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I agree with Pink Dahlia. Get a good start now. If you feel healthier physically, you will feel better emotionally. Also, apparently your fella doesn't see you like you see yourself. Above all of the other women on the earth, He wants you so much that he is willing to marry you and take you off the market. Trust his judgement. You are beautiful in his eyes. Have a joyful wedding. Good luck, dear lady.

You ladies are so kind. Yes, my hubby to be loves me for me - I'm lucky for it. He's my soul mate. I think I will take all your feedback and work on getting healthier now, and then I'll be better for my wedding and more prepared for the surgery. Thank you so much for reaching out to me!!!

When I got married to my husband I was obese and was our entire married life until I decided to have surgery last year. Before surgery over a 7 year period I lost 68 lbs without putting much effort into and knew if I didn't start myself on this journey in May of 2013 I would never get healthy without surgery. So from May to September surgery I lost 40 lbs. I watched what I ate and exercised. I am now 190 lbs lighter and my husband is thrilled because I'm healthy for the first time in our marriage. Your hubby to be loves you for you and all of you. He's probably your best friend and that's the greatest thing of all to marry your friend because it lasts much longer and is more intense of a love. Be happy and enjoy all the precious moments you have together. Take care.