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grammi

LAP-BAND Patients
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About grammi

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    grammiwannabeskinni
  • Birthday 12/07/1957

About Me

  • Biography
    Paralegal, Grammi of 3 1/2, 7 year old step-son and husband that is 14 years younger
  • Interests
    Love to decorate!!
  • Occupation
    Paralegal 20 + years
  • City
    DeSoto
  • State
    Ks
  • Zip Code
    66018
  1. Happy 55th Birthday grammi!

  2. Thank you so much. Dr. Dunshee actually spoke to me about this and it may be a possibility. I live about 50 miles away is the only problem. I am so impressed with their center, I cannot tell you. I have had an overall HORRIBLE experiance with my lap band due to the doctors coming and going, etc. Absolutely no follow up....so if I choose to have it done again, it will definately be at Tallgrass. My family and husband want me to take some time off and regroup before making any more decisions. This whole ordeal has definately taken a toll on me, my hubby and my kids. I have simply felt horrid for over six months. Again, thank you so much for your words of encouragement.
  3. :omg:I was banded in May 2005. The first year was great and I lost around 50 pounds. In January of this last year, I started having horrible acid reflux and pain. I went to my regular physician and he started me on Previcid. Problems persisted so he did a scope and I had horrible inflammation of my esphagous as well as a small sore spot on my stomach near the band. Started me on Previcid 2 x daily and sent me to my lapband doctor (unfortunately I had never seen a doctor since my surgery due to the doctors leaving the center). I through a fit and saw a doctor who decided to fill some more which he thought would help. Wrong answer. I only got worse. Had to sleep sitting up, literally was gagging on reflux during the night, etc. Called my regular doc who had a barrium swallow and cat scan done. It showed a hiatal hernia and enlargement of my esphagous. He sent me to another lapband doctor who said I may have slippage, etc. Said he would call me in a few days after he had time to go over my films. Two weeks later never heard from him (and I am in a fair amount of pain and not sleeping real well). I called his office and his nurse said I neede to come back in and talk to him but she was not sure where he was going with helping me and he was not in my insurance network. I went to another doctor who was in network at KU Ned Center. He saw me, said I was probably filled too tight but needed to see my records. I was to come back in two weeks. I called in two weeks and his nurse said he did not make any notes and she did not know what I needed to do. I was SOOO upset. We were going on 8 weeks with no help in sight. My esphgous felt like sandpaper at this juncture and EVERYTHING even Water hurt going down. I started calling lapband doctors and almost evryone said they would not do surgery on one of Dr. Malleys patients. I even have United Health Care who generally pays for everthing. Fed up and in tears I call Tallgrass Bariatric Center in Topeka. There nurse corrdinator gets me in right away. Dr. Dunshee sends me straight to the hospital for another swallow (after talking to me for a very long time and offering me options). They held me at the hospital and called the doctor with the results. I was sent back to his office and was infomred my band had slipped (add this to the hernia and reflux). It took him literally three hours to find what three other physicians looked over for six months. I am now waiting for a surgery date (this week) for removal of my band and checking my hernia, etc. He unfilled my band and I feel a lot better already but, an very sad to have it removed. I guess I just want to say to all lapbanders, if you do not feel the lapband it working right, demand answers. My band probably would not have slipped had the doctor not filled me more and I had not been so ill and threw up a lot. Anyway, I am down 50 and will be joining Weight Watchers after my surgery. GOOD LUCK to all new banders...it does work for some.
  4. grammi

    Pain in Left Side...HELP

    Thank you Renee! I needed the hugs. I did call Dr. Malley and he wants to see me and make sure all if okay. I was feeling SOOOO good up to this point and am down around 40 pounds since May 18. Again, thanks for the encouragement!
  5. I have been having a pain in my left side and dry heaves. My doctor did a colonscopy and cat scan (regular doc) and said he sees nothing. However, he does want me to contact Dr. Malley or Lopez and have them look me over as he feels my band may have slipped or adhesed to another part of my anatomy. Has ANYONE else ever experianced this wonderful phenomonom? I had laid off the fills until we found out what was going on. My restriction is odd...sometimes I cannot get two bites down (of anything) without it sticking and other times I can eat a house....I am getting so sad as I want this to work but not having a left side ache all the time. Also, when I bend over I feel something pull inside....COUNSELING PLEASE!!!
  6. grammi

    Happy Birthday Delarla !!!

