KindaFamiliar

"Everyone can have their own opinion but it is never ok to walk out on a marriage and children with no explanation or warning." I do agree with your "own opinion" statement @@reree6898 Each if us are entitled to such... My point, however, is this - I'm not aware of the full story... I'm not aware of all the details... So I'm not in a position to make judgments or call the guy names... I've no doubt that you're hurting and you feel like sh*t... But sometimes "this isn't working for me" IS the only explanation... Again, I'm not assuming to know what is going thru the guy's mind... The fact is, he MAY be a complete tool and be deserving of the petty name calling and character assassination that he's getting from the 'sisterhood'... But maybe, just maybe, he's a guy who is struggling to put things into words and is doing (what he considers to be) the best he can for all involved... (Please note, I am NOT including all the previous posters under the 'sisterhood' moniker. Just the overly outraged and militant ones - you'll each know who you are...) I genuinely wish the best for you... But I also hope that your (ex?)husband finds the happiness that he's seeking Good luck to you both and to your family...

Add me if you like... Kinda_Familiar I'm in sunny Canada at the moment, spending time with my girl... There's currently not much 'tracking' taking place, but that'll change once I'm home...

So much name calling and uninformed judgement... You know what? Sometimes just up and leaving is the right thing to do... Sometimes it's the better option... If stuff is done, it's done.. Yep, it can hurt... But so can dragging sh*t on for weeks/months/years.. The ONLY dodgy thing I saw (if I've understood the OP) is taking all the money from the account - that's kinda low... But as for the rest - grieve the end of your relationship and move on... You'll be fine.. Good luck to you... **EDIT** - Upon re-reading the original post I saw that the husband took half the money in the account... So I'm ok with the guy's actions... I'm sure it wasn't a decision he made lightly...

I struggled with 'red' meat for ages. Over 12 months. Chicken and fish were fine. Beef and lamb were no good. They just sat in a big protein ball in my gut - I couldn't process them. Just take your time. Don't rush it - it'll make you sick...

Congrats on the shrinking head!!! I found that my glasses didn't fit due to the decrease in size of my bonce.. And I dropped two sizes in shoe... It's stuff like this - stuff you don't think about - that makes up for all the sh*t!!! Well done LittleHeadBill...

In!!! I'll be starting a week late... Jan 9 actually.. But I'll catch up...

Yes... Olive oil and butter...

And THIS is why it's been two weeks between this post and my previous post... What a joke...

Tell 'em whatever you wanna tell 'em... I've never balked at talking about my surgery, but that's not for everyone... Tell 'em half truths... Tell 'em lies... Tell 'em everything... You don't answer to anyone but yourself... People are gonna judge... We all do it... So you may as well do things how YOU wanna do 'em.. But if you do make sh*t up - Make it good!!!

Same topic, different heading... It's old... It's tired... It's not gonna change... It's the internet for f*cks sake... If you CHOOSE to let this shit get you down then you deserve to be down... If you don't like what's been said, find another forum where they tell you what you wanna hear... Or better still, turn your f*cking computer off, get off your fat arse and go for a walk... Honestly, it's sh*t like this that keeps me away... Speaking of away...

Ok b*tches... As the newly, self-appointed Minister for Getting Sh*t Going, I've decided to run a weekly topic entitled "What's your favourite..." Each week, I'll post a new subject. All you have to do is reply with your favourite of that particular thing... It could be something 'normal' like song/movie/book... It could be something a little more controversial like... Well, let's just see what I/we can get away with without causing a mass banning... Anyway, feel free to comment... At the same time, feel free to pass over the thread if you're just gonna be a d*ck and screw things up... You're not obligated to post/reply/like/read any of this... So, for this week, we'll start with an easy one... What's your favourite.... SONG LYRIC A line... A verse.. A chorus... A whole song... It matters not... Share it with the recovering-fatty world... Not your favourite song!! But your favourite line(s) from a song... Have at it b*tches!!! ***EDIT - When quoting your lyrics, please put the song title and artist as well. I'm always looking for new music to listen to and will be Spotifying the sh*t outta any songs I'm not familiar with... Thanx...

Yep... And not just friends... I've ended relationships of all types in the 17 months since my op... And I've not regretted doing so for even a second... I'm all about me... I'm doing what I've gotta do... I've surrounded myself (to some degree) with people who are supportive... My people... This isn't for everyone of course... But it's what I needed to do... If you want/need more info, flick me a PM...

Aaaaaand away we go!!!

17ish months out... Stalled for the past four or five... But I think it's breaking... Stick with your sh*t... If you protein it, it will come...

Add me if you like... My food diary is public... And my name is the same as here only with a _ between the two words...

@@Zoes.Realm I had (and still have on occasion) the same problem... I've found that it's when I'm having two or three Protein shakes per day... If I have the shakes and get all my Water in I have the diarrhea problem... If I don't get enough water, I have the constipation problem... I guess there's just no pleasing our sleeven poo gods...

I've not used anything but Syntrax Matrix/Nectar the entire time... I rate them all highly... Except the blue one... That tastes like crap... But the rest are great... In particular, the Vanilla Torte with some lite milk or the Fuzzy Navel with water... I've not had the 'non-mixing' issue tho... Maybe you just need to shake it a little harder...

Having said all that - Who the f*ck would wanna go without sport and/or sex???

As it happens, I'd happily and successfully survive without all of them... I do not enjoy food... I do not enjoy beer... TV serves a purpose... Sport is similar... Sex is great... But it's not what I live for... As there also appears to be a particular order that these should go in, I apologise if I've not got them listed correctly... So with all that in mind - Yes, the statements made in the preceding posts are certainly sexist generalisations...