borg/assimilated

Good attitude regarding the temporary gain. I weigh every day and am getting used to seeing occasional temporary gains. At 8 months out sometimes I hear a frightened voice in my head asking,"Is this it? Have I reached the end of my weight loss?" I just keep on following my plan and try to think positively. I like your thought onward and downward!

Sorry to hear about your no good rotten few days. You have accomplished a lot to realize that food is not a panacea for misfortune this is a wonderful NSV!

@@CanyonBaby, Praise God (which you did so well) ! The best news for you both. I will continue to pray for Dave's recovery and your future blessed years together. I am joyful with you!

How long ago was your procedure? 2/3/2015 8 months ago What was your starting BMI and what is it now? Starting BMI 42.7 (before pre-op diet). Currently 31 If you could magically go back in time and revisit your decision, would you still get the sleeve procedure? Definitely. I was nauseated following surgery, (needed meds for that) only needed pain meds postop for 24 hours. By 5 days out felt pretty much back to normal. As others have said, I wish that I had done it sooner.

@@CanyonBaby, So happy to hear surgery went well. I am sure part of that is due to you getting him fattened up and in good shape. Thank you, God. Have a happy reunion with your pups. I will continue to pray for an uncomplicated recovery for him and peace for you. Big huuuuuug!

@@CanyonBaby, Will pray as you requested. I'm always up early so 6 am in MN I will be praying for you both and the best possible outcome. Hugs from the land of sky blue waters to you.

@@Jangy03253, Quite the dilemma. I think you will find that there are people who have this surgery with very little to no support system and do well. You will also most likely gain confidence as you lose weight. At some point you will probably tell his family what you think of their interference in your relationship with your husband, or you may even tell your husband how you feel about his lack of defending you with his family. There may never be a perfect time for the surgery, however, I don't think you will regret going through with it.

May you have a successful surgery and easy recovery! Anxiety is pretty common pre-surgery, but it seems you are managing fine. Good luck tomorrow!

That's the spirit! Remember that you are important too, so squeeze that surgery in there when you can.

@@Inner Surfer Girl, loved this one!

My surgeon's requirement was for two weeks on the pre-op diet, with only clear liquids the day prior to surgery. It seems many surgeon's pre-op requirements vary, it would be best to consult with your surgeon.

I was pretty nauseated for about 5 days post-op. I was feeling pretty defeated too. It will improve, just do what you can for now. If you can't do protein shakes today, then let that wait for a day and try again. Are you able to eat yogurt on your plan? S.F. pudding? Maybe you will be able to tolerate them, or broth? It does get better, I promise. Keep yourself as hydrated as you can.

You know that you must do this, so why sabotage yourself? Put on your big girl panties and stick with your pre-op plan. You can do this!

When I had made my mind up regarding surgery, nothing could have stood in my way. I was determined to have it done as soon as possible. Maybe you are not at that point yet?

Oh, now I am depressed. I only have 4 bars left, checked the ingredients and they are the previous fiber ingredients. I was going to buy another box this week. Do I dare try the new soluble corn fiber ones? Maybe I can still find a box with the old formula, if not I guess I will buy one bar and try it to see how my body reacts. Thanks, @JamieLogical for the alert.

What a shock to you both! Gotta love those NSV's!

I, like DJMohr, only buy 2 or 3 pairs of pants at a time and a few tops. What has actually worked best for me is jeans with stretch fabric in them. I buy them a little tight and wear them until they are pretty loose, but they seem to follow my changing body better than non-stretch fabrics. Exciting to think about isn't it?

Wonderful! It continues to get easier as the days go by. I also think Priscilla Shirer's books are full of wisdom, about to start Armor of God. Wishing you continued speedy recovery.

Wow, you have done well and look marvelous!

What a great NSV! Congratulations on the smaller bathing suits, meaning a smaller you.

@@Jovie62 Thank you for the compliment. I'm a retired teacher and was an English major in college, I love writing, although I don't do it much anymore. Perhaps you have inspired me to write more?

This week I walked my dog down to the small public beach along the beautiful St. Croix river. Kids are back in school so it was a very peaceful morning down there. I sat down on a half buried log to enjoy the view. I was watching some fishing boats go by when I realized that I was hugging my knees to my chest. What? I was astounded that I just naturally did that without thinking about it and that it was comfortable. Six months ago I couldn't/wouldn't have done that. Hurrah for that NSV! I was tickled pink as they say.

Blech!!! Tried them once-not good.

I guess you will have the last laugh when you lose a significant amount of weight after a few months. In the big picture they won't be making those comments about you for much longer.

You have done so well! Congratulations! As another slow loser I have always been encouraged by your posts. Good luck with the sale of your house, so much work!