Fauxnaif

I'm almost to goal. I've had my band a little over four years. Almost two years ago, after losing about 100 pounds, I had a baby.
I was slow getting restarted (getting another fill) on my banding journey after that and I've hit many plateaus and have lost quickly sometimes and slowly other times. I have lots of emotional and mental issues that I have had to deal with in this journey (child abuse, sexual abuse, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, etc.).
Some people may be shocked at how long this has taken me. But it has allowed me to be more able (though not totally) to let my self-image catch up with my actual weight. I still struggle with it but I feel more comfortable than I would have if I had lost really fast. I think I would have wigged out if I had gotten a bypass or something so fast.

Follow the rules as best you can.
Remember, there is always tomorrow when you mess up.
Get a fill when you need it but don't be too agressive.
Pray lots (if that's your thing).
Get therapy if you have issues.
Get the support of your immediate family and don't tell too many other people.
Keep a journal and reflect on this whole thing.
Don't make the band your life. If you do, it will seem like it takes forever to lose weight.
Get involved in helping other people in some way. You will feel good.
Remember that you can do this.