BigGirlPanties

BOL!!! That was some creative writing!!! Now I'm torn, shall I buy some or not??? Thanks, I needed this today! WHERE did you find this stuff! Hysterical!

found this post and LOVING it... about halfway thru all the NSVs.... so I'd like to add of few of mine: 1. was able to cross my legs was HUGE when I realized I could do that...but I was able to cross them in a movie theater and had room!!! 2. the pants falling down issue happened with me too, my new friend-a belt!!! I never used one before. 3. smaller EVERYTHING... donated to GW and cleared out closet...the other day I was wearing one of my newer blouses and my friend told me to get rid of it, it's too big and made me look frumpy! I'm sure there have been many more, but just being able to walk up a flight of stairs without losing my breath speaks to the healthier side of me...LOVE MY SLEEVE!!!!

We all have the problem of giving too much information... I don't see the real problem with what you said, you were being honest...did you speak with her about your concerns for a February surgery date and see if there is something that you can work out? Seems a bit ridiculous that they have that kind of power; but I know they do...because I was told I had to pass the eval as well when I had my surgery...and part of it was a "test" on a computer that took almost an hour ... which was stupid, since anyone with a brain would know how to answer those things "correctly"... I also had to attend a nutritional class with an addition counselor...during the class, she kept telling one guy he was SOOOO not ready for surgery; and I had to agree with her, the things he was saying was RIDICULOUS for someone with a weight problem... in the end, it's all worth it if you do it the right way! Good luck

there is a guide somewhere... you can probably ask your surgeon...the one I remember is the Protein (fish/meat/chicken) would be about the size of a deck of cards... since protein is the most important, thats the one I remember; so when we go out, I cut my portion and then get a "to-go" box for the rest for lunch the next day I know that's just a little thing, but hope it helps

Each insurance has different criteria for the surgery; actually I am kind of surprised they talked to him about YOU (HIPAA)...but they probably answered in general terms. When I checked with mine, they said that it is a covered benefit if the Dr shows the medical necessity for it...but my surgeon has that under control ... but it still took about 3 months for everything to process and for me to complete all the pre-op stuff before I was scheduled... but I would not trade it for anything!!!

Glad today is a better day... you may not be getting enough on your pre-op diet... I remember the first day or two were difficult...but I had my mind set in the right way and then it was fine! Some people do struggle more than others...but find someone you can talk to...even if it is a therapist... it's an uphill battle, but YOU CAN DO IT!

I had mine removed prior to surgery (like 5 years prior)... but if you are having it removed, it shouldn't have anything to do with the surgery... whatever the case...good luck... I was in the hospital longer for that thing that my sleeve surgery!

Never heard of it...tried to google it; but can't access it from work... my suggestion...don't try anything like that without talking to your NUT or doctor! ...but that's just me

Living in Georgia, I don't get the opportunity to wear leather often, but I still have one I LOVE from when I lived in Chicago (need it when I go to visit)... I will hate giving it up... guess I'll need to find a new one for my Midwest visits... and yes, I feel so good in it, like you, RJ, it brings my "sexy back"

My hubby is happy that my "Big Girl Panties" are skimpier and he has convinced me to buy some push-up bras and show the "girls" a bit more (usually when we are out together only)... he's so cute... 10 years and he still grabs at me too... I just love him to pieces!!! He was there when I was HUGE and he supports me as I reduce; he just wants me to be happy... but I'm sure he'd be happy with me wearing some boots, etc too ... Life is too short not to enjoy the simple pleasures! Congrats RJ (and y'all) on still having someone in your life that loves you like that! <3

If you choose not to tell them the truth, just tell them you have chosen to eat healthier this year... try to leave it at that and hopefully you won't get peer pressure to have "just one bite"... In my office, we all work in cubes that are 6' tall ... so it took quite some time for someone to even notice (I eat lunch at my desk)... so I had no problem here... good luck!

yes...did your dr prescribe something for the nausea? Mine did and it seemed to help... I seem to remember I took it for a few months after my surgery... and it should/will pass... call and ask WHAT you should take... they also say natural ginger is good for that, but I've never tried it

sounds like a little of both!!!!

In the beginning, I had a few like that; but as the food "bulks" up, so will your routine. Just be ready for constipation... a benefit from eating right?!?! Crazy, huh?

...this too shall pass. You have to remember, you had SURGERY... so your energy level is diminished as you heal... don't rush yourself... step by step

Coffee (especially) and some teas can be an irritant... caffeine whets your appetite, so it makes you feel hungry... I have decaf iced tea ALL the time...with tocani SF syrup (raspberry) or splenda/stevia... I don't like any of the other crystal lights etc ... yet...

Congrats...yes, self-pay does go a LOT faster than those of us that had to wait for insurance approval... good luck... no worries, be happy

look under recipes under the home page... if I remember correctly, there was a link with a TON of them... you can also try TheWorldAccordingToEggface.com for recipes

Patience is a virtue...and I've NEVER said I was virtuous ... LOL I'm at a bit of a stand still now...but I understand your pain...just as I was about to be approved; I got new insurance...so I had to wait until I qualified for FMLA (1 year) and start all over again... but it's WORTH it!

Probably... I have one at the surgeons office that I see every few months now, but she really doesn't help that much...or maybe I haven't felt the need for her. Between the sites here and the monthly bariatric meetings I attend, I get a LOT of nutritional info/insight... so you are not really alone on this!

be very careful when you stray into that section...it might even be too soon for you... check with your dr on some crunchy alternatives... some of those vegetable chips, etc., have hidden junk in them...read your labels, but you'd be better off making something yourself...check online bariatric recipes for help

I bought Celebrate in the beginning, but with the sleeve we don't have to be that picky about our Vitamins...just be sure there isn't a lot of sugar, I usually get mine on a buy one/get one from CVS, now (a year later) I'm on a multi-Vitamin, CoQ-10, Biotin, calcium citrate chews and D3... but everyone is different on what their doctors want them to take...

in the beginning, i did weigh myself often...but now, once a week or every other week... I try not to be obsessed by the number on the scale; but more of how I am feeling...

It is so sad to hear/see how friends and family members react to our loss... fortunately, mine have been supportive on all fronts; but I have not lost it all ...YET... and my sister had a full gastric about 10 years ago... I hope the best for all of you that were affected this way and hope you find someone that is supportive and understanding...maybe another sleever ... love going out to all ! <3