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Ms. Mannix

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from tdutko75 for a blog entry, I'm here   
    I'm a closet sleever whose doing this alone. Today was my last day at work because my procedure is scheduled for Tuesday. While updating my out of office for work email & updating my voice mail, it hit me.
     
    As I would tell my girlfriends......"This *ish is REAL!!" The waiting is over!
    From 1/2013 to 7/2013, I'm finally here.
     
    I've been to the required support groups,
    the consultations,
    the psych evals,
    the 3 months with the Nut,
    the EGD,
    the H Pylori meds, (ugh)
    the tears from being denied the 1st time around,
    the excitement of being approved from the appeal,
    the scheduled date FINALLY!! (the longest holiday weekend of my LIFE!)
    the PreOp class,
    My RX & "how to" on how to administer the blood thinner injections, once I get home. (and I'm TERRIFIED of needles)
    Telling my coworkers I'm going out for gall bladder surgery
    to this very moment.
     
    I don't know how I should feel. I've read many books & I've scanned many blogs. I'm stocked up on food & prayers!!
     
    I have enough chicken broth, beef broth, vegetable broth, seafood broth, jello, pudding, protien powders, syntrax nectar powders, isopure RTD, liquid whey protein tubes, chewable vitamins, chewable iron, applesauce, sugar free drink packets & bottled water to last me through to December!! lol.....No...seriously!
     
    Thank you all for your support, your guidance & for emails I've received. We are all in this together & I'm looking forward to crossing over into my new beginning very shortly.
  2. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from tdutko75 for a blog entry, I'm here   
    I'm a closet sleever whose doing this alone. Today was my last day at work because my procedure is scheduled for Tuesday. While updating my out of office for work email & updating my voice mail, it hit me.
     
    As I would tell my girlfriends......"This *ish is REAL!!" The waiting is over!
    From 1/2013 to 7/2013, I'm finally here.
     
    I've been to the required support groups,
    the consultations,
    the psych evals,
    the 3 months with the Nut,
    the EGD,
    the H Pylori meds, (ugh)
    the tears from being denied the 1st time around,
    the excitement of being approved from the appeal,
    the scheduled date FINALLY!! (the longest holiday weekend of my LIFE!)
    the PreOp class,
    My RX & "how to" on how to administer the blood thinner injections, once I get home. (and I'm TERRIFIED of needles)
    Telling my coworkers I'm going out for gall bladder surgery
    to this very moment.
     
    I don't know how I should feel. I've read many books & I've scanned many blogs. I'm stocked up on food & prayers!!
     
    I have enough chicken broth, beef broth, vegetable broth, seafood broth, jello, pudding, protien powders, syntrax nectar powders, isopure RTD, liquid whey protein tubes, chewable vitamins, chewable iron, applesauce, sugar free drink packets & bottled water to last me through to December!! lol.....No...seriously!
     
    Thank you all for your support, your guidance & for emails I've received. We are all in this together & I'm looking forward to crossing over into my new beginning very shortly.
  3. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from kw2walker for a blog entry, ☼ 7/30/2013 ☼ My Sleeve Day   
    This was the loooooooongest holiday weekend E-V-E-R!!!
     
    I felt like a kid near Christmas, having to walk past the Christmas tree with ALL of those beautifully wrapped presents underneath, with MY name on them..{and not being able to unwrap any until Christmas Day}.
     
    I called this morning & scheduled my date..... 7/30/2013... You guys can't see me, but I'm doing the Happy Sleeve Day dance!!
     
    Wow & to think....I will be "born again" {not bring disrespectful} for the 3rd time!! Woo hoo!!!!
     
    My True Date of Birth 3/16/1964
    My Born Again Birthday 1/1/1984
    My Sleeve "new beginning" Birthdate 7/30/2013
     
    Can I tell you ......This is somekinda AWESOME!!!!
     
    I think Hallmark should create a card for such a beginning...lol..{There's an idea!}
  4. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from tdutko75 for a blog entry, I'm here   
    I'm a closet sleever whose doing this alone. Today was my last day at work because my procedure is scheduled for Tuesday. While updating my out of office for work email & updating my voice mail, it hit me.
     
    As I would tell my girlfriends......"This *ish is REAL!!" The waiting is over!
    From 1/2013 to 7/2013, I'm finally here.
     
