miketter

I've shopped at Mens Big & Tall and Destination XL for over 10 years. I'm 3 weeks post op and can't wait to shop at a " regular" clothing store. I like the idea of purchasing something nice in advance. Can't wait to be able to fly in a plane w 1 seat.

Good luck. It's great to have family support. All my siblings have been a huge support. Your 2 weeks will go quickly.

I can relate. My last meal I went with my siblings and thought it was like " the last supper". Enjoy your dinner tonight. I am 3 weeks since surgery and glad I may the decision. The 2 weeks will go by fast.

My bet is you can and will loose the weight. I had to loose 30 lbs. instead of thinking about 30 lbs, I concentrated on loosing 3 lbs a week. I cut out all carbs and sugars. Started drinking 2 protein shakes a day and one regular meal. Did cheat a couple of days and had carbs and sweets, but would only set me back a day. I went to see my nutritionalist every 2 weeks to weigh and hold me accountable. Good luck to both of you. I don't regret one bit the surgery.

Take a look at a 12 step recovery program. Replace the word " alcohol" with good. The 12 step program has worked for me with alcohol. I've heard of it working with other addictions (food, work, etc). I had surgery Dec 30th. Had to lose 30 lbs before. The first 10 lbs were the hardest. Once I lost 10 lbs, it motivates me to keep on track. I would eat healthy for 6 days and have one day I would eat what I wanted, but would keep away from the carbs. Good luck.

Good luck. The first step is the way it starts. Time goes fast between the 1st seminar and the surgery.

I'm only 10 days post op. Still waiting until I can move to soft foods. Agree that you ate more popcorn than you should have or were told you could have. In my opinion, I know there will be a day that comes I will not eat exactly as I'm supposed to. I'd have unrealistic expectations to believe I will follow 100%. My goal, is in life, is to do the best of my ability. Move forward and do your best.

I had my surgery on Dec 30th also. Have been having same problems with gas issue. Seems like I'm better today than the first couple of days after surgery. I have on my grocery list to purchase Gas X. The doctor said he could help. I'm glad to here most people are saying in a week or so it gets better. I have been walking which I can feel that helps.