My husband is 1 day post op and I can tell you from the other side of the coin what he might be feeling.... At about 2 months pre op I started to feel a little neglected by my husband. And let me tell you, he is usually very attentive to me. I guess I started feeling jealous of the time and attention he started putting into preparing for the surgery. I supported him 100% and i am willing to help him all the way, but I did feel like something was already coming between us. one day I sat him down and talked to him about this, and he reassured me he is still interested in my life too. I quickly got over it and we were back to normal. I have been by his side from the beginning and will always support him, like I know he is for me