VegasGrace

Vindication, indeed! Congrats and keep us posted on your progress.

Hey, shortgal....you are a smart one. Are you really Dr. Phil in disguise? I didn't take offense to it as I'm not easily offended...but I must have offended someone. And that for sure, I hate to do. Been on the forum a while and have seen many times where a post goes off into another area... someone mis-reads, or the writer didn't clarify. I did take a peak at her link and she is thin... and I think me saying that I didn't want to be one w/ bones...I saw her and she does have that look. It's so exciting for her, though. She's come a long way. So, Chickie, you have done a great job. Sorry we don't think alike and I offended you. You take care of yourself! Thanks again for the advice everyone, I gained a pound off 1 ice cream and 3 tootsie rolls. So I must be borderline maintaining my weight....so I'll up the calories a tad...maybe more fruit and fruit juices.

Yeah, now that I think about it..... if you can eat foods again a week or so later.... shouldn't you eat things that you WON'T be able to eat again, or there's a big possibilty? If that's the case, hamburgers...loaded. RoastBeef sandwiches. Crunchwrap/ Cheesy Beefy Melt -Taco Bell. Those are the only things I won't even attempt to eat now...they get stuck no matter how tiny of a bite I take or how much I chew.

You've totally lost me. I've never seen you, I'm talking about me....what I like. For sure you don't think everyone finds the same things attractive or unattractive? And please don't say you are unattractive, I'm certain you have beauty, everyone does.

Good question. The way I understand it is a bite or two should fill the pouch. But most do not stop at just 1-2 bites....thus causing a backup. Or, in my case with the Crunchwrap from Taco Bell.... the piece that I swallowed was too large to pass thru the pouch. Digestion is reduced since it's such a tiny place and that's why we begin the digestion process with chewing, chewing, chewing...to break it down. But some foods aren't so easily broken down... like the Cruchwrap. There are 3 things I won't even attempt to eat because they get stuck. Besides the wrap, hamburgers or roast beef sandwiches. But remember, 2 spoonfulls will fill the pouch in many cases and many simply eat too much.

Well, that's not entirely accurate. The lapband system was designed to give a patient restriction with adequate adjustment. If a patient has it with just the band being put in... or w/ a first fill.... what a bonus! The 'restriction' you feel may just be swelling. Swelling/enlargement of tissue can be restrictive. Congrats on the steps you've taken to control your weight!

Wow, that's some story. Hate your family is going thru that. The docs have a reason, or suspected reason your cousin slipped into a coma. Wonder why they didn't tell your family. Or, if they did, why didn't they share it with you. My first guess was potassium deficiency. I had/have that and was told at the most severe I could die...but a coma would be first. It's so important when you have any procedure done WLS or gallstone removal.... you have to stay close to your doctor until he/she gives clearance for annual checkups. I'm sure your cousin did and hate the doctor didn't catch anything. But sadly with these cases, the truth of what happens goes down with the patient. You hang in there and our prayers are with you and yours. As for continuing w/ WLS....that's something you have to decide. Weigh the risks and benefits. You cousin did and chose to take action. Let her go with dignity.

Just give it alot of thought and weigh all your options. I'm a food addict, so I can sort of relate to smokers. My mother, on hospice now w/ congestive heart failure and COPD... still smokes. I've watched what it can do to someone. But like her, taking off her oxygen mask to have a few puffs...I still overeat from time to time. But the band won't let me digest it. Let us know how things go for you in this process.

Yes, you are. If your tummy is rumbling... but I remember feeling the rumble...but not being hungry. Hopefully that is happening to you. If so, enjoy the weightloss!

I ate like a pig. I think that week I hit every place in town and ate all my favorite foods at home. Made me sick! But doing that caused me to NOT want anything...for quite a long time. I never went through what some do...longing for something and can't have it. Let us know what you decide.

OUCH. You handled this very well. Keep us posted on how things are going for you.

Well, it's totally up to you. Can you eat 1-2 bites and walk away? If so, I'd wait and see...sometimes restriction comes and goes for many. If not, go back for an unfill. But, if you are actually vomiting... get an unfill if you can't stop eating.

