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GingerSnaps, I too came home yesterday. Slept well in my own bed. Minimal gas too. Walking and drinking. I have to take three Protein Drinks a day and in between all the Jello, broth, Popsicles and Water I want. So far so good. Good luck to anyone rose going in this week? It's not bad.. I cried right up to going in the OR then I was laughing. The procedure was less then an hour I guess but I was away from my family from 12:50 -530 ..they were getting nervous. I of course had no clue. I didn't sleep much Monday night due to back pain and my heart rate dipped down to 40s. I was on Oxygen but not my c pap. The O2 I was on had a monitor at the desk. On Tuesday I used my c pap and took many c pap naps. It was amazing.. And I slept well Tuesday night.

So I'm on the other side. Can't wait to be healed. I have walking only orders . No lifting, no swimming or bending. I go to post op appointment in two weeks.

I am june 23rd! I am day 4 of pre op liquid diet! Getting nervous! Would anyone be interested in starting a little exchange. We could do a pen pal thing and send a small package to someone else who is pre or post op to brighten the mood? A friend of mine did this and she said it was such an awesome feeling to talk to someone in the same boat who knew what she was going through. post here or shoot me a message if you are interested!

It's to late for me since I am tomorrow. We care on Facebook now though too.. A lot easier to talk there!

Does anyone also have the bathroom scales ,I think called Aria that hooks up with their fitbit and if so do you like them and do they work well?

I have the Fitbit Aria and I love it. It was difficult to sync at first but I'm not computer literate. My son came home and had it done in 5 min.. No lie

Don't forget to add me to June 9th. I'm so bored today. I am doing my own liquid diet. No one is home lady and I'm going crazy. Crying, scared as heck. I go at 10am

I go for my preop testing this afternoon -- surgery Monday morning. That is if insurance cooperates -- I got a call from the surgeon's office yesterday that insurance needed a copy of my sleep study report from last year. They already had a clearance letter from the pulmonologist and I've been on cpap for a year but they were asking for one more piece of info. I'm praying this doesn't mean my surgery is going to get denied after pre-approval. Send happy thoughts my way.

Oh no, I hope you are still on for Monday. I need some prodding along.. Good luck to you to keep on Mondays date!

well I had my surgery yesterday and I am amazed by the pain I have. They keep telling me its gas, but it feels like I am getting stabbed. Hope this doesn't last long. Will be coming home today.

Chrisflowers.. I was told that pain could be gas but also from all the poking and prodding they do on the left side. Get up and walk walk walk...

That's part of why I didn't turn in my force when it was recalled as it does sense the vertical movement. I put a bandaid over the contacts and have not had any problems. Lol

I too have the Force. Love it . Never got the nasty rash as some people did. But you have to dry it if it gets moist.. Dah..lol

I love the website too. Great feed back from my Fitbit friends. We taunt and cheer each other on daily.

I am trying to keep busy and not think about next week as when I do I panic! Took some before photos but haven't plucked up the courage to do measurements yet! I am looking for a Protein supplement at the moment-any you recommend? It's weird to think that this time next week I will be having it done, it still doesn't feel real yet. Thinking about what I will need for when I get home-any suggestions? X

Lots of protein...lol my main Protein is called Met Rx. It's a huge barrel that I have been using for months. I got Peanut Butter. Ok the next choices are the ones I tried at Vitamin Shoppe: Isopure Zero Carb,40g 0 sugar. I love the coconut ; pure Protein shake 35gm protein, 0 sugar, 170 cal, I got the banana and plan on freezing it into ice cubes for a great refreshing snack. OMG it tasted amazing; Jay Robb 24 gm protein, 0 sugar, 110 cal; Synteax nectar had a lemon tea.. Wow.. It tasted great and I could sip that on the deck on a hot day..lol I also got a few whey Protein Shots. 45 gm protein.

They also suggested a powered peanut butter.. Only 45 calories.. I will add it to some of the powder Proteins. Did you ladies know to make pudding with the powdered protein? It's a nice change from drinking your protein. Just add a little Water to a scoop of Protein Powder until the desired consistency. That is where I would add the Peanut Butter powder too.

I hope this helps you a little bit.

Okay yall I am in the middle of a "date" that is leaving me feeling like im being punked. Second date after a couple months of scheduling conflicts. Drove an hour as did he and upon arrival he said theres a work emergency so do I mind riding with him to take care of it. So I go. He drops me off at a fast food joint and says hes going across the street to take care of whatever this is. Im here 20 minutes and think I am about to call for a cab back to my car. Im just dumbstruck. Possibly worst date ever. Lol at least he bought me an iced tea? Maybe thisll be easier post op.

I hope you are safe.. So what did you do?

Amazing transformation. You are stunning! Keep up the good work and remember you have to do it for yourself....

