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I've gained a few back, I did look a little gaunt. I'll be alright but thanks.

I had that problem too. I wasn't trying, but still kept losing. My band gets tighter with stress, cold weather and travel (flying) and I took 5 trips in 2014 and just couldnt' eat. I finally did get an unfill in October and have put on some weight. I don't like it but everyone else does. Blah. Now I'm secretly trying to lose those 8 lbs I gained. Maybe a slight unfill will do you some good, but be sure you do it for you and not for anyone else.

Hi Butterfly, fills are not painful, but I guess that depends on your comfort level. Just feels like you are getting a shot. My doc would have me drink a small bottle of Water before I left his office to make sure I was not too tight. I agree with Bandista, listen to your body and if you feel like you need a fill, go! Best of luck!

Looks like we have a hard time getting anything together in Texas. I'm in Houston and don't see any activity. Based on your numbers, looks like you are doing great! Right on track!

I'm in a similar situation after being tight for more than a year and was so afraid to get an unfill. I finally realized I was too skinny and had .4 taken out. I've gained 8 lbs in 2 months. I guess I look ok, but I feel like i gained it all back. Now I'm back to counting calories and Protein grams to make sure I stay on track. Nobody knows, but I'm actually trying to lose those 8 lbs. I have been lectured about it, not wanting to hear it again.

Hi Chelly and Fred! Miss you guys in chat as well. My busiest time of the year is the fall, so I have been a little distant, but I hope @@Alex Brecher decides to bring it back. Alex, you asked how many people use it, that's hard to say, but if just 2 people are active, it helps others to feel like they can jump in. We can easily have about 7 or 8 members chatting off and on. That may not seem like a lot to you, but I know it has been a big help especially to those on the fence or just needing a quick reply. Let us know how we can help. We're happy to do so. -dt

Hi nervous, when is your surgery?

I can totally relate. I will always be a big girl and have a really hard time seeing myself as anything else.....until I pass a mirror. As far as a cure....not sure I want to be cured. I never want to forget that feeling.

I agree with The Icy One, you'll decide when and if they need to know and I wish all the best. - fellow bandster.

I've met my goal weight and just want to shout it out! Some have even accused me of being HOT! I'll take it!!

Congrats on your decision, sbake! I too have the band and it's not the easy way out. It's a solution to a battle. Keep up a good attitude and you will be successful.

I know exactly how you feel, I'm in the same boat. I don't want to lose more, but it just happens and I tell myself I can eat what I want when I really can't and tend to over do it. That's when I will "un-eat",but I can't keep doing that. I don't want an unfill either so I will just eat less, smaller bites and drink Protein shakes. Not sure I was helpful, but you are not alone. ????

You know I mean "overeating". I'm half awake here!

Are you overrating at your meals or taking big bites?

This is very kind of you, pay it forward!