    I've been to the required support groups,
    the consultations,
    the psych evals,
    the 3 months with the Nut,
    the EGD,
    the H Pylori meds, (ugh)
    the tears from being denied the 1st time around,
    the excitement of being approved from the appeal,
    the scheduled date FINALLY!! (the longest holiday weekend of my LIFE!)
    the PreOp class,
    My RX & "how to" on how to administer the blood thinner injections, once I get home. (and I'm TERRIFIED of needles)
    Telling my coworkers I'm going out for gall bladder surgery
    to this very moment.
     
    I don't know how I should feel. I've read many books & I've scanned many blogs. I'm stocked up on food & prayers!!
     
    I have enough chicken broth, beef broth, vegetable broth, seafood broth, jello, pudding, protien powders, syntrax nectar powders, isopure RTD, liquid whey protein tubes, chewable vitamins, chewable iron, applesauce, sugar free drink packets & bottled water to last me through to December!! lol.....No...seriously!
     
    Thank you all for your support, your guidance & for emails I've received. We are all in this together & I'm looking forward to crossing over into my new beginning very shortly.
  5. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from tdutko75 for a blog entry, I'm here   
    I'm a closet sleever whose doing this alone. Today was my last day at work because my procedure is scheduled for Tuesday. While updating my out of office for work email & updating my voice mail, it hit me.
     
    As I would tell my girlfriends......"This *ish is REAL!!" The waiting is over!
    From 1/2013 to 7/2013, I'm finally here.
     
    I've been to the required support groups,
    the consultations,
    the psych evals,
    the 3 months with the Nut,
    the EGD,
    the H Pylori meds, (ugh)
    the tears from being denied the 1st time around,
    the excitement of being approved from the appeal,
    the scheduled date FINALLY!! (the longest holiday weekend of my LIFE!)
    the PreOp class,
    My RX & "how to" on how to administer the blood thinner injections, once I get home. (and I'm TERRIFIED of needles)
    Telling my coworkers I'm going out for gall bladder surgery
    to this very moment.
     
    I don't know how I should feel. I've read many books & I've scanned many blogs. I'm stocked up on food & prayers!!
     
    I have enough chicken broth, beef broth, vegetable broth, seafood broth, jello, pudding, protien powders, syntrax nectar powders, isopure RTD, liquid whey protein tubes, chewable vitamins, chewable iron, applesauce, sugar free drink packets & bottled water to last me through to December!! lol.....No...seriously!
     
    Thank you all for your support, your guidance & for emails I've received. We are all in this together & I'm looking forward to crossing over into my new beginning very shortly.
  6. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from tdutko75 for a blog entry, I'm here   
    I'm a closet sleever whose doing this alone. Today was my last day at work because my procedure is scheduled for Tuesday. While updating my out of office for work email & updating my voice mail, it hit me.
     
    As I would tell my girlfriends......"This *ish is REAL!!" The waiting is over!
    From 1/2013 to 7/2013, I'm finally here.
     
    I've been to the required support groups,
    the consultations,
    the psych evals,
    the 3 months with the Nut,
    the EGD,
    the H Pylori meds, (ugh)
    the tears from being denied the 1st time around,
    the excitement of being approved from the appeal,
    the scheduled date FINALLY!! (the longest holiday weekend of my LIFE!)
    the PreOp class,
    My RX & "how to" on how to administer the blood thinner injections, once I get home. (and I'm TERRIFIED of needles)
    Telling my coworkers I'm going out for gall bladder surgery
    to this very moment.
     
    I don't know how I should feel. I've read many books & I've scanned many blogs. I'm stocked up on food & prayers!!
     
    I have enough chicken broth, beef broth, vegetable broth, seafood broth, jello, pudding, protien powders, syntrax nectar powders, isopure RTD, liquid whey protein tubes, chewable vitamins, chewable iron, applesauce, sugar free drink packets & bottled water to last me through to December!! lol.....No...seriously!
     
    Thank you all for your support, your guidance & for emails I've received. We are all in this together & I'm looking forward to crossing over into my new beginning very shortly.
  7. Like
    Ms. Mannix reacted to kw2walker for a blog entry, Steps away from the finish line!   
    Two days away and I will have crossed the finish line.
     
