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And lucky for me I don't have to wait till 35 BMI - i can do it now!!!

Don't feel too bad if you've seen what he's said to me lately and that other lady. So uncalled for. I never personally attack them or anyone I was stating fact

Also my friend and I were just talking about finding a support group here for us after surgery .. I'm sure there must be an over eaters group of some sort? I do realise its not a switch and its all fixed.

That is an awesome story! I was going to use the excuse of all my friends are tall and skinny but there goes that defence! Lol

Oh good god ... My weight creeps up by itself - even with my boxing fitness ... In a years time I will of definitely gained weight!! As I've learned from the last 10 years ... I'm tired of this battle and of the scales never going down ... I have an active job I don't sit at a computer desk all day - I'm an active person and its very hard to control my weight... I'm not going to purposely gain weight to make strangers feel better - get a grip

To be honest I'm thinking I should wait a year and reach 35 BMI ... I feel like I'm doing something that's wrong now. My parents don't want me going to Mexcio to have surgery and I felt this was a really good support group for me because people understand my feelings. I know I have a problem/addiction to food & I wanted to do this surgery before it got too out of hand... But now I feel that's "wrong" ... I know it will be very hard as I LOVE to eat ... In the last year or two its become a love/hate relationship w food tho... So confused

^^^ to lighten the mood!

Don't know if this matters but I am in fact canadian. I was born in Toronto an moved to Nz when I was 14. When ever I have gone home I always try and look slimmer (as everyone would) and I can't say when in Canada I've had any of my "fat comments" one time I went home for 4 weeks and gained 10 pounds ... Still I didn't feel judged as much as I would of here. Everyone knows I battle w food but maybe it's because they are my childhood friends and wouldn't want to be mean. I know walking around the malls there I would still be considered a "smaller" or "regual" size... Here I'm def bigger

Well that's why I came on here to discuss and to understand with people who have been through it first hand. To be honest I want to leave this site after experiencing things on this thread. I wanted to learn but again am being judged for my weight. I only made some comments to stick up for myself and they were facts - the liver: obviously mine isn't in as much need for the detox as others with higher weights ... Now people are sayin I need "mental help & have serious problems" ... Wtf pretty crappy support group

FINAL NOTE- I want to do this to be healthier & happier ... I haven't seen 1 SINGLE COMMENT of "I wish I never did the surgery" I've exhausted all other avenues and want to use this tool I have available to me as all of you had...

I was ignoring that pathetic cheap shot ... We all obv have some underlying issues or we wouldn't be on here - I would of thought the "smaller" of us would of had less issues lol

No, just at least a BMI of 30 hahahaha

Haha phew!

Me?! Lol I'm on the same side as you!? Or was this to someone else? I hope so - I'm cheering on your team!

I've had more "fat" comment than anyone I know .... It's cruel and its gone on for years ... I thought I would be more accepted on here - but a select few made me feel otherwise