I found my guy thru a car club... we have the same kind of car and we met at a show... we were friendly, at first... things eventually changed...and I was over 300 pounds, so I never thought we'd be anything but friends (like everyone..major self esteem issues)... he is a lovely, lovely man and takes great care of me... I never thought I'd find anyone like that... so be patient and it will happen, I BELIEVE!!!! "Right in the middle of an ordinary life, Life hands you a Fairytale"

I love your quote..what kind of car do you both have! I have a 67 red mustang!

I've been wondering about some of these questions as well. Newly divorced and looking to step out there into the dating world. I've tried Christian Mingle too but it seems hard to get anyone to respond to smiles or winks or whatever. It just seems to be so "looks" oriented -- you have those couple of pictures that people look at before they ever get to the profile. I sit there trying to figure out if it's the weight or my short hair or 20 other factors that keep people from responding. And then I try to take a step back and say to myself "Self, you are a caring, loving, deserving person and you deserve someone who looks beyond the exterior and gets to know the real you." It takes a lot of positive self-talk and reframing... maybe I'll get it down someday...

I too am getting divorced if we ever find him... It's almost a year so I'm hoping after a year of absense it's over.. But anyway. I was on a site called " date hookup"! You put your radius in and what you are looking for. And it's free. I got many men to talk to.. Some were good and some were like.. Oh Dear, so glad you don't know where I love..lol I met some great guys. I was looking for someone that would help me on my weight loss journey.. I found a great guy that teaches yoga and tai chi and is So health conscious and eats Raw, organic as often as we can. It's like my prayers were really answered.

Dating before or after surgery is your choice ladies... But we deserve a man that treats us for who we are, big or small.. After all, we still have the same insides full of love to share. Good luck.. And be careful with meeting them in PUBLIC only!

Hi Doreen, I go in next Tues Good luck x

MMM.. Are you ready? I do not have to do liquids diets but I'm pushing the liquid Protein Shakes. I went to a Bariatric Protein tasting on Saturday and got so many samples. Some I never would have thought to buy without tasting first and they are good! Anything you think you will miss the most? I did measurements and before pictures already. I am hoping to be down 50by October.. What do you think?

OMG.. Everyone that went in today.. I hope you did well and congratulations! I am so proud of you. I have not posted, but read all the posts. I'm sorry I don't know to many names here.. But I care about all of you and what we are doing.

Glad that two people are going in together. Sorry about the dog passing away. He will meet you on the Rainbow Bridge when it's time!My babies are so much a part of me as well.

I had my pre op today and it was almost cancelled. I gained weight!!, I cried, I promised to be active and eat better...so it's still on for next Monday June 9. In at 10 surgery at 1215. I have a soap to use starting Thursday and everyday until surgery.i should be home Wednesday and up and asking on surgery night!

This is real, I get a second chance at life. Being skinny is a side effect. Being healthy is the main reason. Oh and to come off at least 5 pills daily. Wahooo!

Thanks for making a Facebook page. I asked to join and I'm glad it's pvt. I don't want anyone to know my business except you ladies.

BTW. I'm Doreen feel free to PM me or Facebook me too! Remember I need all of you!

Wow, that last picture was powerful. Exactly how I have felt for years. I'm a musician and artistic in nature and keep it to myself anymore. No one sees talent, love, patience, hard work, dedication, etc,.. through the obesity. They just see a fat person. A joke. I remember being thin in my young adult life and people always complemented me and listened to what I had to say. The bigger I got the more people shut me out, made everything I said or did appear ridiculous and then the shunning started. I see it happening to my kids and I know it's the weight. The last great prejudice in this life is against overweight people and getting worse. It's practically illegal to pick on someone for race, religion, or sexual orientation anymore, but it's a free for all on obese people. My son is now headed toward surgery and next will be my daughter (PCOS related). We feel less than human when we go out, that is the mental toll of society on obese people. The vicious circle that causes us to go home and overeat in the first place.

I agree with you. Maybe if there was more emphasis on nutrition at school we wouldn't have children with diabetes. When my son was in first grade , his teacher would not allow high fat, sugar or calorie Snacks at snack time. It started you do today he is 6"4" and 180 and works out everyday. ( so proud of him). I want to go up to these people who are struggling and offer help.many don't know of all the services available to them. When I went to my first meeting many were with oxygen and in wheelchairs. I thought wow, I'm not that bad... Yet!

So proud to be able to have a second chance at life! I am pre op for June 9. Good luck with your son and daughter .. Are you post op yourself?

I went today to sign my consent forms for my surgery this coming Wednesday the 4th and had my last visit with my nut before surgery. I told her that I was doing great on my two week preop diet but on Memorial day it was a train wreck. My 8 year old son went with me today and was telling my nutritionist everything that I ate that day. Lol I was thinking "Wait til I get him outside". Lol On the other hand I lost 12 lbs since Monday. I feel a little better now I just noticed my ticker saying 4 more days. it's really sinking in now.

That is funny about your son.. Good luck on Wednesday...

