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That is what I am on - I want the one where I can eat chicken and veggies !

I'm scheduled April 7, started my pre op diet on Monday which consists of 3 or 4 Protein Shakes mixed with almond milk or skim milk, then Clear Liquids only! SF Jello, SF Popsicles, chicken broth Water and all the crystal light I can stand. I wonder why the variations in all the diets, because right about now I would love 2 ounces of chicken!

Well this response u a little premature, however I feel that this may bring up issues later on post surgery. When we got married 5 years ago I was "chubby" now two kids and over 80 pounds later I'm just really overweight. But my husband is continually making comments to the effect that I will lose my butt and breast and that he NEEDS curves and I'm going to be to skinny for him. With every appointment that I have the comments just keep rolling. I hope once he sees me thinner and more active and healthy he will fall in love with me all over again!

Well this response u a little premature, however I feel that this may bring up issues later on post surgery. When we got married 5 years ago I was "chubby" now two kids and over 80 pounds later I'm just really overweight. But my husband is continually making comments to the effect that I will lose my butt and breast and that he NEEDS curves and I'm going to be to skinny for him. With every appointment that I have the comments just keep rolling. I hope once he sees me thinner and more active and healthy he will fall in love with me all over again!

You're right, you don't understand. I don't have any friends who would want/would like to be called fat in past or present tense nor do I. Was I fat? Yup. Am I fat now? Nope. Are you an ass to tell me the obvious about my former fat status ? Absolutely.
It's not about being honest or dishonest, it's about being kind and considerate to others.
Edit to add: I am NOT calling anyone HERE an ass, not even the person I quoted. My point was that it's highly likely that I *would* call someone an ass if they dared point out that I was fat but I'm not now. No sh!t, Sherlock. Back handed compliments are worse than flat out insults, IMO, because they are so passive aggressive.

1 step further....... When you can fit comfortably in the rides at amusements parks

When a regular sized bath towel wraps around you WITHOUT any gaps! That has to be the best feeling. I realized this last night when I got out of the shower.
I even wrapped it past the gap about 7 or 8 inches. HOW FREAKING AMAZING!!!
Kelly :) :)

Well this response u a little premature, however I feel that this may bring up issues later on post surgery. When we got married 5 years ago I was "chubby" now two kids and over 80 pounds later I'm just really overweight. But my husband is continually making comments to the effect that I will lose my butt and breast and that he NEEDS curves and I'm going to be to skinny for him. With every appointment that I have the comments just keep rolling. I hope once he sees me thinner and more active and healthy he will fall in love with me all over again!

This is my very first reply or post ever by I just could not go without saying that was truly inspirational!! Congratulations on your journey!

@@angewil60 Holy mother! Lol! You may need to type that up again....After you come off the pain meds!!!!

This is my very first reply or post ever by I just could not go without saying that was truly inspirational!! Congratulations on your journey!

Even though my surgiversary is December 20, I consider today my 1 year mark since it was December 4 that I started my preop diet. Hey, 16 days of liquids and leafy greens and 22 pounds lost deserve to be counted! I really don't know where to begin to describe how wonderful this past year has been, but here are some highlights...
My surgical experience at Obesity Control Center in TJ was better than I could have hoped for. It was more of a fun mini-vacation with my sister than anything. Recovery was nearly painless and I have had no reflux, food intolerances or Hair loss. My sincere thanks goes out to everyone there who took such good care of me.
I discovered what a wonderful, supportive community I live and work in. I was very ashamed and angry about letting myself get so fat. But despite the initial embarrassment, I chose to be honest about my surgery and talk about it openly. Turns out that was great therapy. I am now proud of my decision rather than feel it's something I need to hide. Literally hundreds of people know I had WLS....friends, family, clients, fellow beauty shop patrons.... and no one has made me feel bad about it. Nobody treats me any differently and turns out people like and respect me whether I'm fat or thin. Everyone is just happy for me that I feel better, both physically and mentally. I see from a lot of posts that not everyone has such accepting, non-judgemental people in their lives so I am incredibly grateful that I do.
The first first 3-4 months postop were certainly not without struggles.... Feeling bloated and full all the time that first month, Trying to get in all my Protein and Water despite having no appetite, learning how to chew and eat slow, almost 2 months of diarrhea from a C. diff infection from antibiotics for a tooth infection 6 weeks after VSG, being on medications that made me nauseous, getting IV fluids 3 times for dehydration because I couldn't drink enough water with my tiny sleeve, and needing a fecal transplant to finally cure the C. diff. It was at least 4 months before I felt normal, but I never once regretted surgery and would do it all again. Although I wouldn't particularly care to relive the two excruciatingly painful gall bladder attacks I've had....by far the WORST part of this journey.
First NSV....my rings fit! (they have since become too big and I've had to resize them down...even my high school ring)
I learned from these forums that stalls are normal, so I never worried about them. In fact, I never even bothered to buy a scale. NSV's are much more satisfying and mean more than numbers on a scale.
Went from size 22 relaxed/curvy fit jeans to 6 or 7 slims. XXL tops to mediums. Size 44DD to a very saggy 36B (but I still consider this a good thing). I can shop in regular stores and even online because I know the clothes will fit and look good!
I can wear tall boots because they fit over my calves.
I can swing up into my saddle without having to find a log or rock to climb on. Even had to buy a new saddle to fit my new skinny butt. And I have no doubt that my horse is at least as thrilled with my weight loss as I am.
I am saving hundreds of dollars every month on groceries....good thing since I've had to buy a whole new wardrobe.
I can easily cross my legs, kneel, squat and sit "Indian style". I can bound (yes, bound!) up several flights of steps without even breathing hard.
My blood pressure is normal and my PCP is thrilled with my bloodwork. I had my first normal PAP and negative HPV test in 7 years....eating healthy has allowed my immune system to finally clear the virus and abnormal cells from my system.
My feet and ankles and knees haven't hurt in at least 10 months. I'm on my feet all day and went from daily NSAIDS and occasional tramadol to zero of both.
Blew past my surgeon's goal weight at 6 months, passed my personal goal around 7 months and have settled in the middle of a normal BMI range....100 pounds lost forever! More than I ever dreamed possible.
I have maintained within a 5 pound bounce range over the last 3 months with very little effort. Getting enough protein and water, taking my Vitamins, eating a well balanced diet of protein, veggies, fruit and whole grains and limiting white carbs seems to work for me. No counting calories, tracking or measuring. The sleeve does its job of Portion Control and I do my job of making good choices. I live and eat like a normal person and enjoy everything in moderation.
And somewhere along the way I've learned how to deal with life's stresses without turning to food and alcohol. I never thought I could feel this good about myself. I am truly blessed and I sincerely wish everyone as much success, confidence and happiness as I have found. (Sorry this was so long, but I just have so much to be grateful for)
Before/after pictures taken Dec 4, 2013 and 2014. Competitive Trail Ride Event pictures taken September 2013 and 2014.
 

Shorts!!!!!! I used to have very nice thick legs (genetics! Even the size 2 women in m family have thick legs!) I want them back so I can flaunt them at our annual 4 th of July Block party! I have a pair of American flag stilettos to wear and I want a cute patriotic t shirt to go with too. (I love 4th of July!!)
I have about 500 pics of outfits I would like to wear once I lose the weight.