ThikNjuCee

thanks for the warning!

congrats!!!!!

im still fairly new is this group and i soooooo love it! ive just started to look in the different forums and ive noticed a couple posts ref to "onederland" what is that?

you look awesome!!!!! Congrats!

thank you!

congrats!!!! Im 2/20

Soooo I knew up front that I would have some nay Sayers when it came to my surgery. I expect the "easy way out" comments. But what I didn't expect was the hostility that I get from my son's father. Granted, we are no longer a couple....but we work in the same facility and see each other EVERY DAY. We have recently ( within the last two years) learned to be friends after being apart for 6yrs. We have spoken about me having the surgery and he said he would support me in any way I needed. He said he was " all for you being healthy for our son" . Now I've noticed that if I ask him to pick me up a bottle of water from the store.....he brings back Pepsi (I've had no soda since Sept). If i asked for a piece of fruit or yogurt.....he brings me a pack of Ring Dings. At first I thought he was just being absent minded, but Friday we had this big blow out argument over something that had NOTHING to do with me or anything important....by the end of the argument he showed me exactly how he feels by calling me everything but the child of God....first choice being "fat b#%^h" come to find out (from someone else) he doesn't even want me to have the surgery because he is only attracted to BIG GIRLS! I honestly don't care what he is attracted to because unless he'll freezes over we will NEVER be a couple again. But if I am doing this for health reasons, how could someone be so selfish and try to sabotage what I'm doing because of what they like? Arrrrrgh???? I just had to vent...........

Well he def needs to get over it because we have been over for years.......as far as him being worried about me getting "checked out" lol he always had that problem because even as a big girl ive gotten "checked out" by male and female alike. I understand what you guys are saying tho. It just hurts to find out that the support you thought you had was never really there......just means I'm stronger than I thought, cuz if I can have a bottle of Pepsi in front of me and just hand it back without even a sip I CAN DO ANYTHING!!!! Lol ????❤????

My old PCP was the same way.....he tried in all ways possible to deter me from the WLS. Then one day he flat out said don't ask because I will NEVER give you clearance for it. It was personal reasons that he doesn't refer ANY of his patients for the WLS. I changed my PCP and at my follow up visit from my annual physical my new PCP asked me if I had ever considered having WLS. I almost cried when he brought it up because I had been afraid of his reaction if I brought it up first. I am beyond grateful for my new PCP he has def been a life changer for me!

Oh I forgot to mention he is 6'0 and weighs 350lbs and refuses to lose a pound

Sweet! GOOD LUCK!

WHOO HOOO!!!! I GOT MY DATE!!!! LETS GO!!

CONGRATS!!!

thank you so much guys! :-)

i sure will!!!!

there are three people on my job getting WLS and all of us had dif NUT requirements from our insurances.....MetroPlus Gold ony required 3 mos. from me......while GHI wants 6 mos...

oh....and hurry and ask because you can only take it up to 72 hours after unprotected sex for it to work

if you dont wanna be preggo ask about Plan B (the morning after pill).....i have no idea how being post op would effect being able to take Plan B.....but it doesnt hurt to ask

nervous and excited all at once!

im super excited and nervous all at once

SWEET!!! Congratulations!!!