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Hastings

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  1. I haven't had the same issues that some have had as far as emotionally accepting the band. Perhaps it's my age, and finally just reaching that point of desperation that I am glad for the process, even if it is difficult.

    I think part of the issue here is that we all need to rethink food, our own eating behavior, and the band. If we can eat as much as a moose, perhaps we shouldn't. :eek:

    How often do we see the word "bad" as in "I've been bad"? Threads that are worded to make the poster sound like a naughty, misbehaving child? To me this sends the message that someone else (the food, the band?) is in control. We need to put ourselves in control.

    I think that it's important to have a plan and to work on that plan. Every single thing I eat I ask myself "Will this help me reach my goal?".

    Just because we have not always had self discipline over food doesn't mean we can't develop it.

    We need to seize the power. :grouphug:


  2. If you don't think it will work for you, then you have made a good choice.

    I'm 56 and i was banded the 4th of march. Age should not be a barrier. I, too, am looking to shed diabetes along with the pounds.:tongue:


  3. I have a friend, who just at the beginning of her process to have a bypass, told everyone: "The next two years are all about me. Get on board, or get lost."

    She was middle aged and her kids were grown and behind her.

    I loved the attitude. She has lost almost 200 pounds and is doing great!

    (The only thing she did that was really about her was to cook the food she could eat and to refuse to listen to negativity.)


  4. You doctor does not have the right to keep details of your treatment from you. I wonder why you need 8 fills. How much does he charge per fill? Are you paying or is your insurance paying?

    I would get a different doctor, one who would see me as part of the team taking care of me. :thumbup:)

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