    Today I have been eating SF Popsicles all day along with broth. I don't fell hungry. I just could not drink another Slimfast! I plan on having SF jello for tomorrow. I will be packing shortly. I'm so excited. I don't want to over pack. I have to drag that stuff three flights up once discharged. So light is the way to go.
     
    Thinking of wearing a maxi dress or draw string shorts; Simple comfortable clothes. Hope it's not super hot when I'm discharged. I plan to walk the hall until my first post op visit. Then if all cleared I can do the stairs and I can walk the track.
     
    I also wanted to take a moment to thank everyone for their kind words and thoughts as well as the great advice and feedback to all the sleevers on this site. It has been a great help.
     
    Continued success on this journey!
     
    Karen
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    Ms. Mannix reacted to mom2ris for a blog entry, Overwhelmed   
    I am new to all this....even blogging.
     
    My husband and I are scheduled for surgery on August 5th. All of our pre op testing is complete. We have met all requirements and are approved. Yipee!!
     
    I have been so focused on this surgery and all it entails that I think of nothing else. I dream about protein and vitamins and hydration. My husband has been wonderful and he is a very good planner making sure we have everything we need. He is always like this. I am grateful for that because I am a last minute person and would be out the night before surgery searching for something.
    I feel like this is all that is going on in my life. I think so much about food and eating that I don't even want to eat.......I am hoping our vacation will give me a chance to focus on something else.
     
    I am glad I found this website. I am learning a lot of things both good and bad. I enjoy reading about everyone's triumphs and struggles. It is good to have someone to talk to.....
     
    Thanks for listening.
  9. Like
    Ms. Mannix reacted to HappyCat for a blog entry, Thankfulness   
    It has been almos ten weeks since I was sleeved and I have been having frequent moments of thankfulness for this gift:
     
    My husband can wrap his arms around me when we hug
    My feet don't hurt anymore first thing in the morning so I don't hobble around
    My brain isn't so foggy at work
    I am gaining confidence
    I can tie my gym shoes without losing my breath
    I don't crave nor miss sweets
    My ankles aren't swollen at the end of the day every day
    So I bought some cute sandals and got a teal pedicure!
    My eyes look bigger and not "hooded" anymore
    So I bought new make up and feel beautiful (lovely husband says I have always been beautiful even - and especially - without make up. Love love love him!!!)
    No more buffalo hump
    No one has been negative
    I don't snore anymore (that one never gets old!)
    Not one migraine
    I have more flexibility
    I am more inclined to go to the gym
    My husband said I get up from the couch or bed faster and no longer use my arms to brace or balance myself (I never even realized I did that before)
    I feel younger
    My friends and colleagues have been so supportive and complimentary, which feels good
    My clothes are almost all too big, even the ones that were too small two months ago
     
    I am just so lucky and thankful for getting through the surgery safely, the first part of recovery that was so scary in the week after, having no complications and getting to this point. If I never lose another ounce, I am so much better off than I was before surgery for so many years. I am now 197 lbs and the size 16 clothes that I have are too big (I plan to go shopping this weekend). When my husband married me nine years ago I was 206 so he has never known me any smaller or healthier. He always said he wanted us to go running together but I never thought that could happen. Now it seems possible. I just signed up for a 5K in January 2014 and have started training for it already. That is a huge deal for me.
     
    I am not interested in perfection because that is unrealistic. I am happy to be healthier and to appreciate the mobility that I am gifting to my future golden years. I heard somewhere that thankfulness is essential for good mental health and happiness. So, I am truly grateful for my life and the second chance that I have been given to live it.
     
     
     
  10. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  11. Like
    Ms. Mannix reacted to kw2walker for a blog entry, Stalling   
    I have been reading posts from the site now for a few weeks and I am always amazed when folk post about stalling.
     
    I'm not due for my surgery until the 22nd of this month and like all of us want to know what to expect pre and post surgery, but I am always so amazed at the panic that seems to be displayed when one is not losing weight.
     
    Managing one's expectations would be my advice. We do not gain weight instantly nor will we lose weight that way. We all heal differently and our bodies will react differently. Don't jump on the scale every day, again manage the expectation. Try once a week or do a bi-monthly weigh in.
     
