NeedaBreak4Me

@@LipstickLady
Well technically no cheez its for all.... not me anyway

I so wish we had these "cheese it" thingies here in Australia... this is the 2nd thread that ive seen about those things... they must be awesome..... because it seems that the topic always triggers a debate lol
I wanna try them! lol
Maybe someone would be kind enough to send me a box lol

Girl! Don't let this man dull your shine!
You are extremely brave and finally found the courage to leave.
This sounds like it was a very controlling relationship, you are lucky you got out after anything serious went wrong.
Unfortunately most controlling people do try to distroy their partners self esteem, making them feel unworthy, having no respect for being loyal etc... very common.
This man is no longer in your life, its time to do things for YOU!
You need to love YOU, respect YOU, be kind to YOU, do things for YOU.. because YOU deserve it.
Accept the fact that you are looking fabulous, take up a hobby you enjoy, get out there and live life....
Once you do this, you will feel more comfortable in your own skin...
Don't let this man take anymore of your happiness or self worth, you deserve better ????
Love and dating will come when you are ready, focus on living, loving and enjoying life..

I so wish we had these "cheese it" thingies here in Australia... this is the 2nd thread that ive seen about those things... they must be awesome..... because it seems that the topic always triggers a debate lol
I wanna try them! lol
Maybe someone would be kind enough to send me a box lol

He did not reject you.... you are not the problem.....
HE cheated
HE Controlled
HE had the porn addiction
HE was abusive
HE decided to be disloyal
HE damaged your self esteem
HE chose to be with someone else
HE had family and friends keep this from you
HE did not respect you or your daughter
Stop blaming yourself, it is not rejection of you personally, it is a rejection of the idea of loyalty and commitment.

Purging your friendships and relationships seems to be very common after life changing experiences, such as divorce, illness and including weight loss surgery.
8 years ago when i had my band, i had a group of friends for years that became very controlling, judgemental and mean after i lost weight... we were all the chubby funny people, so we had a lot in common... we would eat and be fat and lazy together.
Once i lost all the weight, i ended up regaining my confidence and stopped taking their crap, in turn i lost every single one of them.
To be honest, yes i was lonely for a short time, but then i took up new hobbies and interests and made new friends..... friends for life who give me love and support i deserve.
The purge of all the negativity was the best thing that ever happened to me! Hindsight is a wonderful thing... i realise now that they were never truly friends, and got off on putting me down subtly.
My point... it might hurt now, but this is a necessary process for bigger and better things... yes, it might hurt now, and it might always be a sore spot, but open yourself to love, take small steps, do small things for you because you deserve it.
And remember... not every man will cheat on you, not every person will hurt you... do not allow this horrible experience to cause you to build walls around your heart and mind... because this will only hurt you in the end.
The mistress and him deserve each other.... you have bigger and better things waiting for you... jump up and embrace the change... you will be better for it.
Through hardship comes ease, through trust comes love, through love for yourself comes happiness.

Girl! Don't let this man dull your shine!
You are extremely brave and finally found the courage to leave.
This sounds like it was a very controlling relationship, you are lucky you got out after anything serious went wrong.
Unfortunately most controlling people do try to distroy their partners self esteem, making them feel unworthy, having no respect for being loyal etc... very common.
This man is no longer in your life, its time to do things for YOU!
You need to love YOU, respect YOU, be kind to YOU, do things for YOU.. because YOU deserve it.
Accept the fact that you are looking fabulous, take up a hobby you enjoy, get out there and live life....
Once you do this, you will feel more comfortable in your own skin...
Don't let this man take anymore of your happiness or self worth, you deserve better ????
Love and dating will come when you are ready, focus on living, loving and enjoying life..

He did not reject you.... you are not the problem.....
HE cheated
HE Controlled
HE had the porn addiction
HE was abusive
HE decided to be disloyal
HE damaged your self esteem
HE chose to be with someone else
HE had family and friends keep this from you
HE did not respect you or your daughter
Stop blaming yourself, it is not rejection of you personally, it is a rejection of the idea of loyalty and commitment.

@@LipstickLady
Well technically no cheez its for all.... not me anyway

He did not reject you.... you are not the problem.....
HE cheated
HE Controlled
HE had the porn addiction
HE was abusive
HE decided to be disloyal
HE damaged your self esteem
HE chose to be with someone else
HE had family and friends keep this from you
HE did not respect you or your daughter
Stop blaming yourself, it is not rejection of you personally, it is a rejection of the idea of loyalty and commitment.

Purging your friendships and relationships seems to be very common after life changing experiences, such as divorce, illness and including weight loss surgery.
8 years ago when i had my band, i had a group of friends for years that became very controlling, judgemental and mean after i lost weight... we were all the chubby funny people, so we had a lot in common... we would eat and be fat and lazy together.
Once i lost all the weight, i ended up regaining my confidence and stopped taking their crap, in turn i lost every single one of them.
To be honest, yes i was lonely for a short time, but then i took up new hobbies and interests and made new friends..... friends for life who give me love and support i deserve.
The purge of all the negativity was the best thing that ever happened to me! Hindsight is a wonderful thing... i realise now that they were never truly friends, and got off on putting me down subtly.
My point... it might hurt now, but this is a necessary process for bigger and better things... yes, it might hurt now, and it might always be a sore spot, but open yourself to love, take small steps, do small things for you because you deserve it.
And remember... not every man will cheat on you, not every person will hurt you... do not allow this horrible experience to cause you to build walls around your heart and mind... because this will only hurt you in the end.
The mistress and him deserve each other.... you have bigger and better things waiting for you... jump up and embrace the change... you will be better for it.
Through hardship comes ease, through trust comes love, through love for yourself comes happiness.

I so wish we had these "cheese it" thingies here in Australia... this is the 2nd thread that ive seen about those things... they must be awesome..... because it seems that the topic always triggers a debate lol
I wanna try them! lol
Maybe someone would be kind enough to send me a box lol

I have an argument with my scale literally every time i jump on... i have named her "b*tch.. cause she really is.. she is stubborn, lies, manipulates and disagrees with me.. i don't like her very much

Is this what you had in mind?

One more for the peeps who liked the kitty on the scale....

@@LipstickLady
Well technically no cheez its for all.... not me anyway

He did not reject you.... you are not the problem.....
HE cheated
HE Controlled
HE had the porn addiction
HE was abusive
HE decided to be disloyal
HE damaged your self esteem
HE chose to be with someone else
HE had family and friends keep this from you
HE did not respect you or your daughter
Stop blaming yourself, it is not rejection of you personally, it is a rejection of the idea of loyalty and commitment.