NeverBeTheSameAgain

Thank u so much, im tryin 2 get there...but I had to realize THIS is MY race and as long as I get to the end it don't matter how long it takes!

I also have about 234lbs MORE to lose...50lbs dwn since surgery June 3rd....although I could be doing a lot better, im still in this thing...we can do this. We are all here if u need any advice.

Congratulations

Her weight is NOT the blame for this terrible accident....the ppl who strapped her in did NOT listen to her when she said it on clicked once. Personally, if it woulda only clicked once...I woulda said, "HELL NO, this didn't snap right..let me off." Its sad that even in death she has to be ridiculed about her weight. Although, it was sad Im kinda more concerned about her kids, they were sitting right behind her...their lives will never be the same!

CONGRATS TO YOU GIRL......you're on ur way now!!!!!!!!

Now Im scared 2 do it with him ALL the time & he gets a kick out of it. Its a scary good....lol

OMG ladiessssssss, Please help me...or atleast tell me I'm not alone in this. Ok, so I been sleeved for 7weeks...I have lost 40lbs so far. Heres the situation, my BF is 6'3 & he weighs 190-210lbs...so tall & slim. When we have sex now it feels extra good but it goes much DEEPER! When we do it, I have 2 take small breaks bcuz its a feeling I never felt before. He is just completely excited that he makes me tap out frequently but I wanna know is anybody else feeling that way during sex. I mean Im not skinny yet but sex has shown me that I am losing in the right places I guess. lol

I know, I'm confused & I don't really know what to do.

My doctor is Audencio Alanis & he is VERY good. Im not just saying that because he is my doctor BUT he is awesome. He is knowledgeable & has a good bed side manner. His staff is great!

As all of u know, I had my surgery 6/3/2013...ok in the week of pre op & 2 weeks after, at my post op appointment which was June 20, I found out I lost 30lbs. I had an appointment 2day & I ONLY lost 8 lbs (3 1/2 weeks later). Im so sad, bcuz ppl kept saying "the bigger u are the more weight u lose"...well it don't seem that way at all. Im completely discouraged!!!!! I hate feeling this way bcuz I wanna let my light shine so I can help sombdy else but right now my batteries are low!

So I got a purse for my birthday yesterday & its cute, I was excited BUT they never can fit on my arm.....but not this time....IT FITS & now I don't wanna put it dwn. I guess things are happening

That was for my birthday, yesterday lol

I would have NEVVVVVVVER done a full body shot b4....Im feeling a lil better since I can see a lil

So, I'm going 2 upload a few pics....I don't see much of a change but a LITTLE bit!!!!

Happy Cake Day, 2day is my birthday as well.. & congratulations on the lost, welcome 2 the losers bench!!!!!

I am on the soft foods right now, I think. I need to look at the chart again but I have ONLY been eating softs for now. Im just so worried that I wont get all this weight off....Im trying to keep my head up believe me but its hard!

I am so ________________, I don't even have a word for it! I am 1 month out & I don't think I am loosing any weight. I know I lost 30lbs in the 1st 2 weeks but I think that's it. I don't have a scale because I'm too heavy for a regular one, so I can only weigh when I go to my doctors appointments. I heard that "the larger u are the faster u loose weight" but I don't think this thing is working for me. I feel like a failure, really I do. I'm not excited about this anymore, I don't think I'm getting enough protein & I'm not sure if that makes u loose or not. I'm not eating many carbs because I'm 100% positive that's what got me like this in the 1st place. I'm only drinking water because I'm scared to branch off into anything else. I have already had a UTI & been dehydrated...I'm failing. Please, somebody...ANYBODY help me get on track. I've been feeling like I'm hungry & I KNOW its because I'm sad. HELP, I don't know what 2 do!!!!!

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I dont actually know whats stopping me...I kinda dont know what to eat or maybe Im not eating enuff. I eat eggs or yoguart for breakfast, chicken salad or fish for lunch BUT sometimes I dont eat dinner. I really need to lose this weight so I have to get this right. Just any advice will help!!!!!! I'm also, not motivated to walk or workout. I need some serious help

I am 4 weeks out from having my sleeve & my problem is that I dont get all the protein and I am scared that I wont lose weight because of it. Can anybody give me any suggestions? I have ALOT of weight to lose & I cant let something like that stop me. HELPPPPPPP!!!!!!!

I have that same problem & for me it comes from many yrs of my moma or family member saying "u better eat everything on that plate & u not getting up until then"...So we were forced 2 eat it ALL! Our brains are sponges, so what was put in us..stays in us & I have done the same thing 2 my son's PRE-surgery...now I tell them if their full put the plate away. After all, I'm here due 2 YEARS of over eating. Getting a smaller plate is much more beneficial. I dont have a way 2 measure my food either, so I went to the $1 store & got paper plates (the cake size) & it works. We have 2 play tricks on our own minds so 2 speak. Good luck...u CAN do this

Judy, Im so glad u had the guts 2 address this. I WANT 2 EAT ALL OF MY FAVORITES, & its a constant battle in my head. My mind is saying EAT IT but my stomach is saying U BETTER NOT. I cant lie I have tried somethings & my stomach was very upset with my choices. This surgery should come with a brain zap that makes u forget all of the things u use 2 eat, so we wouldnt have 2 go thru this WORLD WAR within ourselves. I am glad I got this surgery & it will save my life but this is the HARDEST thing I ever had 2 do. This is NOT the easy way out!