopefully/i doubt/not sure/most likely you will not have any problems drinking water
that is what i definitely know (i think) ;)"
actually - i'm not sure :lol:
good luck hun
I am excited for your new healthier, happier, longer life
good luck
speedy recovery
kathy
@@LipstickLady the specific sentences with the quotation marks was written with you in mind
hope you liked it

At first drinking is difficult, especially plain Water. Plain water literally would not go down my throat and I would spit it back out. I had to put flavoring in it or drink Dasani water because it has minerals. My Dr. said they do not understand it but most people have a lot of trouble with plain water for about the first year. Since the first year, I can drink plain water all the time and it does great. The key is finding out what works for you to be sure you get the Fluid in. It is a dangerous situation if you let yourself get dehydrated. Your tastes and cravings change so much after surgery the things you are worried about now will probably not be an issue and you will be surprised at the issues that pop up. LOL! Good luck and I know you will do great!

she may feel weak for 8 to 10 days....she must walk a lot...every few hrs...to get rid of the gas...since we are on a liquid diet for long...energy level might be low.
all the best. its wonderful she has a caring friend like you.

Thanks for the replies! I actually have a spare key to her house for emergencies and I asked her husband (who is also one of my and my hubby's best friends) if I could sneak in and leave some flowers on the day she comes home... Thursday I think. Plus we'll be over to the hospital after work this evening. Our version of 'go and party' is to sit around each others' houses and watch movies, so she won't feel like she's missing out, I hope. Glad to know I'm on the right track!
Any idea how long before she can take long walks? (eg. around the mall for an hour?) Hitting the mall isn't something we do too often, but I thought it would be a good way to socialize and get some movement in at the same time.

I was a binge eater pre-op. I really struggled with ot being able to binge for a while, but I think my brain finally caught on to the limitations of my stomach around 4 months post-op. I never really replaced my binge eating with anything else. But I did find that exercising regularly really helped mitigate stress and control my emotions.

I found keeping my hands busy helps. I took up crocheting.
One night I finished a whole baby afghan for one of my daughter's friends.
__kept my hands busy, my mouth shut and made a lovely gift .
I also tried romance novels-----too stressful!
Do you have a therapist? If not, I think getting one would be a huge benefit for you.
Keep posting. That, too will help.
Prayers going up...​

You can always tell how pissed or stressed I am by how clean my bathrooms are. Instant gratification.

Are you seeing a counselor or therapist? Have you considered attending a 12-step recovery group like OA (OA.org)?
When you get the urge to binge, look for something to do with your hands that will keep away from the food.
Clean the toilet.
Take a bath or shower.
Take a walk.
Call a friend.
Write in a journal.
Do needlework, knit, or crochet.
Paint.
Garden.
Mop the floor.
Have a good cry.
Get a massage.
Paint your nails.
Prayer.
Meditation.
Go to a support group meeting.
Go to Church.
Take a class.
Go to the gym.
You can find help. You did the right thing by asking for help.

maybe replace with a different behavior?
I tend to binge clean. when I am super stressed or upset I could stay up all night cleaning a room.

I really agree. The first time I had fallen into port eating habits I was so incredibly grateful that my temporary madness was tempered by the size of my belly. I realize that I was not on a diet. So what I did to my stomach is permanent. And so there was no giving up or feeling discouraged. It was simply a meal that didn't have enough nutrition. By the time I could eat again I often regain my sanity!

It is! Now go find something to replace eating. Personally, I clean. It's so satisfying. Instant gratification!

Whew...I thought they might have sewed me back together crooked
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​The regret should pass as you heal and are able to get more fluids and foods down. I hope this happens soon for you.
Like most of us (once fully healed) I only regret not doing it sooner!

Not everyone does get over the regret. That's why everyone thinking about WLS needs to read about the rough times and the those who never get over their regret. Does it happen a lot? No.
But it does happen.
You have to be prepared to face "the stormy" days or risk being swept away by the tsunami that follow. I believe you need to be strong and determined enough in your decision to have WLS to do it ALONE. Only then will you truly be doing it for yourself, by yourself--love yourself.
If you were expecting your journey to one of going down, "The Yellow Brick Road", sorry. It's just not--unfortunately.
Research, and read and read and read, and talk to as many WLSers as possible--both positive and the regretters. The latter is where you will receive that most thought worthy information.
Best wishes on your upcoming journey. It most certainly can be the most exciting and rewarding path you will ever follow.
Prayers going up for you.

You guys realize what you're going through is all temporary, right? That what you're going through now will be different in a week, a month, a year? It will get better, I promise. Just hang in there.

You're having an episode of depression. Trust me on this one. I've fought it off and on all my life. Stay on your meds give them 4 to 6 weeks. You may need to try a different medicine or you may need a combination of meds.
The important thing to remember is you can beat it. You can last longer than the symptoms, including lack of appetite. Don't give up. Ask your psychiatrist to refer u too a therapist. Talking will help u deal with your feelings. If you are religious seek help through priest, rabbi, minister, nun, etc. You've done something major to your body in order to help yourself. You have what it takes within you. You just can't see it right now.
But it's ok. Remember that. It will get better. I promise.

I have been in this situation with 4 different women before. The only way I could sort it out was being blunt to their face when no one else was away.
It was 2 work mates and 2 sister in laws. Trust me they are not so smart when they are spoken to firmly on their own.
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Tell her "My former best friend, may she rest in peace, said something like that to me...ONCE".

Just kidding, mention to her nicely after one of those remarks that bother you "I know you aren't saying (whatever that remark was) on purpose, but it bothers me. I enjoy talking to you , but can we talk about something different."; or something to that effect. You got your point across. If she was deliberately doing that, you made your point to nicely call her out on it. If she was doing this without realizing the impact of it, then she was made aware.
If she continues to do so and doesn't respect your wishes, contact your supervisor and then HR if necessary.
Otherwise, go to Home Depot or Lowes, buy duct tape, some rope and a shovel.

I would reply with something like, no, I'm sad that you have nothing else to do but think about me, bless your heart. But really if your obsession with me continues, HR will be involved. If it continues, you know what's next!!

I agree with AvaFern, too and a combination of the other comments. The rule in any HR conflict is "The one with the most documentation wins."
So, here's what you do.......Give her the "heads up" warning. My health and my lifestyle are none of your business, and if you continue to make any further snarky comments, I will take this issue to HR for their consideration.
Then, with a little notebook that you are going to keep with you now, start writing down her comments - in front of her - as soon as she says them. Of course she is going to ask what about what you are writing down, and you should tell her the truth.
I am writing down exactly what you say about my weight and my diet.
Once she knows that she is accountable for what she says to you, I guarantee she will stop.

Now there's an example of an extremely insecure person! Sad, really. Don't let it get you down. She doesn't deserve to have that power over you. She doesn't even have power over herself.