I am one month out today. I have zero regrets. I was lucky, the pain was manageable most of the time. I recovered quickly. The lifestyle change is a challenge. I struggle to get in enough calories, Water and/or Protein depending on the day. Today I wasn't hungry so the calories are low but the protein and water are good. Yesterday it was my water that was too low. Eh, I live and I learn. I wouldn't trade the last 6 weeks for anything (I'm counting the crappy pre-op diet too) and here's why: I just regained at least a third of my wardrobe back- my clothes fit better, I can wear high heels all day again comfortably (and you better know that I am rocking them every day right now!), I have had at least half a dozen people tell me how great I look in the last two weeks, I got my glow back- literally my skin is smooth and glowing, I am a slow loser and I'm ok with it- no one knows I had WLS! I'm losing my double chin, I can cross my legs more comfortably, and the best yet- I'm finding me again- my internal strength to make better choices for myself.
OP-I don't know you and I don't know if WLS is right for you or how you will fair afterward but I hope your experience is like mine. Sure I've had some bad days (can you say constipation) but man I wouldn't trade any of the bad for all the great stuff above. Best of luck in your journey and to all the struggling sleevers that post.