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Great to read so many threads addressing issues we have faced and continue to face in our community. I am lesbian, married for 15 years in July. My partner has always lived a healthy BMI. I need to lose about 160 lbs. It's hard to believe that I'm carrying around a whole person's weight. I think WLS surgery is courageous. Since deciding to have the surgery last xmas, I have lost 72 lbs. I had my surgery, after extensive dietary preparation, on April 18, 2016 and am almost 40 lbs down from then. This experience is more amazing than I could have ever imagined! Exciting, challenging and rewarding. The people who love me were invited along in my journey, the rest I leave behind permanently because I don't need their negativity or judgement derailing my life. To all, proud to be one of your sisters! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Your surgery and partner's surgery will be one of the best gifts in life! It is normal to be scared. It is a big change and a beautiful journey. Stay positive! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Pilates with a skilled instructor not a class but private sessions will work. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Hi Ann. Welcome. I'm lesbian married to Jill. We have been together 15 years and live in Canada. Had my sleeve April 18, 2016 and my life is already so changed. I look forward to hearing of your changes. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

That is awesome!!! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Hi there. I had my sleeve on April 18. I'm pleased to meet you and would like to share the road with you. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Yay you! Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App