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Thanks for posting that sweet photo! After just losing my boy it makes me happy that I can look at sweet photos like Susie's & still smile w/joy! I just want to give her a big bear hug!

Best of luck on your big day!!! That is great news! Let us know your home & healing as soon as your able. As to the ticker thingy go do a search on ticker tape & it explains it step by step in another thread. I always have to re-read the thread when I redo mine! See You on the Banded side!!!!

You have every right to be pissed & frusterated. The begining of my 7th week is when I had my first fill. I told the doctor that I hadn't lost any weight for the last two weeks which was true. Also even though I had only tried bread one time- that an entire pita went down with no problems at all. He said that normally if his patience can eat anything at this point he gives them a 1.5 cc of a fill. I said I was leaving for a trip the next week & didn't want to be too filled so only to give me 1.cc. He agreed. well since my trip was delayed, I now think I may go back for that .5cc- I don't have too much restriction but will wait to see if I am losing 1 to2 pds a week first. I think its crappy what your going through. You need straight answers & need to be able to reach the Doctor when you need him. Confusion isn't what you paid for. Even in the inamed handbook it stated that the normal fill is "around" 8 weeks out - that means give or take a week in my book. I hope you get your fill & do incredible with it!

HORRRRRRRRRRAYYYYYYY For MICKI!!!!!!!!!!!!! You'll do great- I too was very scared & nervous & wondering what the heck I got myself into. I remember posting the day before just like you! Now looking back & thinking what I was feeling when reading everyone elses posts I realize they all were telling me the truth! Not that I didn't think they were- just that it truely wasn't a big deal & that I would be happy when it was all done. You'll be so excited after & ready to commit to your new life- I am almost 2 months out & am finding a new found way of eating & feeling more determined to be healthy! Post us as soon as your able- Be strong- it will all work out perfectly!!!

That was me to the tee- without the DH to support my decision. I wasn't 100% sure going into the surgery room. I was about 88% I'd say-LOL I was so nervous & usually I am an extreme calm cucumber. But I had done the research-knew it was reversible & knew I couldn't keep staying where I was or worse get fatter. I knew one thing was for sure- it was me that was going to have to loose the weight & at least with the band I would have a "saftey net built-in" Not saying that that would always catch me BUT that it would always remind me what I got myself into & that it was work. The only other alternative was to try AGAIN by myself & lose it AGAIN by myself & than sorry to GAIN it all back & than some-oh yeah by MYSELF. Family would say thats not the right attitude to have & of course you'll fail if you think you'll gain it all back- BUT really they have NO CLUE what I have gone through my whole life- they have never stuggled with more than 10 pds any of them. I needed a built in support system to help me this time- I am so glad to have my band. I only have one worry- that Lord forbid I may one day lose my band. I pray everynight that God lets my body except this instument & that I may be successful with this tool & forever be healthy & happy with my weight when I reach my goal. He has never let me down, Thank God! lol ;0)

Lisa- Can you list your address & directions to give a cabi- Looks like were all staying in different hotels so we'll all need directions & aprox. how far it is for a cab ride. What time & day to arrive at your home & what you may want us to bring:0) Also where is this Friday nite dinner meeting? Maybe we should start a new thread with just the info on it because this one is so long- just a thought. Can't wait till Sept!!!!!!!!

Welcome back Helen!!!!!!!!!! (((KICK IN THE BUTT))) That was what you needed so that is what you'll get. Good for you for getting back in control- start by reading everything you can on LBT - your mind will soon remember all the good rules to follow. Take this weekend to set yourself up for success! Clean out the house of all the crap & go shopping for the right stuff! Have yourself a big garage sale next week & do a huge cleansing of the entire home if possible. Prepare some meals ahead of time that are band friendly & freeze them. Buy yourself the "bullet" just for fun to say I am back on track & ready to stay there. Be mindful of what is around you & how you can exercise a little more than you did the day before. Even if its just 10 mins. Set small goals for yourself that are obtainable. You can do this- YOU HAVE DONE THIS BEFORE :0) Good for you taking control back- thats the first step! Wow even I am more motivated now-LOL LOL

WELCOME HOME - BEAUTIFUL BUTTERFLY!!!!! So happy your home sweetie!!! Well I know some of the pain your going through. I too had lipo of the stomach- thighs & butt. Please I know you won't- but you must be EXTRA careful about any weight gain in the future. My tush is now & has been deformed for years bacause I gained weight after lipo. It looks awful- the GREAT news is it seems to be getting better as I lose my weight with the band. Don't those over garmets suck the big one! you poor thing- I feel the frustration & not to mention its summertime! Wow- I waited till winter just because I knew about those horrible garments. Well you take extra care of yourself & stay thin. Your TT will have been the best thing you could have done- i think all women should have one if they are able too. The Lipo- for me thats a different story. Except the Lipo under my chin was FANTASTIC> Good Bless & I am so happy your safe & sound. Can't WAIT FOR THE PHOTOS!!!

Darcey- My heart is so sad that you lost your band. But so happy that your are home & safe & feeling better. My prayer are w/you & a quick recovery!

