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update....so the sex is good...but whoever said the way to get over a man is to get under another or in my case on top of another lol was way wrong.....I hate being all emotional...but I guess I will have to deal with it and continue to progess in my new relationship :tongue_smilie:

yes he knows and is very supportive of it :w00t: he's an all around great guy :ohmy:

ok so I am dating a new guy, I've not been with anyone other than my recent ex since my surgery. I am a little nervous about it but I really like the guy and he's so totally hot!!!! I am just wondering how people have dealt with changing partners and adjusting to someone new

i love giving and recieving....its actually a huge turn on for me to please my man :tongue2: but its all what people like and don't like...cant blame them for refusing something they aren't comfortable or okay with....but it would definately suck!!

well that's great :0)

uhm...I was waiting on you saying you get jealous cause its your man haha....but I guess you can be in love with a guy and girl...ask Tila Tequila :thumbup:

I understand the emotion thing for women you know cause I am one...and not all guys lack emotion trust me!! they just have a hard time showing as to us women let it flow like a waterfall.....

oh yeh you can bet those babies will go down....it was a sad day when I traded my dd bra for just a d.......

and no we don't use condoms so that's not it haha

ok question lol my boyfriend can usually last a long time in bed but if I move a certain he goes instantly...he said it feels like i'm ribbed on the inside and it happens everytime....I know its a truly awesome thing haha but he said he's never felt that before in another girl...does that sound weird or do i just have a magic va jay jay haha

well apparently...I can not sympthize with you...even at my biggest I was full of self confidence. Because my body is changing and I have weird skin I call it...I am a little self conscious but I know that that will be fixed soon :cursing: what I am trying to say is feel comfortable in your own skin...no one loves or should love you more than you!!! Don't ever call yourself fat....dont' ever feel worthless cause trust me there are so many people out there who appreciate you whether you realize it or not!!! :thumbup:

mine is amazing!!! i swear by it....if my boyfriend and I don't see each other for a while....thats my go to...he and I have even used it during sex....he loves to watch my reaction to it :cursing: lol

my doctor said no sex for 6 weeks but 3 days out my BF and I did and I had no trouble....hmmmmmm I dunno I guess it depends on the person

why is that....its so funny a girlfriend of mine and I were talking about it last night and oddly she's thought about the same thing.....so obviously its more common than I thought.....its just getting up the courage to go through with it or suppressing the urge with male attention lol

my problem is I am only 20 and in college...makes it sooo much worse...I check out guys and girls...it so crazy!! and at parties and such....I am just uh...livid!!

sex sex sex all i think about and now i'm flirty with the thought of being with a women just to experiment........

oh my, those fantisies are a little to crazy to be posting on lapbandtalk :thumbup:

Yeh the whole sex drive thing increases tremendously!! I've lost 60 lbs so far with the band and my boyfriend was telling me he was tired...I wanted to have sex several times a day and he didn't mind but got a little exhausted after a while. I am not sure why it happens but it does.....and yeh it can be scary, I know I caught my self comtemplating certain fantasies and talking to the BF about it and he was a little confused because I used to be so not up for anything new...I wish I knew why it happened so I can at least control it a bit. lol

as for the sweet adorable guy I was trying to date....well he broke his foot is a drunk and well a loser...lol

UPDATE ON THIS TOPIC :cursing: Russell and I are together and are planning on getting married when I graduate from college :scared2: Thanks for all the support but he turned out to be amazing and I love him.

I love her!! Rach is freaking awesome. People are just jealous cause she's so fun loving creative and wholesome!!! Get over it ya'll!!

I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with people thinking that, I mean seriously the only difference between the 2 is the quickness of weight loss and the surgery. I don't expect people to automatically know what the lapband is and what it entails. I can't believe anyone would complain about being compared to a GB patient. They did that for the same reason we got lapband. HELLO!

I had my band done in Albertville which is like 4 hours from Auburn...and you may look in Birmingham....they are alot closer to Auburn...may an hour and a half or so

well I am fixing to move to Auburn actually...lol and uh soooo I'm gonna have to find someone to do the same...I move in August 15th cause I am starting college...so if you find someone let me know and if I find someone I will let you know the same!!

nahh I was just ramblin...I mean being single and waiting on someone special in general...not just cause we're losing weight...even though that gives more confidence (not that I need anymore lol) but anyway I just think it'd be awesome to have someone in my life that really has the same interests as well as the same "cured" struggle. I would totally date a bandster haha!! And not just cause it's cheaper...just cause we can relate and we know each other on a deeper level than most...the stripped emotional vunerable level!