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I had my sleeve done through Kaiser Permanents and they don't do lapbands anymore because of the complications their patients have had. Your body is eventually going to reject any foreign material you put in it and I personally don't want to have surgery twice. You're not a failure. You're a very strong person for being able to recognize you weren't ready.

I had my sleeve done through Kaiser Permanents and they don't do lapbands anymore because of the complications their patients have had. Your body is eventually going to reject any foreign material you put in it and I personally don't want to have surgery twice. You're not a failure. You're a very strong person for being able to recognize you weren't ready.

Fat is just a descriptive word, it is only an insult if you take it that way. Now if they said something like big as a house, or tubby or some other derogatory slang, that would be different. Remembering where I was, helps me stay on track. Good friends WILL tell you that you are fat. The person didn't say that you look better or prettier, now, just that you look DIFFERENT, which is accurate. I would hope that you look different after such an extraordinary weight loss accomplishment. Congratulations!