It is terrible that it is those memories we keep --- I too have memories from trusted people with the same kind of comments. To them they are stooped in their bad attitude whereas we can move on, and I think you are moving correctly... for what that's worth!
Thanks Tia! I am a week out and is good -- I think anyway -- to know what is coming so that as it does I have information on the fact that this is normal and will go away so I don't have to worry about it when it comes.
You go girl! We shall see this through it's natural course and be better for it!