    Be true to yourself. I know for example that I may cheat on my pre-op diet over the next two weeks. But since there are buffers provided by my NUT, I purchased what I will need to succeed, unsweetened applesauce and SF jello. They will be great snacks in between slimfast shakes.
     
    Adjust your diet, use tools that will help, myfitnesspal.com is a good source. Have a good intake of water, and as should be our norm by now, take in protein first.
     
    I think another suggestion is not to give up. We worked so hard to get here, over come all types of problems in order to succeed. Let stall equate to adjust, that is what your body and systems are doing, adjusting. This new way of eating and lifestyle takes some adjusting.
     
    As we continue on our journery I wish us all success.
  12. Like
    Ms. Mannix reacted to kw2walker for a blog entry, My Pre-Op Liquid Diet   
    Yesterday, July 8th started the first day of the liquid diet my doctor requested before surgery. Day one was not bad at all. I was so busy that I did not realize I had not eaten.
     
    Today is a different story. I had my breakfast shake and while riding to work on the train I had my crystal light. My mid-day consisted of another shake followed by another crystal light. I didn't feel bad at all. For lunch I ran to the doctors office to pick up my FMLA paperwork. Once I was back in the office at 1 pm I had another crystal light then half and hour later had another shake. At about 3pm my head is hurting. But I press on it wasn't bone crushing but a dull ache. I get home from work and have yet another shake.
     
    I am in the process of moving this week so for two hours I loaded and unloaded my car and worked up a good funky sweat. Lol. It was a good work out for sure. I need to take something for pain and I did make sure it was not aspirin or ibuprofen. Once I get showered, I plan to have another shake, the last one of the night, anything else will be crystal light.
     
    For tomorrow, I will be so busy with moving that I know I won't have time to focus on food or lack of food. But I have to maintain my strength so that means getting my shakes in.
     
    Well off to the shower I go, these old funky bones need it.
  13. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  14. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  15. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  16. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  17. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  18. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  19. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  20. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from dave61 for a blog entry, Closet Sleever   
    I must admit, I'm a "closet" sleever.
     
    No family or friends know what I'm about to do because I choose not to share. i feel ashamed that i cannot lose the weight on my own. I've been trying for years only to regain the loss weight & then some.
     
    My mother has been petite & tiny all of her life, so shes never understood my plight. If she knew, oh would I hear it... Yup, even at the age of 49, she still tries to be controlling. Our phone discussions are never about life events initially, the 2nd-4th question from her is, "HOW IS YOUR WEIGHT?". {I cringe at this question}
     
    My friends are all shapes & sizes. My smaller friends call WLS a cop out. My overweight and obese friends say they're ok with their weight, but they're always on a "diet".
     
    Instead of acceptance & encouragement, I'm sure I would receive critcism & hateration...{Hateration= a form of jealously and negative emotion about your situation or circumstance, b/c individual isn't able to obtain/acheive the same success}
     
    The "excuse" I plan to use with all (including coworkers) is, I had my gallbladder removed & I'm now watching what I eat with a high protien & low carb diet with excercise incorporated within.
     
    Yes....... this is my story & my truth. MY truth shall set me free.
    Thanks for stopping by...I now feel a little lighter, less burdened.
  21. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from Slim Lola Slim for a blog entry, My First Entry 7/4/2013...Welcome to my blog   
    I'm learning my way, so I apologize in advance for the repition. This was posted yesterday
     
    I've been struggling with my weight since I was a child...Always gaining and never losing.
     
    Excercising, watching what I ate. Green Juicing & organic eating. Cutting back the salt, decreasing the sugar, omiting the bread, bagels & donuts. Stoping the fast food quick trips, increasing the steamed veggies, and loving fish & fowl.
     
    Drinking water, carrying water. Drowning in water. I have water in my car, my desk drawer, a bottle in my purse...It became my newest accessory.
     
    I've done Nutri System, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, and starving. I've used videos, joined classes at the gym, water aerobics, kick boxing, walking & jumping rope around the track. With minimal results, I started crying, lost hope & then binge eating.
     
    I have high blood pressure, sore knee joints, an achy back, & a sad spirit. Yet I continue to smile on the outside, because fluffy people are supposed to be happy & jovial.
     
    I'm a 49 y/o female that needed help.
     
