Their reason is more because they have horror story experiences with people they know... and they think worst case scenario .... current plan is to tell them on Monday.
I too am struggling with when to tell my mom and sister.... when I firstly started thinking about surgery I told them and they said 101 reasons for me not to. That was 3 months ago. My surgery is Tuesday and don't know when I'm going to tell them.
Dawn & hajones we will be walking the halls together! My date is the 27th at 7:30 with Friedman... thinking I met one of you yesterday!!! See you in the halls!