I am scheduled for June 10th as well. Started the Pre-Op diet yesterday. I was originally was supposed to get the sleeve, but my EGD said no. This new adventure has me a bit nervous as I did most of my research on the other procedure, but I'm excited it's so close.

I am one day before you. I have a12:15 time and I have to be there at 10.i am planning on the sleeve but it may have to be changed due to scare tissue. I have had multiple abdominal surgeries. I have not been told about a pre op diet . My hospital is a place of Excellence too.maybe I will be told on Monday. As of today I will do my own 2 Protein Shakes and one healthy meal.

Last night for dinner , I did practice eating for 20 min. I got to 14.. Lol it did help using the baby spoon too! Small bite fulls.i had my Minnie Mouse plate and put about a cup of organic beef curry with Beans. It remained me of a sloppy joe on my plate.

Good luck to all you ladies that are set for Monday. So you will be on the healthy side of life. So proud of you!

I'm a week and two days out from my sleeve and you ladies and results are amazing. I have pre op on Monday and surgery on the 9th. Anything you can tell me you wished you knew prior to surgery that you experienced! I'm excited to be healthy.. I need to loose about 120 lbs.

I am trying to be cool with this because I know it is temporary but Iam losing handfuls of hair! My doctor said it is not from lack of Protein it is normal because we are losing weight faster than our hair follicles can handle. Biotin won't help they say. I don't know, but my hair is on the thin side to begin with and I don't have any to spare. Thanks for allowing me to vent.

I am preop stage. June 9th. I have heard you can lose weight but clumps sound severe. Did you have blood work to check all your levels? I was thinking of cutting my hair shorter to avoid that! I can't wait to have 30-40 lbs gone. Has anyone come of b/p meds yet? I can't wait to get rid of some of my meds!

My survey is set for june 16th. I have lost 25 pounds so far. Was told by insurance that I had to lose ten percent, our five if there it's a co-morbidity. I have GERD so only need 5... And it gives me room enough that I won't be denied for not being big enough. My nutritionist said shes never he'd of an insurance denying anyone for dropping below the threshold once the surgery is approved... But I supposed it has happened somewhere. I'm supposed to be on a partial liquid diet til monday then go full liquid.... but this written I'm getting a pretzel from Aunt Annies. Lo

That's funny that your eating a pretzel. My favorite meals are gong down this week. We had Sushi last night and I want Chinese before surgery too! I bought my small place settings and spoons. My support group states that many still use the small plates even after a year!

Just heard from BCBS FEP and I am approved for surgery on June 9th!!! I'm excited and nervous at the same time. Hood my surgeon will give me a sedative to calm my nerves down on the day of surgery.

Masonjk I am the 9th too. I can't wait.. I'm hoping my back and leg pain will all go away. I have been trying to keep busy to pass yes time. Where are you located? I'm in Central NY.

I hope to bring my iPad with me to the hospital and check in with everyone. Has anyone cleaned out their closets yet? I have so many clothes that I will.. Be able to get back in to. Looking forward to size 14 by the end of summer.

Congrats to all the new people. I am less then 2 weeks now June 9 here. I go to monthly support groups and they told me no preop diet is required. I go June 2 for pre op the normal nut, NP, lab work, EKG, anesthesia... And what ever else I will need. I'm scared of not being able to drink Water as often as I want. I drink water all the time. I have been practicing no water with meals.. That s hard to do! Also, walking thru a grocery store.. Will I want everything I see? Or miss the foods I can't have? Any ideas? I'm having the sleeve by the way!

I can tie my shoes with clothes on and breathe at the same time! :-)

Yeah for you... That's a big accomplishment .....

Good morning, I went to a support group last night and found that my surgeon does not require a pre op diet. As long as I keep my 15% off.

I'm getting excited. Less then three weeks now. I got my letter from the hospital yesterday with all my dates and times listed.

Last nights mtg was about what you wish you knew prior to surgery... Some points were... The pain in the left lower rib area is normal, feel free to call the Doctor anytime something concerns you,be prepared that you can not gulp Water again,be prepared that your food choices will change post op due to taste buds, buy a bento box for going back to solid foods,

So many more things to think about too. Oh and they said to get a buddy. Have someone that you can call and say ,,,help I want to eat..... As they talk you down! I am hoping for this group to help me!

My Protein Shake I chose was "metRx" I got Peanut Butter flavor. It has 110 cal, 2 gm fat 1 sugar and 23 gmail of protein! I mix it in almond milk.

Sadly, they said don't drink your calories..ie alcohol ..lol but in time you cam again!

Getting so excited. I went to a support mtg last night and it's run by past sleeveers and RNY pts of my medical center. I learn a lot of info. Also, yesterday, I got my letter in the mail officially, stating my surgery date and time as well as preop day schedule.

I asked about a preop diet and they said it was not necessary. In Fact they said have a "last meal" if your choice the night before as long as you are NPO after midnight.

I still have to get my small plate and bowl,like a child's dish and baby spoon. I already have my new drinking cup that has no straw.

And taking pictures now too...