I am 38 & second guessed myself up until they rolled me in. I had lost 7 pound in less than two weeks. I usually only had diet coke everyother day if that. Iwas a healthy eater- but a very large portioned eater. My truest down fall was laziness- stopping at fast food instead of going shopping & cooking. The great thing w/my band is that if I do cook - the meal that used to last for just lunch -now last for lunch- dinner & sometimes the next day. i can handle that:0) Yes the weight is slow go but I have yet to even start exercising! Its just too darn hot here the last month or more. I know thats an excuse but I am still so happy- today i am down 21 pounds.!! Whoo hoo ... I had a party Thursday & eat too much- but had such a great time. I gained two pounds back- BUT I know if I am good the next few days they will come off- I just need to stop with the party food & get back to the healthier foods. So soory- back to your delemia(spelling?) Yes its so very normal too go back & forth. Complications are more rare than you think & many are fixable should they occur. My advice is to stay in the states & go for it! I too knew I could lose 30-40 pounds again on my own BUT I also knew I would put it back on a year or two later & than some. It was bound to happen. Now with my "new tool" i have a built in saftey net that is there to help me when I forget or fall back a little. Its only been since June 3rd for me but so far I am happy. Go for it - you'll be happy. Especially if you have more than 60 pds to loose. Good Luck

HIjack- Hi Teresa- its been sad since I lost Gunnar as you know- BUT I am getting so much better & I have a fill now of 1 cc & can tell! Plus I can't wait for Vegas & Hopefully this fall will be able to see if this calendar thing is gonna do anything or not. I saw a boxer in one of your photos if i recall. Lucky dog! You look so good Girl keep up that great work! I'll be in touch. Happy summer.

Me too- I just thought I got a BUG on my computer- spent the last 15 mins reconfiguring my security- till I read your quote- Kathy- LOL Glad it just wasn't me- LOL LOL LOL Nice photos gals - you both look great & soo darn happy Good for you!!!:0)

Tomorrow- wow thats exciting!!!!!!!!!!!! I was under for 45 mins I was told. Its a snap you be awake before you know it & banded & saying darn I wish I would have done this a year ago! Hurray For your BIG DAY!!! Congrats

WELCOME DR.P Dr.Pleatman is the surgeon that performed my lapband surgery. I hope everyone will say hello. He is a great asset to those of us in need of a knowledgeable, reliable, afforable Doctor. I know that we will truely benefit from his expertise. He is so wonderful at answering questions but hopefully we all will take the time to do searches & view his site prior to asking. If you can't find an answer, I know he will do his best to answer your concerns quickly & honestly. On a personal note he & his staff are extremly caring. I respect them all. Great question on erosion Kathy! I think we all worry about that one.

Hi everyone- just wanted to share an update. I am doing better mentally since my sweet boy was put down. Yes- I still say goodnite to him every night but I am doing well I think. My bruising from the hematoma is only about 3% left & hasn't changed in weeks. I think it will be there for a long time. My scars look FANTASTIC! I need to post a photo & will try to this weekend. Well I went for my first fill yesterday & Dr.P gave me one numbing shot & than flushed out all the air that may possible be in there. I was laying on a table & he used a sonogram to locate the exact location of the port. He nailed it on the first try- no problems. The only thing that stung just a bit was the numbing shot- the rest I really didn't feel but I could feel the needle hit the metal port & move around a bit- very weird!! Like a metal object in a bowl of jelly.:0) Than he proceeded to give me 1cc. He said normally he gives 1.5cc to those that can eat anything which is me but I asked for only 1cc. I am going away next week & didn't want to be to full & away from home if there was a problem. He said I can come back anytime for a little more if I need it. Its only been 1 day & I don't feel much restriction at all. However, I have heard from those of you more experienced that it could "KICK" in a week later. So I guess I will have to use my own mental restaint untill then. Hopefully my first fill will help the weight come off- I had gained a pound last week & haven't lost in awhile. Hope everyone is well. Christina:D

NOW thats what I call a good daughter- someone is very proud of you! I myself am a closet bandster & am very happy I am! I wouldn't want to be outed. I have alot less pressure than most outed bandsters do! Congrats on your date- its around the corner & you come through w/flying colors! So happy you have the support at home.

WHOOHOO KATERZZ! I know your flying high w/that news girl! Way to go! How exciting & its omly going to get better all the time now. I am thrilled for your size lost! I hope your dh is so very very proud of you! Great JOB!!!!!!!!!!!

Thinking of you today & sending you the loads of ((HUGGS))! Please ley us know how crazy wonderful your Monday is!!!!!

Mae- I know for a fact that Dr.Mark Pleatman does many revisions for patience who were once seen by other Doctors. He even recently posted here on this site. If you do a search for Dr.Pleatman some info will come up. It may be another option for you. I have been very happy with him. Its always good to hve options;0)

sleep well & thats one lucky dog- I bet he/she is happy your home with them!

Any form of verbal abuse- is abuse!! Be it in jest or serious it is uncalled for and not exceptable. I was in an abusive marriage & know all to well the mental damage it can do years later. I also happen to be an extremely strong woman & secure. BUT abusive languge is not right- in anyform when directed in angry towards anyone. I would right that gal up on an official report at the company & demand a sincere apology! As to going back to work- I am sure you will find that the majority of people were just as offened by her words as you were. I bet you find more support on Monday than you ever thought. Head up you beautiful woman you! Be strong & be kind. Good Luck

Welcome Aboard MAE!! WOW A real goal obtainer!!! Not to mention a true veterian!! So glad to hear of your success'. I too am curious as to your kowing about the slippage. Please tell us more details & let us know when you are schedualed for your revision so we can follow your progress. So glad to have you here with all of us. Your perspective will be much appreciated & hopefully our support will help you along your journey.

Has anyone ever order & used the total body builder by Body By Jake? It looks decent for the price & size.

Great news- LOads of Love Girl & super healing going your way!

Ok I know this is funny but I totally couldn't wear a bra for three weeks!!! After a week the "girls" were to heavy to support with just my arms any more & a bra was totally out of the question. So I took an old white tank top & rigged it up in the middle -- I took one barret on one side & one on the other side & attached the middle to either strap going on my shoulder. It ended up looking like a funky bathing suit top but was soft enough to wear & helped get the girls slightly back where they belonged. It worked great for the next week & by then I could wear a bra with an extended strap in the back of it for the next two weeks & than my regular bra after that. Good luck with it!