    I started my journey January 2013 by attending a Bariatric Center of Excellence Seminar in the area. It motivated me & I realized this was the help I needed. I immediately signed up and went to my 1st appointment in Feb 2013.
     
    I followed the instructions of my insurance carrier, jumped through all of their hoops, crossed my T's, dotted my I's and was still declined the sleeve in May 2013. I questioned, how can that be when I'm in such bad shape?
     
    The Bariatric Center of Excellence filed an appeal on my behalf June 2013.
     
    I received a call yesterday.
    My appeal was approved, YAY!
    Anxiously awaiting 2mrrw to schedule my Sleeve Day. I'm grinning from the inside out!!
     
    Please be my support.... Thank you for allowing me to share.

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    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from Slim Lola Slim for a blog entry, My First Entry 7/4/2013...Welcome to my blog   
    I'm learning my way, so I apologize in advance for the repition. This was posted yesterday
     
    I've been struggling with my weight since I was a child...Always gaining and never losing.
     
    Excercising, watching what I ate. Green Juicing & organic eating. Cutting back the salt, decreasing the sugar, omiting the bread, bagels & donuts. Stoping the fast food quick trips, increasing the steamed veggies, and loving fish & fowl.
     
    Drinking water, carrying water. Drowning in water. I have water in my car, my desk drawer, a bottle in my purse...It became my newest accessory.
     
    I've done Nutri System, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, and starving. I've used videos, joined classes at the gym, water aerobics, kick boxing, walking & jumping rope around the track. With minimal results, I started crying, lost hope & then binge eating.
     
    I have high blood pressure, sore knee joints, an achy back, & a sad spirit. Yet I continue to smile on the outside, because fluffy people are supposed to be happy & jovial.
     
    I'm a 49 y/o female that needed help.
     
    I started my journey January 2013 by attending a Bariatric Center of Excellence Seminar in the area. It motivated me & I realized this was the help I needed. I immediately signed up and went to my 1st appointment in Feb 2013.
     
    I followed the instructions of my insurance carrier, jumped through all of their hoops, crossed my T's, dotted my I's and was still declined the sleeve in May 2013. I questioned, how can that be when I'm in such bad shape?
     
    The Bariatric Center of Excellence filed an appeal on my behalf June 2013.
     
    I received a call yesterday.
    My appeal was approved, YAY!
    Anxiously awaiting 2mrrw to schedule my Sleeve Day. I'm grinning from the inside out!!
     
    Please be my support.... Thank you for allowing me to share.

  23. Like
    Ms. Mannix got a reaction from Slim Lola Slim for a blog entry, My First Entry 7/4/2013...Welcome to my blog   
    I'm learning my way, so I apologize in advance for the repition. This was posted yesterday
     
    I've been struggling with my weight since I was a child...Always gaining and never losing.
     
    Excercising, watching what I ate. Green Juicing & organic eating. Cutting back the salt, decreasing the sugar, omiting the bread, bagels & donuts. Stoping the fast food quick trips, increasing the steamed veggies, and loving fish & fowl.
     
    Drinking water, carrying water. Drowning in water. I have water in my car, my desk drawer, a bottle in my purse...It became my newest accessory.
     
    I've done Nutri System, Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers, and starving. I've used videos, joined classes at the gym, water aerobics, kick boxing, walking & jumping rope around the track. With minimal results, I started crying, lost hope & then binge eating.
     
    I have high blood pressure, sore knee joints, an achy back, & a sad spirit. Yet I continue to smile on the outside, because fluffy people are supposed to be happy & jovial.
     
    I'm a 49 y/o female that needed help.
     
    I started my journey January 2013 by attending a Bariatric Center of Excellence Seminar in the area. It motivated me & I realized this was the help I needed. I immediately signed up and went to my 1st appointment in Feb 2013.
     
    I followed the instructions of my insurance carrier, jumped through all of their hoops, crossed my T's, dotted my I's and was still declined the sleeve in May 2013. I questioned, how can that be when I'm in such bad shape?
     
    The Bariatric Center of Excellence filed an appeal on my behalf June 2013.
     
    I received a call yesterday.
    My appeal was approved, YAY!
    Anxiously awaiting 2mrrw to schedule my Sleeve Day. I'm grinning from the inside out!!
     
    Please be my support.... Thank you for allowing me to share.

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