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@@julsfit Maybe asking about getting some therapy to deal with emotional eating would help. Even if you just discuss your frustrations - having someone objective to listen to you and help you cope in other ways will be beneficial. I'm not constantly hungry - but man - my body doesn't want to let go of the weight either.

@@emilyann89 You missed the boat. You really should not have anything that's not prescribed on your pre-op diet. It's not worth the risk for a food funeral.

@@Who'sThere I'm sure there are a few members who know the answer to your question or want to know the answer to your question - but are hesitant to respond. There's an LGBT Sleevers forum - is there one for RNY that you could either ask in that forum or PM one of the members? Not that this is only a LGBT issue - but you may have more luck getting a response.

@@khuuxo My surgery is Tuesday (10/18). It can't come soon enough!!! I'm allowed 5 shakes a day but don't usually drink more than 3 (sometimes only 2). It would make me feel alot better if the weight was melting off - but it is still up and down (fluctuating) daily. I'm actually surprised at how well I've done on the liquid diet - I never thought I'd be able to do it. It is not easy by any means but I haven't even turned into a miserable b*tch (yet!!). lol I don't have children but a few times I was tempted to sneak a piece of chicken I give to my dogs. :-)

@@teedsg It all depends on your surgeon but typically you need to complete all of the nutritional visits and any other insurance requirements before they'll submit for authorization. Most surgeon's won't book surgery until the authorization has been approved. Then they'll schedule surgery - and order bloodwork and pre-op testing (they don't usually order this until approval because it needs to be done within 30 days of surgery (usually).

@@ella37 That's understandable considering what your body went thru. Try to see if a heating helps. Hope you feel better soon.

Each plan or policy can have different requirements for approval. Your best bet is to call and get specifics for your coverage.

Congrats! I agree with @@nursemerry . It's so important to stick with your pre-op diet. It's not easy but remind yourself of the goal!!!

That's not unusual. Try different brands or some of the Protein drinks like Isopure. You can also get unflavored protein and add to liquids (crystal light, tea, etc).

I bought really pretty tiny bowls and plates. I'm doing the same as you - I want to eat something delicious if I can only eat a small amount.

@@khuuxo This may be one of the hardest things I've done. It sucks but if you get through this just think of how much better off you'll be post-op. You'll already have good control over food rather than it controlling you. If there's anything other than shakes you can have - prepare and have them readily available. I can have broth so I've made my own (tastes much better than store bought). If you can have sf jello - make sure to have some in the frig. While my SO is eating his supper - I'll have broth. He feels horrible but it's okay - this is only temporary - I can handle it! You can too! 4 weeks seems like an eternity but it'll go by fast and get you started off in the right direction. A nibble of pizza is not going to harm you pre-op. Anymore than a nibble and you may trigger even more carb cravings. Stay strong!!!

@@ella37 It could be the gas from expanding your abdomen during surgery. Be sure to walk alot. Also - if you have other pain - talk to the nurses to see if there's anything they can do. That's assuming your still in the hospital.

I was doing a major house cleaning this weekend and wore a surgical mask so I didn't get sick before surgery. I couldn't stand my own breath coming back in my face.

Sleeve or Bypass has fairly similar results but Bypass loses the weight in a shorter time frame. Your surgeon and team should help you decide what's best based on your situation. There's been successful people who have PCOS with both surgeries. Loss may be slower but not necessarily. Hair loss is a side effect from rapid weight loss. It may or may not impact you and it grows back. Don't let that deter you from getting surgery though. Your health is too important! @@Cervidae can speak to you about PCOS and RNY (Bypass)! She's been incredibly successful! Glad you are cleared from cancer!

You can certainly post everywhere but alot of the men follow that forum and could answer your question.

I had stomach issues a few days during the first week. I'm not allowed food other than celery so all liquids.

@@sgc Looking good!!! Congrats!

Alot of people have issues with chicken unless very moist or mixed with gravy, broth, etc. Someone talked about cooking chicken in crockpot with broth and shredding it when done (like pulled pork).

@@PissiChrissi Prove him wrong! It's not going to be as fast as the 1st 6 months but your sleeve won't expire after a year.

Good luck @@mommabear2311

@@Julie2879 Best of luck! You are a step ahead since you got through the liquid pre-op diet. Great job!!! I also cried in the grocery store last week. ????. I'm on day 9 and have 5 more to go!

It's not your post @@tess170

@@AmberMarie86 I've been doing a major cleaning of my house. It's distracting me while I'm on my liquid pre-op diet and this way when I'm home recuperating- it'll be in a very clean house.

@@Spectra13 It's not too late to have therapy to deal with your food addiction. You will be able to eat more than 4ozs. This is more mental than physical and I wish they required therapy before surgery. Also be aware that your hormones are all out of whack right now and things look worse than they are. It's very unlikely you would have been able to lose on your own and keep the weight off. You've lost 15 lbs in 3 weeks. That would not be possible for me without surgery. It would take me months and I would get do frustrated that I'd give up. Also - I'd have to starve myself to get there and that's not sustainable. Hang in there!

Go to the ER.