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awifeinmichigan

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  6. Posted

    I have two kids.....wishing I could do more with them. I've struggled with my weight my entire life. I use to tell myself' date=' "I'm chunky but healthy!" "I'm not going to be one of those people that counts calories and eats like a bird. I'm gonna eat what I want, when I want!" But what I didn't see was that I was not living. I was not enjoying life and all it offers.....especially being more active with my kids. My BMI is not as high as others.....it's 37.5. And I had a few people say, "you're not fat! You don't need surgery!" But when you've tried everything and its been a daily struggle ever since you can remember and it interferes with your life as a mother........you do need it! You need it for YOU! For your kids! To live longer, live healthier! I'm very happy to say that I began this journey 2 months ago and just this past week, I was approved for surgery! It still feels surreal. I'm scheduled for September 20th. I'm blessed to have supportive people in my life. Very happy I found this forum.[/quote']

    Judy you are telling my story! Congrats on your decision and surgery date.

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    Wow! I had to read this 3 times to make sure it was from you! Come on SISTER. ... this is the beginning of the new you.

    I remember while I was in the hospital ' date='one of my nurses (very pretty face, who had the sleeve done 2 years ago) told me that I would have people "hatin'" or telling me that I shouldn't had done this. We are pretty & some friends don't want to lose their "fat" friend. They will try to discourage us and make us feel regretful.

    You are beautiful now and will be aftrewards. This is just another factor figured into this weight loss procedure. I hope this helps... not sure what else to say, but stay strong! {{{Hugs}}}[/quote']

    I know I have always been upbeat and not caring what others think. Thanks Sis for the pep talk. I'm coming back to my normal attitude. I was just not ready for the negativity today.

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    Awifeinmichigan' date='

    What happened? Remember why you are doing this for yourself. Focus on the health benefits and those who are supportive. Visualize all the positive changes that will come. Imagine a happy, energetic, healthy you post-op and focus on that. Remember we r here for you :). Join a group.[/quote']

    Everyone has that one person who has always been supportive no matter what you do or say. Well my one person decided to tell me they didn't see the benefit in my decision and it had bothered me just a bit. However, I see the benefit and those who don't agree can just watch me from the sidelines and stay fat because I won't be in my future. Also I truly thank the friends that I have made on this site for support and understanding.

  13. Posted

    Hello all. Happy to find a page for African Americans. I just started my journey. My insurance requirements seem pretty common 5 year weight history' date=' psyche and nutrition eval, chest X-ray and a letter from my pcp. My Bmi is 40 and I have hypertension. I will finalize all the insurance requirements by Aug 1st and pray to be sleeved mid September. For those who have been sleeved how gas your skin recovered from the weight loss. I'm no nervous about the extra skin ganging from my arms.[/quote']

    Welcome

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    Well I'm back amongst the living. I was sleeved on the 9th and finally went home Friday evening. Had problems getting my HBP under control' date=' fever, vomiting, and because of my deep short veins - problems with iV. I have bruises ever inch of my arms, wrists, stomach, hands, and finally had to put them in shoulder. Having hard time trying to get Protein drinks n liquids in. I am improving everyday.[/quote']

    I am happy to hear ypu are doing better.

  25. Posted

    Probably the best advice I can give a pre-opper is that in addition to WLS' date=' your attitude will ensure a successful journey.

    Moaning and groaning about head hunger, "stalls", working out, etc will only cloud your ability to fully appreciate this "gift" of modern day medicine to those of us struggling with obesity.

    I will say, without a doubt, my attitude has been my biggest secret weapon throughout this amazing journey.

    Is this easy? No. Am I always feeling fantastic? No. Are there times I wish I could turn to copious amounts of mexican food to drown my sorrows or express my happiness or just because I'm bored? Hell yes!

    I make a conscientious decision, minute-by-minute to make this journey the amazing thing I had hoped it to be.

    Don't ever hesitate to reach out to me if you need a pep-talk! We are all in this together![/quote']

    How awesome are you?! Thank you for this post. It is truly inspiring as a pre-oper.

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