Thanks so much, everyone, for your thoughts, knowledge & experiences! I'm so appreciative of your support.
Some answers:
- Yes, she has lost weight quickly since surgery and it continues, reporting that she has lost almost 70 pounds total. Her surgery was in mid-May.
- She admitted to me today that she wants to keep her food intake at 500 calories or below until she gets to a goal weight.
- She seemed to respond vaguely to my question regarding if her nutritionist and surgeon think hers is a recommended routine. I stopped there.
I can see why so many have perceived lack of support from friends who haven't experienced the surgery. I would hate to be seen as one of those friends too, but am preparing myself for that if my good intentions are not received as such. I sense signs of that already, and it makes me sad, but I want to be an honest and as true a friend as I can about her situation. Whether this is beginner's ambition, common behavior or a potential eating disorder, I'll do my best to show that I have her best interests at heart.
I'll gladly take all of your feedback into consideration before talking to her again, and will definitely approach her gently on Water intake to start. I saw the perfect water bottle the other day, and will offer it as a gift. Sharing Protein shots after a workout is a nice, gentle touch too.
I'd like to keep this discussion open for follow-up. I'm sure I'll have questions and may seek more support after our first conversations related to this topic. Wishing you all the very best in your personal journeys, and I'll write again very soon.