    Happy birthday! I have been away for a while and just looked at the latest pitures. YOU LOOK DAMN GOOD! Have a great day! grammi1207.
  7. grammi

    Slow Losers - Unite!

    God I am glad I tuned in today! I have been so depressed. I was banded May 18 and am down around 25 pounds. I have had a horrible time getting restriction. I too have a large band and after 4 fills am still under where I should be. Sometimes I feel like I could eat a house!!!! Anyway, thank you and count me in as I need all the encouragement I can get at this time. On the other hand, I am down more than I was in May!
  8. grammi

    Mexican fill patients & Dr. Malley

    I agree with the fact that Dr. Malley was somewaht rude in the way he left. The info I received from the office has himover in Prairie Village which is still Johnson County but a little further over than I care to try to reach on a lunch hour for a fill. Anyway..hope he finds what he was looking for and keeps up the good work. I had a wondeful experiance with him and his office!
  9. grammi

    Mexican fill patients & Dr. Malley

    I too was banded by Dr. Malley in May of this year. I was so sad to show up for a fill and find him gone with no explanation. The office has been great and I will probably stay there. I has surgery May 17 and am down around 34 pounds and going for my 3rd (small) fill tommorow. Let me know if you other Kansas/Missouri people get together. I live in DeSoto but work in Olathe. Good luck to all on whichever dr. you choose.
  10. grammi

    United Health Care

    Covered mine in Kansas and is paying for the first 2 month of fills. Then I pay $15.00. We have the PPO policy....it actually paid 100% to date!
  11. grammi

    Hungry while waiting for fill

    I know that.....we will get through.
  12. grammi

    Hungry while waiting for fill

    I am so there with you...I was banded May 21 and have lost 14 pounds but am at a stand still right now. But I am starving and as trying to eat as healthy as I can. But those damn cravings..... I get a fill the 20th so I am one week away also. I ate a part of a 6 oz filet last night and had NO problems (teeny tiny bites). Anyway...right now NOT gaining is my goal and taking one day at a time. It is hard but we can all do it!!!!
  13. grammi

    I feel so awful right now...

    I am having the same problem. I was banded May 12 and am down 14 pounds, but right now I feel like I could eat anything....I do not get a fill until June 20. It is so frustrating because I am still eating so much less and have been at the same weight for two weeks. I am really hungry and I am having to tell myself DO NOT EAT LIKE YOU USE TO as you are defeating your purpose.....but I agree with all of you....this is so hard. Other people without the band do not help as they expect me to be dropping weight weekly.... Then I can come here and find people that are coping with the same frustrations....right now I am trying to retain what I have lost, eat less and hold oout for my fill and pray it does the trick and I start loosing again. I also tell myself 14 pounds is a lot smaller than I was on May 12....... Everyone experiencing this limbo before a fill.....hang in there...we shall all get through this with the help of the experienced banders... Thank you all!
  14. I have been banded for a little over one week and have had no problems at all. Banded on a Thursday back to work (as a paralegal) on Monday. I feel great. Just returned from my first post-op and lost 10 pounds the first week and can start on "soft" foods. I also have been a little leary about all of the above....I think the best advice I have had from this board is follow your own body and the signs it is giving you. I had 4 oz of broth, Jello or strained Soup 5 times a day and drankl lots of Water in between and have as I said above...no problems. The only paid I had is when I bent over to paint my toe nails!!!! Just take it easy, eat or drink slow and when it is time to eat...chew...chew..chew!
  15. grammi

    Banded as of tomorrow

    Goodluck and let us know how you are doing when you fel up to it!

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