My take on this is as follows...
Losing weight doesn't change who you are..
It only changes what you look like..
Take me for example...
8 months ago, I was a fat, self centred, sarcastic, opinionated 45 yr old guy...
Sure, I had my bad points too, but those are for another post...
Now, 8 months (and 150-ish pounds.. GO ME!!) later, I'm still EXACTLY the same person...
I just weigh less..
I'm still seld-centred...
Still sarcastic...
Still opinionated...
Just lighter..
I'm guessing that I'm no more 'attractive' now than I was then..
Perhaps less 'unattractive'...
But ultimately, I'm still the same obnoxious ass that I was ..
Being fat/overweight/obese is a physicality...
As I've posted elsewhere, it's what you are, not who you are...
My opinion is that who you are has much more bearing on your relative 'attractiveness', as opposed to what you are..
But then again I could be wrong...
It's happened before..
All the best to you mate...
Kinda...
***Please note that the above post is not pointed at anyone in particular. It is merely the ramblings of a man who knows stuff. It should be read with a grain of salt...
If that's possible..
But anyway, you know what I mean...***