Ask. Don't be afraid to speak freely with your doctor and staff. The only dumb question is the one not asked...and believe me, they don't mind explaining things to you or sharing info. My doc had to explain 3 times, 3 different ways before I got it.

When you go in for your first fill at 6 weeks post op, your doc may do an adjustment w/ xray aka fluro. If he doesn't, request it...tell him your thoughts...and you'd rather be safe than sorry. That xray shouldn't be but about 80-100 bucks. And if there is no slippage.... good deal. If you do...well, that's money well spent.

Here! Here! But, I think people are just sharing their experiences. Most, if not all, do solve their issues and work the problems. I've had a few bumps in the road (I'm the one that swallowed bubblegum and had to go under for GI to retrieve it). This is a great place to share experiences. And don't be afraid...be aware of 'this could happen to you'. You shouldn't be scared because you already knew this could happen to you. All bandsters are supposed to 'know'.

Zero. Wow, am I the only one who can't diet? I lose ZERO pounds on pre-op...didn't cheat. promise! And then post op, lost ZERO as well. After first fill lost ZERO. After second fill....well, look at my ticker.

Hahahah. Congrats? I'm insane and still was approved for the band. Don't think they are looking for sanity...just can a patient and will a patient follow doctors orders. The AMA now consider depression and anxiety disorder as comorbids....go figure!

It' new. It's different. Believe me, it will wear off....one day. Then there will be a time you will want to eat...and alot...but can't. It's when old habits revisit. Enjoy this time and remember, any weightloss before fills and restriction are a bonus!

Sounds like it...that you are addict-aholic. Sad to say, that's the American way. Dr. Phil McCraw a couple of years ago published a book about weightloss...but it was getting at the root of WHY. Can't recall the name but weight is a side effect of life. Fix the life so no more side effects.

I've not ever experienced what the lapband system claims....eat and feel full longer. Nope, with me it's eat what I can eat and as much as I can eat (small portion). Like today...had a sweetpotato pancake for breakfast. 3 is a serving size but I had 1 w/ sf syrup. That was at 10am. At 12:10am, I started getting hot. I got a little hostile, aggravation set it. And I knew I was hungry. Sure enough another 10 minutes I heard and felt my tummy. Got a sandwich kids meal from a sandwich shop. Whew! Just in time. Was out teaching my daughter to drive a stick...so I know the stress didn't help me any. I missed church 2 weeks in a row. I went, stayed for an hour but felt so hungry! I left. Now I'm going to carry crackers w/ me. Hope no one says anything.

Well, can you? I don't see why not. But I've read some on here do have issues with different types of bread. But, I eat Subway still. But I can't seem to get a bun from Arby's or McDonald's down. Weird, huh?

Wow, seems neat. But required? I hope you aren't paying for that...seems like an optional perk...and not medically necessary. Hey, if you do get them is there any way you can post them?

Hi Lydia. Like you I tried every diet...books, products, prescriptions, Weight Watchers, Jenny, ....you name it. Lydia, I reached my goal this year and let me tell you....it feels wonderful. Last night in bed I curled into the fetal position...sounds like nothing...but I actually was able to grab my ankles. Keep us posted with your journey.

I've heard something similar to this. Weird. Heard this one story many years ago in California. A baby was gaining so much weight and fast and constantly cried for the bottle. The doctor asked the new mom what she was feeding the baby. "Canned milk", just like you said. What type of formula are you using, responded the doctor. Eagle Brand was the mom's answer. That's my biggest regret with my children. They grew up on fast foods. I'm a single mom of three and being both Mother and Father...well, I had to let some things go...and cooking was the one thing that I had to let go. Of course, now that I'm banded, my children have lost weight. Weird, huh? They are not dieting...I'm just not going thru drive thru 3x a day. And, just a note, my oldest started college at 16, my middle started at 15 and my youngest of 13.... will start at 15/16, too. So I must have done something right!

Wow! Congrats. Have you noticed your FICO going up as your weight going down? There is a phenomena that occurs, especially with women. When they get a handle on their weight, they get a handle on their home, kids, life and money.