Michele1024

WHAT??? Why won't they cover it? It is not something you could help. I am sorry to hear.

Agree.. don't listen to your doctor... besides 15 lbs off schedual is not so bad in my book. You are doing amazing apparently!

I understand. Yes they don't get it. Understand that if you were drenched she may be the girl to try to offer you a shirt that you or I could never fit into as we are now. Maybe she is just that humble. I would also get frustrated but maybe she didn't mean to be insensitive. She is only trying to relate to her own life experience. Just another angle of things.... I know a few women like this and they really do care about me when they act this way.. Congrats on the approval! Good luck!

You can't put off your life because your are fluffy. Sure you are changing and you will... unfluff (Me too Me too!!! :-) ) You can't keep telling yourself that after I lose weight I will date.... sure we can't do a heck of a lot of things like go on a roller coaster or fit in a stupid booth (myself of course on both of these counts and maybe not you ) but it only leads to putting yourself down more and more. I didn't get the surgery yet. I know I will feel similar about most things you have listed... I already told my boyfriend I will probably cry my eyes out infrustration of not being able to eat what I want. My comfy blanket ripped off of me! I may be a basket case... but please do not put off your life because of your fluff. If you meet the right guy you will find him fluff or no fluff and he will love you either way as he should! You are only beating yourself up and you are your own worst critic. Don't put off your life for shame... odds are you will always find something get annoyed at yourself (as we all do) for so instead lift yourself up and don't wait to live your life until this is perfect.. or that is perfect. We were born unperfect. Perfection will never happen. Find reasons every day to love yourself. HUGS!