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I am 36 yr old mom of two (15 and 13), been overweight since my oldest was born. My husband and I have been together 8 years but were just married a year and half ago, we have no children together and do not plan to have any more (mine are more than enough, hehe) I haven't been to this site in a long time, I was approved for surgery in September and chickened out at the last minute. I hadn't lost anything on the pre-op diet and the Dr. was not happy with me at all, I got really scared that I might cause myself more problems by having the surgery with complications. I could never forgive myself if I had gone ahead with it and in so doing brought on other medical issues that I didn't previous have. So here I am in Limbo and not really sure what to do.

not sure if you have a full face mask or just the one that covers your nose, but it sounds to me like if you just have the nasal part covered and your mouth is drying out that you are possibly mouth breathing in the night which would cause the drying. I haven't had a dry mouth problem with mine, I have however gulped air and sometimes wake up in the morning with air in my stomach, which usually comes out as soon as I sit up.

I sure hope it is an amazing journey, I just got back from my pre-op appointment and I am not felling real good at the moment. Doctor was concerned because I gained some pounds back from my initial appointment which was way back in May. He has decided to scrap the low fat, low cal diet and wants me on Optifast for the next 2 weeks. I always felt bad for those who were stuck with that diet and now I am one of them. He also gave me a prescrition for Lovenex for after surgery I am going to have to give myself injections once a day for 2 weeks to help prevent any clots, he is worried I may be vulnerable to that. They didn't have any Optifast in the office and so I had to order it from his website, it should be delivered by Monday. I bought the ready to drink chocolate. I wasn't sure about the flavor but everything I read says the vanilla was really bad. The also had strawberry, perhaps he will let me exchange it(they are supposed to be getting a shipment in) if the cholocate turns out to be real bad. I am just bummed from this visit. He needs to see me again 5 days before the surgery and he may cancel me if I haven't lost enough by then.

That is great news, best of luck.

When I first got mine I only wore it for a couple hour at a time, always pulling it off in the night. If I stop wearing it completely then it takes awhile to get used wearing it again. I really hate it too and hopefully I won't have to use it anymore once I lose some of this weight. The last two nights I haven't pulled it off at all, my only suggestion is to keep trying. Does your machine have that "ramp up" feature? My pressure is set to 11 and if I put my mask on when its full pressure I feel like I can't breathe, there is a button on my machine (looks like a ramp going up) that I push that gradually increases to your prescribed pressure so it doesn't overwhelm you all at once.

I am on Day 2 of my 3 week pre-op. It's low fat, low calorie (1000 cal) and I feel like crap. I have been sticking to it but crashing my calories like that feels real bad. It is not easy. I do plan to have a dinner out with my husband for our 1st anniversary but other than that, I hope to stick to it. I can feel myself already wanting stuff though, I need to completely avoid the grocery store.

Mine is a three week pre-op but it is low fat, low cal, 1000 cal/day. I have had an incredible headache all afternoon, today was my first day, hopefully I can get through this and tomorrow will be better. I am feeling a bit hungry too.

Thanks everyone. I started my pre-op diet today. My doctors office requires three weeks of low fat, low calorie about 1000 calories a day, then 2 days of clear lquids prior to the day of surgery. I need to study the packet the doctor's office gives out because apparently they are going to test me when I go on Thursday for my pre-op visit. hehe.

from my surgery coordinator at the doctor's office delivering the news that I am approved. Surgery date is scheduled for October 9th at 1:30pm. I have to go to my pre-op appointment this coming Thursday. I have to say part of me is excited and part is scared to death. I really really want to lose this weight yet a part of me keeps thinking that this is so drastic and I should as a person be able to control myself and do it on my own. I know others have had the same feeling and we all go through a bit of anxiety. Having a date makes it much more "real" if you will. So much to do so little time. I am going to need to start my pre-op diet right away my packet says three weeks before surgery. I am such a mix of emotions, I don't know what to think.

My paperwork was submitted to the insurance on August 28th and as of yesterday there is still no decision on it. I am getting quite anxious, I know I need to be patient, I am just eager for some progress. I have UHC and I do have the benefit so that isn't an issue.

Congratulations, good for you!!

Good Morning, I just wanted to pop in and say Hello. I am currently waiting for my insurance approval and then I can hopefully schedule my surgery soon after that. I have never asked for a seatbelt extender and when I was going to Mexico last year I sure thought I would need it but I was able to get the seat buckled after a short struggle with it. I would get completely stressed if I ever had to sit next to a stranger on a plane, luckily my only recent flights have been with my husband and we have arranged to be next to each other albeit uncomfortable cause he is a bit overweight too, not like me though.