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I've had both knees replaced at the same time and made it through that so I figure I'll get through bypass, I agree that being in our 60's is so different than 20 yrs ago. Why don't the we seniors stick together so some extra support? I know I would appreciate your input . Stay safe,live long and have fun!!!

Good luck to both of you,I'm happy for you!

Is anyone over 65 considering surgery or did anyone over 65 have the RNY? I would love to hear from you.

Surgery was 9 days ago and left, lower incision pain is almost unbearable. Stabbing, burning and pain like I've never experienced in my life. Called physician's office and nurse said everybody experiences this pain and it will stop when it stops. Not very comforting. Anyone else going thru this?

I mean Dyan, not Cyan, fat finger LOL

Our friend Sally is 5days from her surgery date ( never strong in math so I might be off a day or so) let's all wish her the best. Sally please keep in touch and tell us everything about your experience.

Cyan, how do I friend you on this site, I've never had to do it, can you talk me thru it, I would love to have you as a friend! Mary

I'm so happy that all is well with you ! Seems like you are getting better every day , congratulations! Thanks for all the info, everyone that still has to have surgery will benefit from your experience. Stay safe' be happy, live life.

I am 64 and had my RNY bypass on Nov 18th... only regrets is that I did not do it years ago! I am feeling great, down 58# and doing things I haven't been able to do in 30 years! Off most meds and finding my way back to being active through Yoga, swim class for oldies, and excerise I never thought I would ever remotly like! and NOW DO
The surgery was not bad at all, pain very little , just for a few days... Proteins and fluids are hard to meet requirements at first but trust they will get better with each week! Stalls are frustrating, but everyone seems to have them.. I like to think it is my bodies way of taking a minute ( or two weeks Lol), to catch up with the weight loss
Please add me as a friend, If I can help in anyway...would love to help support ya! Many people have helped me daily along the way... Dyan from Ohio

Good luck Froggy, my prayers go with you

Hi Natalie, Guru is right ,there are so many wonderful people on this site, all you have to do is ask and someone will answer. I'm so appreciative to have found this site. The info and friendship is endless.

Yay, I'm now on the losers bench. Surgery was Tuesday and I'm heading home right now.

Amy,I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience. I would do evrything possible to have the thing removed if I were you. Consult a good Dr. that help you ,maybe even take payments . The rest of you need to chill, everyone makes mistakes, and we all need to try to understand that , have empathy for each other with kind words and our support.

Amy,I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience. I would do evrything possible to have the thing removed if I were you. Consult a good Dr. that help you ,maybe even take payments . The rest of you need to chill, everyone makes mistakes, and we all need to try to understand that , have empathy for each other with kind words and our support.

Thanks everyone,I did type up a letter to my PCP ,telling him my concerns ,asking him to reconsider, I sent the form he needed to sign with the letter I wrote, now all I can do is wait. Thanks again for all the support, you all are great!

Amy,I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience. I would do evrything possible to have the thing removed if I were you. Consult a good Dr. that help you ,maybe even take payments . The rest of you need to chill, everyone makes mistakes, and we all need to try to understand that , have empathy for each other with kind words and our support.

Amy,I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience. I would do evrything possible to have the thing removed if I were you. Consult a good Dr. that help you ,maybe even take payments . The rest of you need to chill, everyone makes mistakes, and we all need to try to understand that , have empathy for each other with kind words and our support.

I am 57 and had my sleeve surgery 2 months ago...Its the best thing I ever did...still have a long way to go but I feel great..It was hard the first 2 weeks but everyday gets better & better..I went from a size 18 pants to a 12...My bottom half is shrinking faster than my top...I started in March of 2013 & it was alot of work going to all the group meetings & PT & a NUTritionist & the surgeons nurses & my PC dr & 6 classes with a shrink..then finally with the surgeon..blood tests, ekg's etc....I had to quit smoking & give up all caffeine, which I did.it was a long haul til I got my surgery date of Nov.19th, 2013....BUT it is so worth it....My ins paid 100% but I had to pay the shrink 300.00 out of pocket...The sleeve is a much easier surgery & recovery than the bypass..

Try typing up the information that the bariatric MD wants addressed and ask your PMD to sign it and make comments ,if nec. Be strong and assertive, this is your life. Maybe that will show him how serious you are to get this done.

You're PCPs personal issues should not interfere with professional judgement. This is a case of what is best for you medically, not what your PCP does or doesn't like. Does he (or she) have a specific reason or are they just blowing you off?

Did your PCP give you a specific reason for not signing? Seems if he/she was really concerned with your health they would support you. Might need to find someone else.

My PCP was no help at all, so I got a new one.....

You may want to consider finding a professional that will be supportive. I wish you well.

Welcome IMK, it's common to be nervous, it would be odd if you weren't. From what I learned from my 3 hr. orientation the surgery is fairly safe. They put us through all the bells and whistles to prepare us the best they can to make us ready. We are all in the same boat and I'm not willing to let anyone sink. This is a wonderful support group and everyone is ready to help. The eating problem will gradually get better ,try small soft food a few time a day until you feel better. Keep the faith. Stay safe, be happy, live long.....Mary

Mammecan, P.S. WELCOME!