janaday1978

Oh boy, it's THIS thread again.....
You are going to find a wide variety of opinions on this subject. You will need to do what you are comfortable with.
Me? I'm an open book. I tell everyone. And I could give a %$#@ what people do or do not think about it. Because of that, people in my life have been VERY supportive. At least to my face

Bring a bottle of tequila to work and suggest everyone do shots. That should quell those pregnancy rumors!

@@heav85
My husband told me it feels threatening to have you're partner go though a physical transformation. It does make him insecure and question's if he is enough. i understand and I'm doing what I can to make him feel better about the situation.
BUT....It still bothers me that there is so much importance put on you're appearance when you are thin. Is it me or is it insulting that significant other's think now that we are smaller we might have an affair. I guess larger people never have affair's? (WTF) It's only weight loss. I still have the same love for my husband. I'm just in a smaller package.

I'm all dressed in my gown. ..surgery at 10:30. See you on the other side!