unclebigbad

Could make a time/day schedule to officially chat - then at least it wouldn't be just random wandering through.

Wow how selfish of him. I am so sorry for you! If you want him I say counseling like others, if not be encouraged you can try again and know that this could be a potential issue to deal with next time before you get too involved. I am really sorry you have to deal with this crap!!

Wow how selfish of him. I am so sorry for you! If you want him I say counseling like others, if not be encouraged you can try again and know that this could be a potential issue to deal with next time before you get too involved. I am really sorry you have to deal with this crap!!

What an insecure selfish prick move that was.
So.......surgery to improve your health was all it took to run him off ?????
He's got tons of issues that will take years that work through....... And if he is even man enough at some point to work through them.
Have the surgery and improve every aspect of your life that you can. You'll find a real man who is unselfish and values you and your choices.
If he's younger.......then all the better.
Get revenge through getting healthy and living each day to the fullest.

Wow how selfish of him. I am so sorry for you! If you want him I say counseling like others, if not be encouraged you can try again and know that this could be a potential issue to deal with next time before you get too involved. I am really sorry you have to deal with this crap!!

I had my surgery back in August, but I totally remember how insane my schedule was in the months leading up to surgery. There were just so, so many things to do to prepare! Sometimes I had multiple appointments a day, several times a week.
Today I had a therapy appointment at noon, then I have a physical therapy appointment at 3, and then a bariatric support group meeting at 6:30 this evening. It's a busy day for me too. I feel your pain.

My incisions were glued. I was told to let the glue come off naturally and not to run or pick at it. I wouldn't recommend ripping anything off. If in doubt about what to do, call your surgeon's office.

Thanks everyone! I am feeling better now... it was just seeing no change AGAIN frustrated me first thing this morning. I will try to chill and go with the flow. I'm not great at that..in life or weight loss! haha

24 pounds in 6 weeks and you are disappointed? You've lost more than I had at 2 months post-op. If there is anything you are doing "wrong" it might be just not eating quite enough? I was told to try to get 100 grams of Protein in as quickly as possible (though I don't think I was there yet at 6 weeks). And I was told to get my calories up over 800 a day before starting any intense exercise.

I lost about 40 the first month. Of course I am a guy who started at 411, so my BMR was huge and I ate nothing. Keep going it comes off. I am now 8 months + and over 100 down. The holidays were rough but I am losing again. You can do this!! Protein and water!